Malire Ndiabwino: Zomwe Ndidaphunzira Pogwira Ntchito Ndi Ana Oyamba Kusukulu Ndi Autism
Zinali zaka 10 zapitazo pamene ndinavomera koyamba ntchito yanga monga paraprofessional m'kalasi yapasukulu yapasukulu ya Cherry Creek. Ndinkadziwa kuti ndimakonda kugwira ntchito ndi ana, makamaka achichepere osakwana asanu. Kalasi iyi idapangidwa kuti ikhale yapadera kwa ine, inali kalasi yophunzirira ana azaka zapakati pa ziwiri ndi zisanu omwe adapezeka ndi autism kapena masitaelo ophunzirira ngati autism.
Ndinali nditangosiya kumene ntchito yomwe inali yoopsa kwambiri yomwe mungaganizire. Nkhanza zopukutidwa kuti ziwoneke ngati kusilira ndi chikondi zinali zomwe ndidadziwa kwa zaka zambiri ndisanayambe ntchito yanga ngati para mu 2012. Sindimadziwa kuti ndikuyenda ndi PTSD yosawerengeka, ndipo sindimadziwa momwe ndingasamalire. ndekha m'njira yathanzi. Ndinazindikira kuti ndinali wopanga komanso wokonda kusewera komanso wokonda kugwira ntchito ndi ana.
Nditayang'ana m'kalasi yatsopano m'kalasi langa loyamba, ndinaona kuti kuphulika kwa utoto kumene nthawi zambiri kunkadutsa kusukulu kunali kotsekedwa ndi mapepala apulasitiki omangika pamashelefu amatabwa. Panalibe zikwangwani zopachikidwa pamakoma, ndipo kapeti yonse yozungulira kutsogolo kwa chipindacho inkapezeka pansi. Ndinakumana ndi gawo lathu loyamba la ana, mitima yaying'ono inayi yomwe inali yosalankhula. Ana ameneŵa, ngakhale kuti nthaŵi zambiri sankatha kulankhula monga ndinazolowera, anali odzala ndi zilakolako ndi zokonda. Ndinawona momwe kalasi yopangidwira masewera abata ndi mwadala inali njira yoti anawa asaderedwe kwambiri ndi malo awo. Kukondoweza mopitirira muyeso kungayambitse kusungunuka, kuganiza kuti dziko likuchoka pamzere wake ndikukhalanso bwino. Chimene ndinayamba kuzindikira, pamene masiku amasanduka masabata, masabata kukhala zaka, ndinali kulakalaka kwambiri malo abwino, opanda phokoso kuti ndikhalepo mwa ine ndekha.
Ndinamva kale "wobadwa kuchokera ku chipwirikiti, amamvetsetsa chipwirikiti chokha.” Izi zinali zoona kwa ine pa nthawi ya moyo wanga pamene ndinkagwira ntchito ngati para. Ndinali wachinyamata, ndikulimbana ndi mavuto a ukwati wa makolo anga, komanso moyo wosokonezeka ndi wowononga ndi ntchito zanga zaukatswiri. Ubwenzi wanga ndi chibwenzi changa unapititsa chipwirikiti chipwirikiti chomwe ndinadzuka, kudya, ndi kugona. Sindinali ndi masomphenya a moyo wopanda sewero ndipo zinkawoneka ngati kamvuluvulu wosokonekera komanso wokayikakayika. Zomwe ndinapeza mu ntchito yanga m'kalasi yokonzedwa bwino ndikuti kulosera kwa ndondomekoyi kunanditonthoza, pamodzi ndi ophunzira anga. Ndinaphunzira, kuchokera kwa anzanga ndi akatswiri omwe ndinagwira nawo ntchito limodzi, kuti ndikofunika kuchita zomwe mukunena kuti mudzachita, pamene mukunena kuti muzichita. Ndinayambanso kukhulupirira kuti anthu akhoza kuthandiza ena popanda kuyembekezera kubweza kalikonse. Malingaliro onsewa anali achilendo kwa ine koma anandikankhira ku chiyambi cha moyo wathanzi.
Ndikugwira ntchito m'kalasi, ndinaphunzira kuti malire ndi ofunika kwambiri, ndipo kukakamiza zomwe mukufunikira sikuli kudzikonda koma kofunika.
Ophunzira anga, odziwika bwino kwambiri komanso olumikizidwa mwamatsenga, adandiphunzitsa zambiri kuposa momwe ndimayembekezera kuti ndidawaphunzitsa. Chifukwa cha nthawi yanga m'kalasi yopangidwira dongosolo, zodziwikiratu, ndi zowona, kulumikizana koona ndinatha kuyenda ndekha mumsewu wosokoneza wopita ku zenizeni ndi thanzi. Ndili ndi ngongole zambiri za khalidwe langa kwa iwo omwe sanathe kusonyeza kuya kwake m'njira yomwe anthu onse amamvetsetsa. Panopa, ana amene ndinkagwira nawo ntchito ali kusukulu ya pulayimale ndipo akuchita zinthu zodabwitsa. Ndikuyembekeza kuti aliyense amene amakumana nawo amaphunzira momwe ndinachitira, kuti malire ndi okongola, ndipo ufulu ukhoza kupezeka pa maziko a zodziwikiratu.