Ndikulemba kumanzere. Ndimatsuka mano kumanzere. Nthawi zina ndimadya chamanzere. Koma sindine wotsalira kwenikweni. NDINASANKHA kukhala wamanzere.

Abambo anga abwino ndi "otsalira" momwe zimakhalira. Amagwiritsa ntchito lumo wapadera; amalemba ndi dzanja lopindika (ndikuganiza kuti nditha kuwona zomwe akulemba). Pali zinthu zomwe amatha kuchita kumanja, koma chifukwa zinali adalowetsedwa mwa iye adakali wamng'ono, mwina chifukwa chakuti m'masiku ake, anali kubwerera kumbuyo kwenikweni kukhala "kumwera". Ndikudabwa kuti sanakhale ndi vuto lolankhula.

Kuti mukhale dzanja lamanzere, ndinu osiyana. Ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana. Ndipo kutengera nthawi yomwe mudakulira, mutha kuonedwa kuti ndiopadera, apadera; kapena kupewedwa, wosiyidwa, osekedwa. Ndinakulira munthawi yapadera, motero ndidasankha kukhala wamanzere. NDASANKHA.

Ndisanayambe sukulu, ndinali nditaonetsa kale kuti ndili ndi “chisokonezo.” Ndinkasuntha mphanda wanga kuchokera kumanja kupita kumzake pachakudya chamadzulo, ndimatsuka tsitsi langa ndi dzanja lililonse lomwe latola burashi. Mwachiwonekere ndimayika ndi dzanja lililonse la krayoni lomwe linali pafupi kwambiri. Makolo anga anali ndi nkhawa. Bwanji ngati ndikanayesera kuphunzira kulemba ndi manja awiri ndipo izi zimandichepetsera kusukulu? Chifukwa chake, adandikhazika pansi kuti ndikambirane. Ndimakumbukirabe zokambiranazo mpaka lero. Atakhala pa bondo la abambo anga, atatulutsidwa mpando kuchokera patebulo lodyeramo (zikuwoneka kuti timakonda kuchitira misonkhano yamabanja), amayi anga akhala pampando pafupi nafe, kudalira kuti athe kundiyang'ana m'maso analankhula. Adandiuza kuti ndikufunika kuti ndigwire dzanja (sanandifotokozere chifukwa chake kufikira nditakula, ndikuganiza akuganiza kuti sindingamvetse). Chifukwa chake ndikulingalira kwa mwana, ndidasankha kukhala wamanzere. Mwaona, amayi anga anali kumanja, monganso mlongo wanga wamkulu. Bambo anga anali wamanzere. Sindinkafuna kuti akhale yekhayo m'banjamo, chifukwa chake ndidasankha kutulutsa banja lonse. Sindinadziwe chomwe ndinali kulowa.

Sindinadziwe kuti padzakhala zovuta. Inki yopaka mmwamba ndi pansi dzanja lanu chifukwa mwasankha cholembera cholakwika (zotsalira zimayendetsa manja awo pazomwe zalembedwa). Mphete zotsekerazo zimadina pamanja panu kuchokera m'mabuku olembedwa mwauzimu. Kuyesera kudziphatika mu desiki yaying'ono kusukulu kapena holo mu koleji, chifukwa malo okhawo omwe amapezeka amachokera kudzanja lamanja. Kusewera mipando yoimbira m'malo odyera, chifukwa simukufuna kukangana ndi ena pamene mukudya. Kuyenera kuchita "mugg yotentha juggle" chifukwa wina amakupatsani mugolo ndi chogwirira kumanja. Kukula pa kompyuta. Kupeza zida zolondola (kapena kumanzere), zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala zambiri chifukwa cha "ma oda apadera." Woperewera pamalingaliro onse azinthu? Inde. Zosokoneza kwa iwo omwe amakhala nawo tsiku ndi tsiku? Kunena zochepa. Kutengera momwe zinthu ziliri, zitha kukhala zochititsa manyazi nthawi zina (ngakhale, zochepa masiku ano). Palinso zochitika zina pomwe kukhala wamanzere kumatha kukhala mwayi, ndipomwe ndimasankha kuyang'ana patsogolo m'moyo wanga (yang'anani pambuyo pake, kapena dinani maulalo omwe ndalemba pansipa).

Ndinachoka mosavuta. Popeza ndidasankha kuti ndikhale wamanzere, ndimatha kusintha nthawi zambiri pomwe inali nkhani. Ena alibe mwayi. Anthu akumanja samazindikira nthawi zomwe kuli "dzanja kwa iwo," ndipo zotsalira zaphunzitsidwa kuyambira ukhanda kusintha ndi kusintha popanda kuziganizira. Ndife anthu olakalaka pakati omwe amazindikira ndikuyamikira.

Pomwe tikukondwerera Tsiku Lamanja Kumanzere pa Ogasiti 13, Lefties, ndikukupatsani moni (ndi dzanja lamanzere), ndipo ine ndikupita nanu pachikondwerero komanso chikondwerero. Omwe akumanja, pitani nafe komanso asanu (ndi dzanja lanu lamanzere) ndi Lefty pokondwerera!

Ndipo kumbukirani:

"Odzanja lamanzere ndi amtengo wapatali; amatenga malo omwe siabwino kwa ena onse.”- Victor Hugo

"Ngati theka lakumanzere laubongo likuwongolera gawo loyenera la thupi ndiye kuti ndi anthu amanzere okha omwe ali ndi malingaliro abwino.”- Anatero WC Fields

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