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Kudzidzira Kuonga

By Lauren R

Kana iwe ukauya kumba kwangu, chinhu chekutanga chauchaona paunopinda musuo ndiVaTurkey. Unogona kukwereta pfungwa dzekugadzira dzemwana wangu ane makore 2.5 okuberekwa nokuda kweiyeyo. VaTurkey vakashama pari zvino, kunze kwemanhenga mashoma. Mumwedzi waMbudzi, anowana minhenga yakawanda. Pamunhenga wega wega, unowana mazwi akaita sekuti “mama,” “dada,” “Play-Doh,” uye “mapanike”. Iwe unoona, VaTurkey ndeyekutenda turkey. Zuva nezuva, mwana wangu mudiki anotiudza chinhu chimwe chaanoonga nacho. Pakupera kwemwedzi, tichange tave neturuki yakazara neminhenga ine zvese zvinofarirwa nemwanakomana wangu. (Kurutivi chinyorwa: Ndinoshuva kuti dai ndaigona kutora chikwereti nokuda kweiyi pfungwa. Asi chaizvoizvo inobva @busytoddler pa Instagram. Kana uine vana, unomuda muupenyu hwako).

Hongu, mwanakomana wangu achiri mudiki kuti anzwisise zvinoreva kuonga, asi anoziva zvaanoda. Saka patinomubvunza kuti “unodei?” uye anopindura ne“nzvimbo yekutamba,” tinoti kwaari “unoonga nzvimbo yako yekutamba.” Icho chaicho chiri nyore pfungwa, kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo; kutenda zvinhu zvatinazvo uye nezvinhu zvatinoda. Nekudaro, zvinogona kuomera vanhu, kusanganisira ini, kurangarira. Nechimwe chikonzero, zviri nyore kuwana zvinhu zvekunyunyuta nezvazvo. Mwedzi uno, ndiri kudzidzira kusandura zvichemo zvangu kuita kutenda. Saka pachinzvimbo chekuti “ugh. Mwana wangu ari kunonoka kurara zvakare. Chandinoda kuita kuenda kunozorora ndiri ndega kweminiti,” ndiri kushanda kuti ndichinje kuti “Ndinotenda nenguva ino yakawedzerwa yekubatana nemwanakomana wangu. Ndinoda kuti anonzwa akachengeteka aineni uye anoda kupedza nguva neni.” Ndataura here kuti ndini kudzidzira izvi? Nokuti izvi hazviuyi nyore. Asi ndakadzidza kuti kuchinja mafungiro kunogona kuita zvishamiso. Ndosaka ini nemurume wangu tichida kudzidzisa vakomana vedu kuonga vachiri vadiki. Itsika. Uye zviri nyore kudonha. Saka chimwe chinhu chiri nyore sekutenderera patafura pakudya kwemanheru uye kutaura chinhu chimwe chete chatinotenda nacho inzira yekukurumidza yekudzidzira kutenda. Kumwanakomana wangu, manheru ega ega imhinduro imwe chete. Anotenda ne "kupa amai marshmallows." Akamboita izvi akaona kuti zvaindifadza, saka ndizvo zvaanotenda zuva nezuva. Chiyeuchidzo chokuti tinogona kuonga kunyange zvinhu zvakapfava. Uye kundipa marashi nekuti anozviziva kuti zvinondifadza? Ndinoreva, huya. Kunyanya kutapira. Saka, hechino chiyeuchidzo, kwandiri uye kwauri, kuwana chimwe chinhu chekutenda nhasi. Sezvakataurwa naBrené Brown, "Hupenyu hwakanaka hunoitika paunomira uye unotenda nenguva dzakajairwa iyo vazhinji vedu tinongomhanyisa kuyedza kutsvaga iyo inoshamisa nguva."

*Ndinoziva ropafadzo yangu yokuva nezvinhu zvakawanda zvokutenda nazvo. Tariro yangu ndeyokuti tose tinogona kuwana chinhu chimwe chete, chikuru kana chiduku, chokuonga zuva rimwe nerimwe.