Mimba ndi Khanda Lokumbukira Kukumbukira - Ulendo Umodzi Wachiritsi Wamayi
CHENJEZO LA TRIGGER: Kutaya mwana ndi kupita padera.
Mwana wanga wamwamuna wokoma Ayden,
Ndakusowa.
Ndikamusambitsa mlongo wako wamkulu kapena kumukonzekeretsa kusukulu,
Ndimaganiza za iwe.
Ndikawona mnyamata wazaka zomwe ungakhale,
Ndikulingalira momwe mungawonekere.
Ndikadutsa kanjira kakang'ono ka zidole m'sitolo,
Ndikudabwa kuti ndi ati omwe mungakonde kusewera nawo.
Ndikakhala paulendo,
Ine ndikulingalira inu mukugwira dzanja langa.
Mwina sindingadziwe chifukwa chake moyo wanu unali waufupi chonchi,
Koma ndikudziwa ndi mtima wanga wonse kuti ndinu okondedwa ndipo mudzakondedwa nthawi zonse.
Zinthu zoipa zimachitikira anthu abwino.
Kodi mukukumbukira tsiku loipa kwambiri pa moyo wanu? Anga anali pa 2 February, 2017. Tsiku lomwe tinapita kukafunsira za jenda likuwonetsa za ultrasound, ndipo m'malo mwake tidamva kugwedezeka kwa dziko lapansi: "Pepani, palibe kugunda." Ndiyeno kukhala chete. Kutopa, kuwononga zonse, chete kuphwanya, kutsatiridwa ndi kusweka kwathunthu.
“Ndiyenera kuti ndinalakwitsa chinachake!
Ndachita chiyani kuti ndiyenere?
Ndipitilila bwanji?!
Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti sindingathe kukhalanso ndi ana?
Chifukwa?!?!?"
Dzanzi, wokwiya, wosokonezeka, wosakwanira, wolakwa, wamanyazi, wosweka mtima - ndinazimva zonse. Chitanibe, mothokoza pamlingo wocheperako. Kuchiritsa kuchokera kuzinthu ngati izi ndiulendo wosatha. Chisoni sichinafanane - mphindi imodzi mukumva bwino, yotsatira - simukulephera chifukwa cha kutayika.
Chimene chinathandiza, makamaka m’mayambiriro oyambirira, chinali chichirikizo cha banja lathu lokoma ndi mabwenzi, amene ena a iwo anali ndi chisoni chofananacho. Kulowa, mphatso zoganizira, zothandizira zachisoni, chakudya chamasiku angapo oyambirira, kunditulutsa kokayenda, ndi zina zambiri. Chikondi chotsanulidwa chimene tinalandira chinali dalitso lalikulu. Ndinalinso ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi thanzi labwino lakuthupi ndi lamaganizo, ndi dongosolo lolimba lothandizira kuntchito. Ambiri samatero…
Ngakhale kuti ndinali ndi chithandizo chodabwitsa, ndinagwera mumsampha wosalidwa. Kupita padera ndi kutayika kwa makanda kumakhala kofala kwambiri, komabe mituyo nthawi zambiri imatchedwa kuti “zachipongwe” kapena imachepetsedwa pokambirana (“Simunali patali kwambiri,” “Zabwino kuti muli ndi mwana mmodzi kale.”) World Health Organization, “pafupifupi mimba imodzi mwa anayi amapita padera, kaŵirikaŵiri milungu isanakwane 28, ndipo ana 2.6 miliyoni amabadwa akufa, ndipo theka la iwo amafa pobereka.”
Poyamba, sindinkamasuka kulankhula za nkhaniyi ndikupempha thandizo la akatswiri. Sindine ndekha amene ndimamva chonchi.
Tonse tikhoza kuthana ndi chisoni mosiyana. Palibe manyazi kufunikira thandizo. Pezani zomwe zingakuthandizeni inu ndi banja lanu. Tengani nthawi yachisoni ndipo musafulumire kuchira. Mphindi imodzi, ola limodzi, tsiku limodzi panthawi.
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