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Kunyadzisa Munzvimbo Yebasa

By George R

"Kuseka chikamu cheunyanzvi hwehutungamiriri, hwekudyidzana nevanhu, hwekuita zvinhu." Dwight D. Eisenhower

"Ichokwadi kuziva kuti vanhu havambove vadiki zvakanyanya sekuzvikoshesa kwavo." Oscar Wilde

“Seka nepaunogona napo, gara uchiseka. Ndicho chinhu chinotapira munhu chaunogona kuzviitira iwe pachako uye neumwe munhu munhu zvisikwa. ” Maya Angelou

Ini ndakasarudza uyu musoro wenyaya nekuti, kupfuura chero chinhu chipi zvacho, kuseka ndiko kunondiisa mukati mezuva rebasa. Baba vangu vanowana kuseka mune zvese uye vanogara vachitsvaga kuti jee rivhurwe mune chero mamiriro, hunhu hwavakapfuudza kwandiri. Amai vangu amai pavakashaya, vakaburitsa njiva chena dzakadzidziswa pamariro ake. Baba vangu vakashamisika zvinonzwika kana paive nekuona kwehuswa munzvimbo iyi. Izvo zvinogona kunyatso kunzi hazvina kukodzera marongero, asi nguva yake yaive yakakwana uye zvakabatsira kurerutsa manzwiro, kunyanya nekuti tese taiziva ambuya vangu vangadai vakatsemuka. Ndakaona kuti jee rakanaka kana kucheka kutarisa pabasa kunogona kubatsirawo kugadzirisa kusagadzikana uye kubatsira kuita hukama nemumwe munhu. Ini handina kushamisika kuona kuti kune tsvagurudzo uye nyaya dzenyaya dzinotsigira zvakanakira kuseka kubasa, heano mashoma ayo andakawana kuve anonyanya kufadza:

  • Kunyadzisa kunogona kudzivirira kupisa kwebasa, izvo zvinokosha kana uri kushanda kwe80-awa yevhiki, chero chinhu chinogona kukubatsira kuti urege kunyorera panzvimbo yako yepasista nokuda kwekusanyatsogadzirira katatu fodya yako yakafukura soy macchiato neshuga isina hazelnut syrup chinhu chakanaka . "Kunyadzisa kwave kuonekwawo senyanzvi yekukurukurirana iyo, kana yakashandiswa zvakanaka, inogona kudzivirira kupisa uye kuumba kusimba kwekutambudzika." 1
  • Unhu hunoita kuti vanhu vateerere zvauri kutaura. Shamwari yangu yakandiudza ini mukuru wake haasi kumuteerera. Zvichida, anofunga kuti ndizvo zvakataurwa nomukuru wake! "Kushandisa kushandiswa kwakanaka kunoita kuti vanhu vanoda kuverenga uye kunzwa zvaunotaura." 2
  • Kunyadzisa kunogona kubatsira kuita hukama kune vamwe uye kuwedzera kufanana kwako. Kune avo vanowana shoko rokuti "kutengesa" kuti zvive zvakafanana nekubudisa zino rako. "Kushamwaridzana kusina mhosva kunowedzera kufanana uye kukoshesa vamwe." 3
  • Kuseka kunogona kubatsira kuparadzira gakava. Homer Simpson akamboti, "Ndaifunga kuti ndinoshuva kuparadzwa, asi chandaingoda chete sandwich yechikwata." "Kuseka kwagara kuchionekwa seyakanyanya kuenzanisa - nzira yekurerutsa nhaurirano uye zambuko misiyano." 4
  • Kuseka kunogona kuwedzera mubhadharo wako. Shamwari yangu yakaudza mukuru wake kuti aifanirwa kukwidziridzwa sezvo paive nemamwe makambani matatu shure kwake. Mukuru webasa akabvunza kuti makambani api, shamwari yangu ikapindura kambani yemagetsi, kambani yenhare, uye gasi kambani. "Saizi yemabhonasi avo yakabatana zvakanaka nekushandisa kwavo kuseka - Nemamwe mazwi, kusekesa vatungamiriri kwaive, kwakakura mabhonasi." 5

Ndanga ndiri munyika inoshanda ikozvino kweanopfuura makumi maviri emakore. Munguva iyoyo, ndakatarisa sekuseka munzvimbo yebasa (uye zvakajairika) zvashanduka. Mumakore angu madiki, ndinorangarira kuti majee asina-mavara aive akajairika munzvimbo yebasa - majee nezve bonde, dzinza, kana murume kana mukadzi zvakagovaniswa zvakasununguka kupfuura zvavari nhasi, uye kana paine mhedzisiro, zvaiwanzo kuve zvemukati cringing, eye rolls, kana "ndiBob chete" zvinopesana nekushanyira HR. Heino muenzaniso wejoke rakakura rakakodzera nzvimbo yebasa:

Mumwe mukomana anoenda kubvunzurudzo yebasa uye anogara pasi naboss. Sabhuku anomubvunza kuti, "Unofunga ndeupi hunhu hwako hwakaipisisa?" Iye murume anoti, "Zvimwe ndinotaura chokwadi." Mukuru webasa anoti, "Icho hachisi chinhu chakaipa, ndinofunga kutendeseka hunhu hwakanaka." Murume wacho anopindura achiti, “Handina basa nezvaunofunga!”

Ndinoda joke iyi nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakawanda, asi ndiri kuenda kunopfuudza kusvika kune zvitatu; inzwa wakasununguka kushandisa idzi sechikamu chako chebarometer yekushandisa kuseka kubasa:

Kutanga, inonaka. Haisi sexist (uyo akabvunzurudzwa anogona kunge ari murume kana mukadzi uye majee aisazoshandurwa nepadiki), vezvematongerwo enyika, vane hutsinye, vezvitendero, ngochani, xenophobic, uye haina imba yekukiya kana yekugezera kuseka. Ndisati ndaenderera kuchikonzero changu chinotevera, ndinoda kurumbidza zvine ruremekedzo kuti kana iwe uchinge uchitaurira joke kana kufunga nezvekunakidzwa kwekucherechedza mamiriro ezvinhu pabasa, zvine hungwaru kuimhanyisa neyako yekusefa nzira yemukati kutanga, usati wafunga kugovera hunyanzvi hwako hwekunyadzisa nevamwe. Maitiro aya haafanire kutora nguva yakareba, asi kunyangwe zvikadaro uye joko rako rakarasika nekuti nguva yapfuura, zvakakodzera kutora nguva yekutarisa mabhokisi ezvematongerwo enyika ehumwe joki / kucherechedza / kutaura, nezvimwe. chishandiso chinoshanda, asi hazvina basa kuti ungangokanganisa hukama hwako newaunoshanda naye angave ari mune rimwe remabhokisi aya kana anogona kurasikirwa nebasa rako. Kana chiri icho chinosekesa uye iwe uchingofanira kuudza mumwe munhu, chiisa faira kure kuitira gare gare uye chiudze kune katsi yako, imbwa, hove, kana shamwari iri kunze kwebasa iyo inokoshesa uye inonzwisisa yako yakasarudzika mhando yekuseka.

Chechipiri, kufanana nejoko rakanaka, pane chokwadi chiri mukati. Ndine mukana wekubvunzurudza mazana emabasa ekutsvaga basa mubasa rangu uye pane dzimwe nguva apo vatsva vave vari, zvakanaka, vakatendeseka. Mukubvunzurudzwa kumwe, ndakakumbira pfungwa dzavo pakuuya uye ivo vakapindura kuti vakadana chete apo vaisanzwa sevanouya kuzoshanda. Sezvo ini ndisingazivi kuti vangani vedu vangaratidza kuti vanoshanda zuva roga roga kana izvi zvingave zvataurwa sechikonzero, handina kupa munhu uyu nzvimbo. Imwe nguva, ndakabvunza mubvunzi kuti sei vainge vasiya avo vashandi vekare uye mhinduro yacho yakatora mimwe mienzaniso ye25. Ngatitaurei kuti havana kuisa purogiramu wavo wekare nenzira yakanaka. Kutendeseka, kufara, kunaka kwakanaka, asi iwe unofanira kuziva nguva yekuishandisa.

Chechitatu, zvinonakidza here? Iye zvino, chokwadi, kuseka kwakakwana zvachose, zvinosvibisa kune mumwe munhu zvingave zvisingave kune munhu anotevera, kunyanya kubasa. Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti kugadzirisa kana joke inonakidza hakusi zvachose kwauri. Uye, kana iwe usiri kungoseka kana usingawani vamwe vanhu vanonakidza, zvechokwadi ichocho chakanakisisa zvakare. Kumanikidzira kana iwe usingafungi kuti zvakanyanya kuipa, kunyange ini ndingadai ndichikurudzira kuedza kuseka nevamwe pane kugomera pavari. Kuseka kunzwika kwekubatana uye kubatana, uye izvozvo zvinoratidzira zvebasa rinobudirira uye rinobatanidzwa, pane imwe nzvimbo pandinofarira kuva, kwete kuseka!

Kunyanya ndinoseka

Kunyanya ini ndinozadza neja

Uye kunyanya glee

Kunyanya ini ndiri chibvumirano changu!

Uncle Albert muAsia "Mary Poppins" Sherman Brothers, 1964, Ndinoda kuseka

 

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