Liptember, Lipstick yeHupenyu!
Vakadzi nevakadzi-vanozivisa vanhu vanoda kumiririrwa zviri nani munzvimbo yehutano hwepfungwa. Ndeipi nzira iri nani pane yekunyemwerera lipstick?
Liptember, mushandirapamwe wemwedzi wose wakagadzirwa nenheyo yeAustralia inowana mukurumbira pasi rose, yakavambwa muna 2010. Mukati megore ravo rekutanga vakakwanisa kuzivisa uye $55,000 mumari yemasangano ehutano hwepfungwa. Kubva 2014, Liptember akakwanisa kupa mari inodarika zviuru makumi masere zvikumbiro zvekutsigira dambudziko.1.
Boka iri rakaona kuti tsvakiridzo zhinji dzeutano hwepfungwa dzinoitwa munharaunda yedu dzinoongorora hutano hwepfungwa dzevarume asi dzinoshandisa zvakawanikwa izvi kune vese varume nevakadzi zvakafanana. Mhedzisiro yaive yekuti zvirongwa zvakawanda uye nzira dzekudzivirira hadzina kukwanisa kubatsira hutano hwepfungwa hwevakadzi nevakadzi-vanoziva huwandu. Nevatori vechikamu vari kutamba miromo ine mavara, Liptember anotarisira kumutsa nhaurirano nezvehutano hwepfungwa. Pfungwa ndeyekudzikisa rusarura rwekutsvaga nekuwana rutsigiro, uye kuziva kuti vese vanobatsirikana kubva mukuchengetwa uku pane imwe nguva muhupenyu hwavo. Hushingi hwekuva munjodzi munzvimbo iyi hunogona kutoponesa hupenyu.
Nhoroondo yekutanga yehutano hwepfungwa hwevakadzi inguva yakasviba zvechokwadi. Kubva muna 1900 BC, maGiriki ekutanga nemaIjipita vaiti "chibereko chinodzungaira" kana "kufamba kwechibereko" sechikonzero chekusagadzikana kwese kungava kunzwikwa nemukadzi. Mushonga waiva wokuroora, kuramba une pamuviri, kana kuti kurega. Taura nezve mameseji akasanganiswa! Shoko rechiGiriki rokuti “hystera,” nokuda kwechibereko, ndiro mudzi weshoko rinokuvadza rokuti “hysteria,” richiunza fungidziro yemazana emakore ekare yezvirwere zvepfungwa zvevakadzi. Kunyangwe Hippocrates akasaina dzidziso yehysteria, achikurudzira kuti mhinduro ye "uterine melancholy" yaive yekungoroora uye kuita vana vakawanda. Yakanga isiri kusvika 1980 apo temu iyi yakabviswa kubva muDiagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM)2.
Sezvo nguva nemishonga zvakafambira mberi, kunyange nzvimbo dzinoyera zvikuru dzevakadzi dzakatorwa nenyanzvi dzechirume. Kuchengetwa kwevakadzi nekuzvara, uko kwainyanya kupiwa navananyamukuta vakadzidzira basa, kwakasundidzirwa kunze uye kuderedzwa. Iyi tambo chaiyo yehutano hwevakadzi yakangoerekana yave nzvimbo yemurume.
Nguva yechisimba uye inovhiringidza mutsika yedu yakashanduka kusvika mukupisa nekuurayiwa kwevakadzi "varoyi," avo vaive vanhu vangangosangana nedambudziko repfungwa, pfari, kana vanhu vakazvimiririra vaida kuzvifunga ivo pachavo.3.
Ikozvino tave pachinzvimbo chirinani chekutsigira vanhukadzi vedu nevakadzi-vanocherechedza huwandu hwevanhu, asi kusaenzana kuchiriko. Gender stereotypes inoenderera muindasitiri yehutano uye mukadzi ari mukana wekumirira kwenguva yakareba kuongororwa kwehutano.4. Pamusoro pezvo, rusaruraganda runoramba rwuchikonzera zvipingamupinyi mukuwana rubatsiro. Mukadzi mutema muAmerica ane 20% mukana wekusangana nematambudziko ehutano hwepfungwa uye anogona kunge akafumurwa kune zvese zvechikadzi uye rusarura muindasitiri yedu yehutano.
Semudiki akatambura nekuora mwoyo muma'90s, iniwo, ndinoona kusawirirana uku. Ndakanga ndine nyanzvi dzakawanda dzakaedza kuongorora nekurapa huwandu hwehutano hwepfungwa. Ndakanyorerwa mishonga yakangochengeterwa zvirwere zvepfungwa zvakanyanya—mishonga iyo zvechokwadi yakanga isina kuongororwa pfungwa dzevaduku. Ndakanga ndaenda uye ndichimhanya rwendo rwemusango rwakaita zvishoma kudzikamisa munhu aive nemanzwiro aiedza nepaaigona napo kuti aenderane nevamwe vese "vanhuwo zvavo."
Saka ndakashandisa simba remakeup kuratidza nekunze zvandaisangana nazvo nechomukati. Kudai ndaiva nezuva rakajeka uye rinofadza, waigona kundiwana ndiri mumuromo mutsvuku unodziya waikoka vanhu kuti vauye uye vatange kurukurirano! Dai ndanga ndichitarisana nekuora mwoyo uye kusuwa, mungadai makandiwana mucocoa kana merlot. Kana paine zuva idzva raifanira kuve, manzwiro etarisiro uye kutanga patsva, lavender kana blush pastel ingave sarudzo.
Yakanga iri nguva inorwadza ndichiri kuyaruka uye, ndichitarisa kumashure, ndinoona kuti hunyanzvi hwangu nekuzvimiririra zvaive zvisiri chimwe chinhu chaipembererwa kana kuongororwa. Hakushamisi kuti ndakatamburira kupinda mubhokisi duku renzanga! Itarisiro yangu kuti zvipingamupinyi zvandakasangana nazvo zvinodzikira nechizvarwa chega chega uye kuti, zvichida, mwanasikana wangu chaiye achakwanisa kuwana rubatsiro rweutano hwepfungwa nekurapwa izvo ini—nevakadzi vakawanda vakanditangira—ndisina kumboziva.
Liptember isangano rinondikurudzira. Ruvara, chikonzero, uye kutarisira. Lipstick inogona kuva yakawanda kupfuura makeup. Inogona kudarika. Inogona kuratidza zvatiri uye zvatinotarisira kuva. Zvinotipa simba pamusoro pedu munyika umo vakadzi vazhinji vanonzwa vasina simba. Liptember inotipa mukana wekupembererwa nekugamuchirwa sezvatiri, uye ndinovimba muchabatana neni mukupemberera mazuva ese!
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