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Mwezi Wonyada: Zifukwa Zitatu Zomvera & Kuyankhula

"Tiyeneradi kukhala odekha tikakumana ndi kusiyana ndikukhala moyo wathu wophatikizidwa ndikudabwa ndi kusiyanasiyana kwa anthu." - George Takei

Ku Mfundo

Palibe amene ayenera kukumana ndi ziwawa, kuzunzidwa, kapena kuzunzika ali chete chifukwa ndi wosiyana ndi wina. Dziko lapansi ndi lalikulu motikwanira tonsefe.

Osalakwitsa, mawonekedwe a LGBTQ ndi otakasuka. Nonse mwalandilidwa! Palibe bokosi, palibe chipinda, palibe malire ku kuwala kokulirapo kopezeka muzochitika zaumunthu. Momwe munthu amadzizindikiritsira, kulumikizana, ndi kudziwonetsera yekha ndizopadera.

Pangani chisankho mozindikira kuti mukhale omasuka kumvetsetsa nkhani ya wina.

Nkhani Yanga

Ndinakula osadziwa kuti ndinali ndi zosankha. Ndinabisa maganizo anga, ngakhale kwa ine ndekha. Ndili ku sekondale, ndimakumbukira kuti ndinalira pamene ndinkaona mnzanga wapamtima akupsompsona chibwenzi chake. Sindinadziŵe kuti n’chifukwa chiyani ndinkakhumudwa. Sindinadziwe kanthu. Sindinadzizindikire ndekha.

Nditamaliza sukulu ya sekondale, ndinakwatiwa ndi mnyamata wabwino khomo loyandikana nalo; tinali ndi ana awiri okongola. Kwa zaka pafupifupi khumi, moyo unkawoneka ngati wangwiro. Pamene ndinkalera ana anga, ndinayamba kuganizira kwambiri za zinthu zimene zikuchitika padzikoli. Ndinazindikira kuti zisankho zomwe ndinapanga zidapangidwa kuchokera ku zomwe anzanga ndi abale awo amayembekezera. Ndinayamba kuvomereza maganizo amene ndinawabisa kwa nthawi yaitali.

Nditayamba kuvomereza zamkati mwanga…zinakhala ngati ndidapuma koyamba.

Sindinathenso kukhala chete. Tsoka ilo, tsoka losamveka lomwe linatsatira, lidandipangitsa kudzimva ndekha komanso wolephera. Ukwati wanga unatha, ana anga anavutika, ndipo moyo wanga unakonzedwanso.

Zinatenga zaka zambiri kudzidziwitsa, kuphunzira komanso kulandira chithandizo. Nthawi zina ndimavutika chifukwa achibale amalephera kufunsa za mkazi wanga kapena moyo wathu. Ndikumva ngati kukhala chete kwawo kukuwonetsa kutsutsidwa. Zachidziwikire kwa ine, sindikukwanira m'bokosi lawo. Mwina nkhani yanga imawapangitsa kukhala osamasuka. Ngakhale zili choncho, ndili ndi mtendere wamumtima. Ine ndi mkazi wanga takhala limodzi kwa zaka pafupifupi 10. Ndife osangalala komanso timasangalala ndi moyo limodzi. Ana anga ndi akulu ndipo ali ndi mabanja awoawo. Ndaphunzira kuika maganizo pa kukhala moyo wachikondi ndi kudzivomereza ndekha ndi ena.

Mbiri Yanu

Ziribe kanthu komwe muli kapena ndinu ndani, pezani njira zowonjezera kumvetsetsa kwanu pa nkhani ya wina. Perekani malo otetezeka kuti ena akhale pomwe ali panthawiyo. Lolani ena kukhala momwe alili popanda chiweruzo. Perekani chithandizo ngati kuli koyenera. Koma, chofunika kwambiri, khalani nawo ndi kumvetsera.

Ngati simuli membala wa gulu la LGBTQ, khalani othandiza. Khalani omasuka kukulitsa kumvetsetsa kwanu pazochitika za wina. Thandizani kugwetsa makoma a umbuli.

Kodi ndinu LGBTQ? Kodi mukulankhula? Kodi mukukumana ndi chisokonezo, kudzipatula, kapena kuzunzidwa? Pali zothandizira kapena magulu omwe mungagwirizane nawo. Pezani malo otetezeka, nkhope, ndi malo oti mukule. Lumikizanani, gwirizanitsani, ndi kusangalala ndi moyo wanu. Ngati mulibe thandizo kuchokera kwa anzanu kapena achibale anu - pangani maubwenzi olimba ndi omwe amakulolani kuti mufotokozere nokha. Ziribe kanthu komwe muli paulendo wanu, simuyenera kupita nokha.

Zifukwa Zitatu Zomvera

  • Aliyense ali ndi Nkhani: Mvetserani nkhani, khalani omasuka kuti mumve zakuchitikirani kapena kudzifotokozera nokha nokha.
  • Kuphunzira ndikofunikira: Wonjezerani chidziwitso chanu, penyani zolemba zothandizira za LGBTQ, lowani nawo gulu la LGBTQ.
  • Ntchito ndi Mphamvu: Khalani mphamvu yosintha. Khalani omasuka ku zokambirana pamalo otetezeka. Mverani njira zowonjezerera phindu ku gulu la LGBTQ.

Zifukwa Zitatu Zolankhulira

  • Mufunika: Gawani nkhani yanu, matchulidwe anu, mayanjano anu, zomwe mwakumana nazo pamoyo wanu ndikutanthauzira zomwe mukuyembekezera.
  • Khalani ndi Mphamvu Yanu: Mumakudziwani - bwino kuposa wina aliyense! Mawu anu, malingaliro anu, ndi zofotokozera ndizofunikira. Lowani nawo gulu la LGBTQ kapena bungwe.
  • Yendani Nkhani: Khalani opezeka kuti muthandize ena kukula - ogwirizana, abwenzi / banja, kapena ogwira nawo ntchito. Khalani okoma mtima, khalani olimba mtima, ndipo khalani inu!

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