Chikondi Chodzikonda

Pankhani ya chikondi, ndine munthu wodzikonda kwambiri, ndimakonda kudzikonda ndekha. Nthaŵi zonse sindinali wodzikonda; Ndinkakonda kusangalatsa lingaliro la chikondi mwanjira yosiyana kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, tengani Tsiku la Valentine. Lingaliro la tsiku loperekedwa ku chikondi ndi kusambitsa okondedwa ndi mphatso ndi chidwi nthawi zonse linali lofunika kwambiri kwa ine. Koma panali munthu m'modzi yemwe nthawi zonse ndimamuiwala pakati pa chokoleti ndi teddy bear. Inemwini. Tsiku la Valentine silinali tsiku lokha limene ndinadzinyalanyaza ndekha, zinali zaka ndi zaka zosatenga nthawi kwa ine ndi zosowa zanga. Ndinkadzitcha kuti ndine wosangalatsa anthu chifukwa chakuti nthawi zambiri ndinkaika ena patsogolo panga. Mukuzizira? Apa, tenga juzi langa.

Kupyolera mu kudzipenda, ndatha kuzindikira mbali za moyo wanga zomwe maziko adaphwanyidwa mu maubwenzi, mabwenzi, ndi ntchito. M’maulendo onsewo, chimene chinali kusoŵa kaŵirikaŵiri chinali kudzizindikira, chikondi, ndi malire. Kukhala wokhoza kuzindikira zinthu zimenezi kunasintha moyo wanga. Pamene ndikugwira ntchito kuti ndidzidziwe ndekha, ndimawona momwe ndimasonyezera zowona momwe ndimagawira chikondi changa ndi ena.

Kugwa m'chikondi ndi mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokoza maubwenzi apamtima. Nthawi yomwe ndinayamba kudzidziwa ndekha, ndinayamba kukondana ndi zinthu zina zambiri. Ndinkakonda kuyenda, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kusinkhasinkha, ndi zinthu zina zambiri zimene zinkandithandiza komanso zinkandisangalatsa. Kupatula nthawi yodzisamalira ndekha pamaso pa ena adayika patsogolo. Kudzikonda kumakulitsa ufulu wanu wobadwa nawo wosangalala. Zochita zodzikonda ndi zida zomwe zimakufikitsani kumeneko.

Ndimaona kuti kudzisamalira nthawi zambiri kumatchedwa kuti chinthu chapamwamba ndipo sindimagwirizana ndi mtima wonse. Kudzisamalira ndi chikondi, ndipo kuyenera kulembedwa ngati chofunikira. Kudzisamalira kumabwera m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Kuyambira tsiku lachidziwitso ku spa, mpaka kusamba kwautali popanda zosokoneza. Kodi mumadzisamalira bwanji? Kodi chizoloŵezi chanu cham'mawa chimaphatikizapo zinazake, kapena mukuthamangira kuti tsiku liyambe? Ndikukupemphani kuti mudzaze chikho chanu choyamba m'mawa. Pezani nthawi yochita chinthu chimodzi chomwe chimakusangalatsani. Ndiye inu mukhoza kulanda dziko, chirichonse chimene chikuwoneka kwa inu.

Toni Morrison wamkulu, m'modzi mwa olemba omwe ndimawakonda, munkhani yake yanzeru amafotokoza za kudzikonda m'mawu amodzi amphamvu. Ndi moyo wanga mantra- "inu chinthu chanu chabwino" - Wokondedwa.

Dziyikeni nokha patsogolo, khalani odzikonda ndi chikondi chanu.