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Kumanyala Kumalo Ogwira Ntchito

By George R

“Kuseka ndi gawo la luso la utsogoleri, kukhala bwino ndi anthu, kuchita zinthu.” Dwight D. Eisenhower

"Chodabwitsa ndichakuti anthu sakhala opanda pake ngati momwe amadzionetsera." Oscar Wilde

“Kuseka kwambiri momwe ungathere, nthawi zonse useke. Ndi chinthu chokoma kwambiri chomwe munthu angadzichitire yekha komanso ndi mnzake zolengedwa. ” Maya Angelou

Ndasankha mutuwu chifukwa, koposa zonse, nthabwala ndizomwe zimandipangitsa tsiku lantchito. Abambo anga amapeza zoseketsa m'zonse ndipo nthawi zonse amafuna kuti nthabwala zidziwike mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, mikhalidwe yomwe adandipatsa. Amayi a amayi anga atamwalira, adatulutsa nkhunda zoyera pamaliro ake. Abambo anga adadabwa mokweza ngati pakhala pali owonera akalulu m'derali. Izi zitha kuwonedwa ngati zosayenera pamakhazikitsidwe, koma nthawi yake inali yabwino ndipo zidathandizira kuchepetsa nkhawa, makamaka chifukwa tonsefe timadziwa kuti agogo angawo akadasokonekera. Ndapeza kuti nthabwala yabwino kapena kuwonera koseketsa pantchito kungathandizenso kuthana ndi mavuto ndikuthandizira kulumikizana ndi wina. Sindinadabwe kuwona kuti pali kafukufuku komanso kafukufuku wazomwe zimathandizira phindu pantchito, nazi ochepa omwe ndidawona kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri:

  • Manyazi amatha kulepheretsa anthu kuvutika ndi ntchito, zomwe ziri zofunika ngati mukugwira ntchito sabata la 80, chirichonse chimene chingakuthandizeni kuti musabwerere ku barista kwanu kuti musakonzekere katatu katemera wa decaf skinny soy macchiato ndi manyuchi osakaniza shuga ndi chinthu chabwino . "Kudzichepetsa kwatchulidwanso ngati chida cholankhulana chomwe, chitagwiritsidwa ntchito bwino, chingalepheretse kupsinjika mtima ndi kukhazikitsa kupirira kwa nkhawa." 1
  • Kunyada kungachititse anthu kumvetsera zomwe mukunena. Mnzanga anandiuza bwana wake samumvetsera. Mwina, akuganiza kuti ndizo zomwe abwana ake adanena! "Kugwiritsirana ntchito mochititsa kaso kumachititsa anthu kuŵerenga ndi kumva zomwe mumanena." 2
  • Zinyansa zingathandize kupanga mauthenga kwa ena ndikuwonjezera kufanana kwanu. Kwa iwo omwe amapeza mawu oti "kugwirizanitsa" akufanana ndi kumasula dzino lawo. "Kumasewera kosachita manyazi kumawonjezera kukopa komanso kusangalatsa anthu." 3
  • Nthabwala zitha kuthandiza kuthetsa mikangano. Homer Simpson nthawi ina adati, "Ndimaganiza kuti ndili ndi chidwi chowononga zinthu, koma zomwe ndimangofuna ndimangodya kalabu." "Nthabwala zakhala zikuwoneka kuti ndizofanana - njira yothandizira kukambirana ndi kuthetsa kusiyana." 4
  • Nthabwala zitha kukulitsa malipiro. Mnzanga anauza abwana ake kuti ayenera kukwezedwa popeza panali makampani ena atatu pambuyo pake. Bwanayo adafunsa kuti ndi makampani ati, pomwe mnzanga adayankha kampani yamagetsi, kampani yamafoni, komanso kampani yamafuta. "Kukula kwa mabhonasi awo kumayenderana ndi kuseka kwawo - Mwanjira ina, nthabwala zomwe oyang'anira anali, ndikukula kwa mabhonasi." 5

Ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito tsopano kwazaka zopitilira makumi awiri. Nthawi imeneyo, ndawonera ngati nthabwala kuntchito (komanso kwakukulu) zasintha. Ndili mwana, ndimakumbukira kuti nthabwala zopanda mtundu zinali zofala kwambiri pantchito - nthabwala zokhudzana ndi kugonana, mtundu, kapena jenda zidagawidwa momasuka kwambiri kuposa masiku ano, ndipo ngati panali zotulukapo, zimakonda kukhala zamkati. cringing, eye rolls, kapena "ndi Bob yekha" mosiyana ndi kupita ku HR. Nachi chitsanzo cha nthabwala yayikulu yomwe ili yoyenera kuntchito:

Mnyamata amapita kukafunsidwa za ntchito ndikukhala pansi ndi abwana. Abwana amufunsa kuti, "Kodi ukuganiza kuti ndiwe wabwino bwanji?" Mwamunayo akuti, "Mwina ndikunena zowona." Abwana akuti, "Sizoipa, ndikuganiza kuti kuwona mtima ndi khalidwe labwino." Munthuyo akuyankha, "Sindikusamala zomwe mukuganiza!"

Ndimakonda nthabwala izi pazifukwa zambiri, koma ndikupita kuzipinda mpaka zitatu; omasuka kugwiritsa ntchito izi monga gawo la barometer yanu pogwiritsa ntchito kuseketsa kuntchito:

Choyamba, ndi chokoma. Sizochita zachiwerewere (wofunsidwayo atha kukhala wamwamuna kapena wamkazi ndipo nthabwala sizingasinthidwe ngakhale pang'ono), andale, oyipa, achipembedzo, ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, osankhana anzawo, ndipo alibe chipinda chosungira kapena malo osambira. Ndisanapite pazifukwa zanga, ndikufuna ndikupatseni mwaulemu kuti mukamauza nthabwala kapena kuganiza za zochitika zoseketsa pantchito, ndibwino kuti muziyendetsa kaye kusefera kwanu musanapange chisankho chogawana luso lanu lanzeru pamasewera ndi ena. Izi siziyenera kutenga nthawi yayitali, koma ngakhale zitatero ndipo nthabwala yanu yatayika chifukwa mphindi yadutsa, ndikofunikira kutenga nthawi kuti muwone mabokosi olondola andale / nthabwala / ndemanga, ndi zina zambiri. chida chothandiza, koma sikoyenera kuwononga ubale wanu ndi mnzanu wakuntchito yemwe atha kukhala m'modzi mwa mabokosiwa kapena kutaya ntchito kwanu. Ngati ndizoseketsa ndipo mukungoyenera kuuza wina, zilembetseni mtsogolo ndikuuzeni khate lanu, galu, nsomba, kapena mnzanu kunja kwa ntchito yemwe amayamika ndikumvetsetsa nthabwala zanu zapadera.

Chachiwiri, monga nthabwala zabwino, pali choonadi chomwe chili mkati. Ndakhala ndi mwayi wofunsana mazana a anthu ogwira ntchito pantchito yanga ndipo pakhala nthawi yomwe olembapo akhala, oona mtima kwambiri. Pofunsa mafunso amodzi, ndinapempha maganizo awo pamsonkhanowo ndipo anayankha kuti iwo amangoyitana pamene sankafuna kugwira ntchito. Popeza sindikudziwa kuti ndi angati a ife amene angasonyeze kuti tigwire ntchito tsiku lililonse ngati izi zikhoza kutchulidwa ngati chifukwa, sindinapatse munthuyu malo. Nthawi ina, ndinapempha wofunsira chifukwa chake adasiya bwana wawo wakale ndipo yankho lake linatenga maminiti otsatirawa a 25. Tiye tingonena kuti sanapangepo mtsogoleri wawo wakale bwino. Kuwona mtima, ngati kuseketsa, ndi khalidwe labwino, koma muyenera kudziwa nthawi yogwiritsira ntchito.

Chachitatu, kodi ndizosangalatsa? Tsopano, ndithudi, kuseketsa kuli kwathunthu, ndikuseketsa kwa munthu mmodzi sangakhale kwa munthu wotsatira, makamaka kuntchito. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti kuwonetsa ngati nthabwala ndizoseketsa sikuli kwathunthu kwa inu. Ndipo, ngati simuli oseketsa kapena osapeza anthu ena oseketsa, ndithudi izo ndi zabwino kwambiri. Kukakamiza kuseketsa pamene simukumva kuti ndi koipitsitsa, ngakhale ndingakulangize kuseka ndi ena mmalo mowadodometsa. Kuseka ndi phokoso la mgwirizano ndi mgwirizano, ndipo izi ndi zizindikiro za malo ogwira ntchito komanso ogwira ntchito, komwe kuli komwe ndimakonda kukhala, osati nthabwala!

Pamene ndikuseka kwambiri

Ndimadzaza ndikumva

Ndipo kumakhala kokoma kwambiri

Pamene ndikupindulitsa kwambiri!

Amalume Albert mu "Mary Poppins" Oyambirira "Sherman Brothers, 1964, ndimakonda kuseka

 

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