National Working Moms Day

Kukhala ndi ana komanso kukhala mayi chinali chinthu chovuta kwambiri, chodabwitsa kwambiri, chodzaza mtima, chowononga nthawi chomwe ndidachitapo. Nditabereka mwana wanga woyamba, ndinali ndi mwayi woti ndiyambe kugwira ntchito yaganyu kuti ndikhalenso ndi nthawi yokwanira yocheza naye kunyumba. Tsopano popeza ndili ndi ana aŵiri, kulimbana kwa kulinganiza moyo wa ntchito ndi moyo wa amayi kwakuladi. Kale kwambiri ndimavutika ndi matenda osachiritsika, omwe amafunikira maulendo angapo achipatala ndikuwonana ndi dokotala. Ndine wamwayi kukhala ndi gulu lothandizira kuntchito komanso nthawi yokwanira yoti ndimupatse chisamaliro chomwe akufunikira. Koma si anzanga onse amene ali ndi mwayi. Anzanga ambiri adagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yawo yonse yolipidwa patchuthi chakumayi. Ana awo akadwala, ayenera kudziwa ngati angatenge nthawi yopuma yopanda malipiro, ngati angakwanitse kugwira ntchito pafupi ndi mwana wodwala, kapena kupeza chisamaliro cha ana. Ambiri aife tinali ndi masabata 12 okha kunyumba kuti tichire kuchokera kubadwa ndi kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi mwana wathu watsopano, koma anzanga ena adatha milungu isanu ndi umodzi yokha.

Nditayamba kulemba za kukhala mayi wogwira ntchito, ndinaganiza za kukoka kwa ntchito ndi zosowa za ana anga; kugunda masiku omalizira ndi kupezeka pamisonkhano, kwinaku ndikupinda zochapira ndikupangira chakudya chamasana. Ndimagwira ntchito kutali ndipo, ngakhale m'modzi mwa ana anga aamuna ali m'chipatala, mwana wanga wina akadali ndi ine kunyumba. Sindidzanama, Ndi zambiri. Masiku ena ndimapita kumisonkhano ndi mwana wanga wamwamuna pamiyendo panga, ndipo masiku ena amaonera TV kwambiri. Koma pamene ndinaganizira kwambiri za mawu akuti "amayi ogwira ntchito," ndinazindikira kwambiri kuti, mosasamala kanthu za kukhala ndi ntchito yolipira "kunja kwa nyumba," amayi onse (ndi osamalira) akugwira ntchito. Ndi ntchito 24/7, popanda nthawi yolipira.

Ndikuganiza kuti mfundo yofunika kwambiri ya Tsiku la Amayi Ogwira Ntchito Yadziko Lonse yomwe ndikufuna kukumbutsa aliyense ndikuti mayi aliyense ndi mayi wogwira ntchito. Zedi, ena a ife tiri ndi ntchito kunja kwa nyumba. Izo ndithudi zimabwera ndi zabwino ndi zoipa. Kukhala wokhoza kuchoka panyumba, kuika maganizo pa ntchito zantchito, ndi kucheza ndi achikulire ndi chinthu chimene ndinkachiona ngati chopepuka pamaso pa ana. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, kutha kukhala kunyumba, thukuta langa, kusewera ndi mwana wanga ndi mwana wamtengo wapatali ine ndikudziwa Amayi ambiri amafuna. Komabe, pazochitika zonsezi, pamabweranso zovuta zofanana. Kusowa ana athu tsiku lonse, kupeza nthawi yochoka kuntchito kupita ndi ana kwa dokotala, kuyimba nyimbo za "The Wheels on the Bus" kwa nthawi ya 853 masana, kapena kupsinjika kopeza zochita zokwanira kuti mwana wanu asamayende bwino. kusangalatsidwa. Zonse ndizovuta. Ndipo zonse ndi zokongola. Choncho, pa tsiku lokondwerera amayi ogwira ntchito, ndikulimbikitsa aliyense kukumbukira, tonse tikugwira ntchito, kaya ndi mkati kapena kunja kwa nyumba. Tonse tikuchita zomwe tingathe. Ndipo zabwino zathu ndizabwino.