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Marama Whakapehapeha: E toru nga Take ki te Whakarongo me te Korero

"Me ata noho marire i mua i te rereketanga ka noho i o taatau koiora ki te whakauru me te miharo ki te rereketanga o te tangata." - George Takei

Ki te Take

Kaua tetahi e tu ki te tutu, te tukino, te mamae ranei me te noho puku na te mea he rereketanga era i tetahi atu. He nui te ao mo tatou katoa.

Kaua e pohehe, he whanui te whanui LGBTQ. Nau mai haere mai! Kaore he pouaka, kaore he kaapata, kaore he rohe mo te rama whaanui auaha e kitea ana i nga wheako o te tangata. He pehea te tangata e tautuhi ana, e hono ana, e whakaatu ana i a ia ano he motuhake.

Whakatauhia kia noho tuwhera ki te maarama ki nga korero a tetahi atu.

Taku Kōrero

I tipu ake ahau me te kore e mohio he whiringa aku. I huna e au aku kare-a-roto, i a au ano. I te kura tuarua, ka maumahara au ki te tangi i taku tirohanga atu ki tetahi hoa piri e kihi ana i tana hoa rangatira. Kare au i paku mohio he aha au i pouri ai. Ko ahau clueless. He iti noa taku mohio ki a au ano.

Whai muri i te kura tuarua, ka marenatia ahau ki tetahi taangata pai i te taha o taku taha; tokorua a maatau tamariki ataahua. Tata ki te tekau tau, he tino pai te ahua o te ora. I au e whakatipu ana i aku tamariki, ka tiimata taku aro ki te ao e karapoti nei i ahau. I maarama ahau ko aku whiringa i mahia mai i nga tumanakohanga a nga hoa me te whanau. I tiimata ahau ki te whakaae ki nga kare i roa e huna ana ahau.

I te wa i pai au ki te korero ki taku taha o roto… me te mea ka hemo taku manawa tuatahi.

Kaore i taea e au te noho puku. Heoi, ko te aitua e whai ake nei i whai ake, i noho mokemoke ahau me te koretake. I paruparu taku marenatanga, i mamae aku tamariki, i whakarereke ano taku koiora.

He maha nga tau o te maaramatanga-ake, te ako me te whakamaimoa ki te whakaora. He uaua ahau i etahi wa ka kore nga mema o te whanau e paatai ​​mo taku wahine, mo to taatau oranga ranei. Ki taku mohio ko ta raatau korero korero he whakaatu i te kore whakaae. He maarama ki ahau, kaore au e uru ki ta raatau pouaka. Akene ko aku korero kaore i ahuru. Ahakoa tenei, kei te tau taku wairua. Kua noho tahi maua ko taku wahine mo te 10 tau. He harikoa matou, he pai ki te ora. Kua pakeke aku tamariki, a, he whanau ake a raatau whanau. Kua ako au ki te aro ki te noho ki te ora aroha me te whakaae ki a au me etahi atu.

To Panui

Ahakoa kei hea koe, ko wai ranei, rapua he huarahi hei hora i to maarama mo nga korero a tetahi atu. Whakaritehia he waahi haumaru mo etahi atu kia noho ki te waahi kei roto i tenei waa. Tukua etahi atu kia noho ko wai raatau kaore he whakatau. Whakahere tautoko ina tika ana. Engari, ko te mea nui, me whakarongo mai.

Mena kaore koe i te mema o te hapori LGBTQ, uru atu ki te hoa hono. Kia tuwhera ki te whaanui i to maarama mo nga wheako o tetahi atu. Awhina ki te wawahi i nga pakitara o te kuaretanga.

He LGBTQ koe? Kei te korero koe? Kei te raru koe, kua noho wehe, kua tukino ranei? Kei te waatea he rauemi, he roopu ranei ka uru atu koe ki roto. Rapua nga waahi haumaru, nga kanohi, me nga waahi hei whakatipu. Whakapa atu, hono atu, koa koa ki to koiora. Mena kaore o tautoko mai i o hoa me to whanau - hangaia he hononga kaha ki te hunga e tuku ana i a koe ki te whakaputa korero. Ahakoa ko hea koe i to haerenga, kaua e haere koutahi anake.

E toru nga Take ki te Whakarongo

  • He korero to te katoa: Whakarongo ki tetahi korero, kia tuwhera ki te whakarongo mo tetahi atu wheako, whakaputa-ake ranei i a koe ake.
  • He mea nui te ako: Whakawhānuitia to matauranga, matakitaki i te pakipaki tautoko a LGBTQ, uru atu ki te whakahaere LGBTQ.
  • He Kaha te Mahi: Kia kaha ki te huri. Kia tuwhera ki nga korerorero i roto i te waahi haumaru. Whakarongo ki nga huarahi hei taapiri i te uara ki te hapori LGBTQ.

E toru nga Take ki te Korero

  • He mea nui koe: Tohaina to korero, o ingoa ingoa, o hononga, o wheako koiora me te tautuhi i o tumanakohanga.
  • Nau ake te Mana: Kei te mohio koe ki a koe - he pai ake i tetahi atu! Ko to reo, to whakaaro me to urunga e hiahiatia ana. Hono atu ki te roopu LGBTQ, ki to whakahaere ranei.
  • Haere i te Korero: Kia waatea ki te awhina i etahi atu ki te whakatipu - hoa, hoa / whanau, hoa mahi ranei. Kia atawhai, kia maia, kia tika!

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