Wolimba Monga Amayi

Monga mayi wogwira ntchito, ndili ndi ubale wotsimikizika wa "chidani chachikondi" ndi chilimwe. Ndimakonda kwambiri lingaliro m'chilimwe…masiku otalikirapo, m'mawa pang'onopang'ono, kuotcha dzuwa, kunjenjemera ndikuwerenga buku m'chinyumba chodyeramo, nthawi m'madzi ozizira a dziwe loyandikana nalo ... mwana. Zowona zachilimwe ngati kholo logwira ntchito, mukayamba "zochita zambiri", zitha kuwoneka mosiyana kwambiri.

Ndimaganizira kwambiri za liwiro lachangu sabata ino, ndimayang'ana koloko, ndikuzindikira kuti ndatsala ndi mphindi khumi ndendende msonkhano wanga wotsatira usanachitike. Mphindi khumi kuti mwana mmodzi adyetsedwe ndi kupita ku timu yosambira, perekani uphungu kwa mwana wanga wachinyamata za sewero lachibwenzi, kuthana ndi maso aakulu achisoni omwe akuwonetsedwa kuchokera kwa galu wanga / "soul mate" kuti amudyetse chakudya chake cham'mawa, komanso kuyang'ana. zowoneka kuchokera m'chiuno kupita m'mwamba, kuti ndisawopseze anzanga ogwira nawo ntchito pa Microsoft Teams. Ndinalumphira kuimba pa nthawi yake, koma ndinawona foni yanga ikuitana. Ndi mwana wanga wamkazi wazaka 20, akuitana kuchokera kudera lonselo ndipo chifukwa ndili ndi mbiri ya "mayi wapamwamba" woti ndimuyimire, ndikuyankha, ndikungomufunsa kuti "muphika bwanji nkhuku yosowa? ” Nanga mwamuna wanga ali kuti panthawi yachisokonezochi? Wapuma pantchito kwa munthu wake ndipo watseka chitseko. Wodabwitsa! Ndimasiya kudabwa…Kodi izi ndi momwe masiku a Beyonce amawonekera ngati mayi wantchito wokhala ndi ana atatu mchilimwe? Ine ndikuganiza "ayi."

Ngakhale izi zitha kuwoneka zotanganidwa bwanji ... sindingasinthe chilichonse! Makamaka mu "zachilendo" pambuyo pa mliri, ndimadzipeza ndikuyamikira kuti ngakhale zimakhala zovuta nthawi zina kusunga mipira yonse mlengalenga, kugwira ntchito kunyumba kwandilola kuti ndizitha kusinthasintha kuposa chilimwe cham'mbuyo. Sizingakhale zaudongo kwathunthu, chifukwa ndimadzipeza kuti ndikufunika kudzuka m'mawa kwambiri kapena usiku nthawi zina kuti ndikhale ndi imelo. Ndikakumbukira m'nyengo yachilimwe yomwe ndimayenera kuonetsetsa kuti ana anga ali ndi malo oti azikhala tsiku lonse, tsiku lililonse, ndimakhala wokondwa kukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka pamodzi. Izi zimabwera ndi zovuta, komanso.

“M’masiku akale,” sindinkapezeka panyumba masana. Ndinakwera galimoto kuti ndidzikhazikitsenso pakati ndipo ndikhala wokonzeka kuyamba ntchito yanga yachiwiri ngati mayi mphindi yomwe mapazi anga adagunda pakhomo la nyumba yanga. Masiku ano, pamafunika kulankhulana bwino ndi ana anga. Nditangoyamba kumene kugwira ntchito kunyumba, nthawi zambiri ankabwera n’kundisokoneza ndili pamisonkhano. Tsopano amvetsetsa kuti chitseko chotsekedwa chimatanthauza kuti ndine wotanganidwa koma ndidzatulukira ndikatha kukhudza chilichonse chomwe angafune. Angadziwe ndani? Mwinamwake mchitidwe umenewu wogawana chisamaliro cha amayi awo ndi zinthu zina zopikisana nawo ukhoza kukhala chinthu chabwino. Sindingathe kusiya chilichonse chachiwiri chomwe amatopa chilimwechi ndipo izi zitha kukhala zabwino kuchokera ku "dziko latsopano" kuti atukuke ngati anthu.

Ndi nthawi yokha yomwe idzafotokozere, koma pakadali pano, ndikupitiriza kuyesetsa kuchita zonse zomwe ndingathe tsiku lililonse ndikudzipatsa chisomo ndi kuleza mtima. Ndimafunafuna ndikusangalala ndi mphindi zamtengo wapatali za nthawi ya ndekha. Mwina chilimwe si nthawi yomwe kholo logwira ntchito limachotsa paki pantchito yawo. Pamene kugwa kugunda (zomwe zidzachitika tisanadziwe), mwinamwake imeneyo idzakhala nthawi yoti tiganizirenso za ife tokha ndikukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka yodzipereka ku chitukuko chathu cha akatswiri. Pakadali pano, ndikuyamikira Colorado Access ndi atsogoleri anga pano chifukwa chondilola miyezi ingapo ya chidwi changa kufalikira pang'ono kuposa masiku onse (Ndimalemba izi ndikumvetsera wina akufuula mu maikolofoni mu masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe ali ndi ana ambiri. mpira wa basketball). Zikomo zabwino chifukwa cha Wi-Fi yaulere!