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Chimwemwe Chimachitika Mwezi

Mwezi wa Chimwemwe Umachitika ndi Gulu Lachinsinsi la Anthu Osangalala mu August 1998. Linakhazikitsidwa kuti likondweretse chisangalalo ndi kumvetsetsa kuti kukondwerera chimwemwe chathu kungakhale kupatsirana kwa omwe ali pafupi nafe. Imalimbikitsa malo a positivity ndi chisangalalo. Ndinaganiza zolemba za Mwezi wa Chimwemwe Chimachitika chifukwa nditawerenga kuti pali mwezi wotero, sindinaumvere. Sindinafune kupeputsa zovuta zomwe moyo ungakhale nazo. Ziwerengero zawonetsa kuti pakhala chiwonjezeko cha 25% cha kuchuluka kwa nkhawa komanso kukhumudwa padziko lonse lapansi kuyambira mliriwu. Polemba positi iyi, sindinkafuna kuchepetsa zovuta za aliyense kuti apeze chisangalalo.

Komabe, nditalingalira pang’ono, ndinapeza kuti ndinakonda lingaliro la “Chimwemwe Chimachitika.” Ndikapeza kuti palibe chisangalalo, ndichifukwa choti ndimayang'ana chimwemwe kukhala chopambana. Kuti ngati ndikwaniritsa zinthu zina zomwe ndikuganiza kuti zingandisangalatse, ndiye kuti ndiyenera kukhala wosangalala, sichoncho? Ndaona kuti palibe chimene chimapangitsa moyo kukhala wosangalala. Mofanana ndi ambiri a ife, ndaphunzira kuti moyo uli ndi mavuto amene timapirira ndipo chifukwa cha chipirirocho timapeza mphamvu. Mawu akuti “Chimwemwe Chimachitika” amanena kwa ine kuti zikhoza kuchitika nthawi iliyonse mumkhalidwe uliwonse. Kuti pakati pa tsiku lomwe tikungopirira, chimwemwe chikhoza kuyambitsidwa ndi manja osavuta, kucheza kosangalatsa ndi wina, nthabwala. Ndizinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimayatsa chisangalalo.

Imodzi mwa njira zosavuta kwambiri zolumikizirana ndi chisangalalo ndikungoyang'ana nthawi ndikuyang'ana zomwe zikuchitika kuzungulira ine. Nkhawa za dzulo kapena mawa zimasungunuka ndipo ndimatha kuyang'ana pa kuphweka kwa mphindi. Ndikudziwa kuti pompano, zonse zili bwino. Chimene chimandibweretsera chimwemwe ndicho chitetezo ndi chitetezo cha nthawi yamakono. M'buku la Eckhart Tolle "Mphamvu ya Tsopano," akutero, "Mukangolemekeza mphindi yomwe ilipo, kusasangalala konse ndi zovuta zimatha, ndipo moyo umayamba kuyenda ndi chisangalalo komanso momasuka."

Zokumana nazo zanga zasonyeza kuti chitsenderezo ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukhala osangalala zingayambitse kusasangalala. Akafunsidwa kuti "kodi ndinu okondwa?" Sindikudziwa momwe ndingayankhire funsolo. Chifukwa chiyani chimwemwe chimatanthauza chiyani? Kodi moyo ndendende momwe ndimayembekezera? Sichoncho, koma ndicho chenicheni chokhala munthu. Nanga chimwemwe n’chiyani? Ndiloleni ndinganene kuti ndi mkhalidwe wamalingaliro, osati mkhalidwe wakukhala. Ndikupeza chisangalalo pakati pa zokwera ndi zotsika za tsiku lililonse. Kuti mumphindi yamdima kwambiri, phokoso lachisangalalo likhoza kudziwonetsera lokha ndikukweza kulemera kwake. Kuti mumphindi zowala kwambiri, titha kukondwerera chisangalalo chomwe timamva ndikuchepetsa kupsinjika koyesa kusunga nthawiyo. Nthawi zachisangalalo zimadziwonetsa nthawi zonse, koma ndi ntchito yathu kuzimva.

Chimwemwe sichingayesedwe ndi wina aliyense koma ife eni. Chimwemwe chathu chimadalira pa kukhoza kwathu kukhala ndi moyo mogwirizana ndi mmene moyo ulili. Kukhala m'njira yomwe imalemekeza kulimbana kwinaku mukukumbatira chisangalalo chomwe nthawi zosavuta zimapanga. Sindikhulupirira kuti chisangalalo ndi chakuda kapena choyera … kuti ndife okondwa kapena osakondwa. Ndikhulupilira kuti kutengeka kwathunthu ndi mphindi zapakati ndi zomwe zimadzaza moyo wathu ndikuphatikiza mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya moyo ndi momwe chimwemwe chimachitikira.

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