Kukondwerera Tsiku la Anakubala
Chaka chino Tsiku la Amayi ndi losiyana pang'ono - kwa ine, komanso kwa amayi onse.
Iyi ndi nthawi yanga yoyamba kukondwerera ngati mayi watsopano inemwini; Ndine mayi wachikondi wa mwana wamkazi wokongola wa miyezi isanu ndi itatu. Izi zikuwonetsanso Tsiku Lachiwiri la Amayi lokondwerera panthawi ya mliri wapadziko lonse womwe wakweza moyo, komanso umayi, monga tikudziwira. Ngakhale kuchuluka kwa katemera kukukulirakulira, pali malire pakutha kwathu kusonkhana mosamala ndikukondwerera amayi m'miyoyo yathu, kaya akungoyamba ulendo wawo waubereki (monga ine) kapena akusangalala ndi mdzukulu watsopano (monga amayi anga ndi apongozi). Apanso, tikupeza kuti tikulingalira momwe tingakondwerere ndi kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake.
Ndakhala ndi mwayi wodabwitsa chaka chatha kuti ndikhale wathanzi ndisanakhale, nthawi, komanso nditakhala ndi pakati. Ndakhala ndikuthandizidwa poyendetsa amayi kunyumba ndi kuntchito. Mwamuna wanga ndi ine tili ndi mwayi wopeza ana otetezeka, odalirika. Ndapeza chisangalalo ndikukwaniritsidwa ndikukhala mayi, ngakhale pa nkhani ya COVID-19. Pakhala pali zovuta koma, kawirikawiri, banja langa laling'ono likukula.
Ndikudziwanso kuti izi sizili choncho kwa aliyense. Matenda okhudzana ndi pakati komanso nkhawa ndizovuta zomwe zimakhalapo pakati pa mimba. Onjezerani kudzipatula, kusakhazikika kwachuma, kuwerengera kosankhana mitundu ku America, komanso zovuta za COVID-19, komanso amayi ambiri, akuvutika ndi thanzi lawo lam'mutu. Kuphatikiza apo, kusalinganika kwamapangidwe okhudzana ndi mtundu komanso kalasi kumatha kukulitsa zovuta izi.
Tsiku la Amayi ndi mwayi wofunikira wodziwitsa zopereka za amayi m'miyoyo yathu komanso mdera lathu. Tikamatero, ndikofunikanso kuzindikira kuti chaka chatha chakhala chovuta bwanji kwa ambiri. Ndikofunikira paumoyo wabanja lonse kuti amayi amalandila chithandizo ndi chithandizo chomwe angafunike kuti zikule bwino. Ngati sanalandire chithandizo, kukhumudwa ndi nkhawa zimatha kukhala ndi zovuta kwakanthawi paumoyo wa amayi ndi ana awo.
Kaya mukusonkhana ndi banja lanu lomwe muli ndi katemera, mukuchita brunch yakunja, kapena mukukondwerera pa Zoom; fufuzani ndi amayi anu m'moyo wanu kuti muwone momwe akuchitira komanso momwe mungawathandizire kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala amisala ngati angafune kapena akafuna.