Alongo - Anzanu Opambana Kwambiri

Mlongo wanga, Jessi, ndi mmodzi mwa anthu okongola kwambiri (mkati ndi kunja) omwe ndimawadziwa. Ndi wokoma mtima, wosamala, wamphamvu, wolimba mtima, wopusa, komanso wanzeru kwambiri. Wachita bwino pa chilichonse chomwe amaika malingaliro ake ndipo wakhala chitsanzo kwa ine moyo wanga wonse. Inde, inde, ndikudziwa, aliyense akunena izi za wina m'banja lawo, koma umu ndi momwe ndimamveradi.

Kuyambira tili achichepere, tinali osagwirizana. Mchemwali wanga ndi wamkulu kwa ine ndi zaka ziŵiri, choncho takhala timakonda zinthu zofanana. Tinkakonda kusewera limodzi ma Barbies, kuwonera zojambulajambula, kuvutitsa makolo athu palimodzi, tidagawana mabwenzi, ntchito! Mofanana ndi abale athu onse, tinkakwiyitsana (timachitabe zimenezi nthawi ndi nthawi), koma nthawi iliyonse imene munthu wina kusukulu ankandivutitsa, Jessi ankanditeteza komanso kunditonthoza. Mu 1997, makolo anga anasudzulana, ndipo zimenezi zinaika vuto loyamba paubwenzi wathu.

Pamene kholo lathu linkasudzulana, Jessi nayenso anali atayamba kusonyeza zizindikiro za matenda a maganizo. Popeza ndinali ndi zaka 8 zokha, sindinkadziwa kuti zimenezi zinali kuchitika kwa iye kapena zimene zinkachitika. Ndinapitirizabe kukhala naye pachibwenzi monga mmene ndinkakhalira kale, kupatulapo tsopano tinkakhala m’chipinda chogona m’nyumba ya bambo anga, zimene zinayambitsa mikangano yambiri. Abambo anga ndi mlongo wanga nawonso anali ndi ubale wovuta, mlongo wanga ali m'zaka zake zotsutsana ndi unyamata ndipo abambo anga anali ndi vuto loletsa kupsa mtima komanso kukhala osathandizira / osakhulupirira pazaumoyo. Iwo ankamenyana nthawi zonse tikakhala kunyumba kwake. Bambo anga akamamwa mowa n’kulalatira, ine ndi Jessi tinkalimbikitsana komanso tinkatetezana. Tsiku lina, kutentha thupi kunafika, ndipo anakakhala ndi mayi anga. Ndinadzipeza ndili mwana ndekha ndili kwa bambo anga.

Tili achinyamata, mlongo wanga anayamba kundikankhira kutali. Anamupeza ndi matenda a maganizo ochititsa munthu kusinthasintha zochitika ndipo ankakonda kukhala m’chipinda chake. Ndinadzimva kukhala wotsekeredwa kunja ndi kukhala monga mwana mmodzi yekha. Mu 2005, msuweni wathu wapamtima anamwalira, ndipo inenso ndinatsala pang’ono kumutaya Jessi. Anakhala m'chipinda chomwe chinkawoneka ngati zaka zambiri. Ataloledwa kubwera kunyumba, ndinamukumbatira mwamphamvu; zolimba kuposa momwe ndidakumbatirapo aliyense m'mbuyomu kapena mwina kuyambira pamenepo. Sindinadziwe, kufikira nthawi imeneyo, momwe malingaliro ake analiri oyipa komanso ziyeso zonse ndi masautso omwe adakumana nawo yekha. Tinapatukana, koma sindinalole kuti tipitirire mumsewuwo.

Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, takhala tikugwirizana kwambiri kuposa alongo ambiri amene ndikuwadziwa. Mgwirizano wathu wakhala wolimba, ndipo tili ndi zonse mophiphiritsira komanso kwenikweni anapulumutsa miyoyo ya wina ndi mzake. Iye ndi wachinsinsi wanga, mmodzi wa miyala yanga, wanga wowonjezera-wamodzi, godmother kwa ana anga, ndi gawo la nsalu ya moyo wanga.

Mlongo wanga ndi mnzanga wapamtima. Nthawi zonse timakhala ndi usiku wa alongo, kukhala ndi zizindikiro zofanana (Anna ndi Elsa ochokera ku Frozen. Ubale wawo mufilimu yoyamba ndi wofanana ndi wathu), timakhala mphindi zisanu kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake, ana athu ali ndi miyezi itatu mosiyana, ndipo heck, timakhala ndi magalasi omwewo! Tinasinthana nkhope nthawi ina, ndipo mphwanga (mwana wamkazi wa mlongo wanga) sanathe kusiyanitsa. Nthawi zonse ndimachita naye nthabwala kuti tinayenera kukhala mapasa, ndimomwe timayandikana. Sindingathe kulingalira moyo wanga popanda mlongo wanga.

Panopa ndili ndi pakati pa mwana wanga wachiwiri, mtsikana. Ndili ndi mwezi kuti mwana wanga wamwamuna wa zaka ziwiri ndi theka posachedwapa adzakhala ndi mlongo wake kuti akule naye. Ndimalota kuti azitha kugawana chikondi ndi kulumikizana komwe ine ndi mlongo wanga timapanga. Ndimalota kuti sadzakumana ndi zovuta zomwe tidakumana nazo. Ndimalota kuti azitha kupanga ubale wosasweka ndikukhala pamenepo kwa wina ndi mnzake, nthawi zonse.