Sisters – The Ultimate Best Friends

Hanzvadzi yangu, Jessi, zvechokwadi mumwe wevanhu vakanaka kwazvo (mukati nekunze) vandinoziva. Ane mutsa, ane hanya, akasimba, akashinga, anopusa, uye akachenjera zvikuru. Akabudirira pane zvese zvaanoisa pfungwa dzake uye anga ari muenzaniso kwandiri hupenyu hwangu hwese. Hongu, hongu, ndinoziva, munhu wese anotaura izvi nezvemumwe munhu mumhuri yavo, asi aya ndiwo manzwiro andinoita zvechokwadi.

Kubva tichiri vaduku, takanga tisingachaparadzani. Hanzvadzi yangu yakakura kwandiri nemakore maviri, saka tagara tichifarira zvakafanana. Taida kutamba maBarbi pamwe chete, kuona makatuni, kunetsa vabereki vedu pamwechete, takagovana shamwari, mabasa! Sezvinongoita vanun’una vapi nevapi, chokwadika, takatsamwirana ( tichiri kuita nguva nenguva), asi nguva ipi neipi mumwe munhu kukireshi aindidheerera, Jessi aigara aripo kuti andidzivirire nokundinyaradza. Muna 1997, vabereki vangu vakarambana, uye izvi zvakaita kuti pave nedambudziko rekutanga paukama hwedu.

Panguva yekurambana kwemubereki wedu, Jessi akanga ava kutanga kuratidzawo zviratidzo zvechirwere chepfungwa. Ndava nemakore 8 chete, handina kumboziva kuti izvi zviri kuitika kwaari kana kuti chii chaiitika. Ndakaramba ndiine ukama hwangu naye sezvandaigara ndichingoita, kunze kwekunge tave kugara muimba yekurara pamba pababa vangu izvo zvakaita kuti tiwedzere kurwa. Baba vangu nehanzvadzi yangu vaivewo nehukama hwakashata, nehanzvadzi yangu muchikamu chake chekuzvidza uye baba vangu vaine nyaya dzekudzora hasha uye kusatsigira / asingatendi munyaya dzehutano hwepfungwa. Vaigara vachirwa kana tiri pamba pake. Baba vangu pavainwa uye kupopota, ini naJessi tainyaradzana uye takachengeteka. Rimwe zuva, zvakasvika pakupisa kwefivha, uye vakanogara zvachose naamai vangu. Ndakazviwana ndava mwana mumwe chete ndiri kwababa vangu.

Patakanga tichiri kuyaruka, hanzvadzi yangu yakatanga kundisundidzira kure. Akabatwa nechirwere chebipolar uye akasarudza kupedza nguva yake ari mukamuri make. Ndakanzwa ndavharirwa kunze uye ndawedzera kuita semwana mumwe chete. Muna 2005, takarasikirwa nemukoma wedu wepedyo kusvika pakuzviuraya, uye ini ndakapotsa ndarasikirwa naJessi. Akagara mune imwe nzvimbo kwenguva yakareba. Paakazobvumirwa kuuya kumba, ndakamumbundira zvakasimba; yakasimba kupfuura yandakange ndambombundira chero munhu kare kana kuti zvimwe kubva ipapo. Ndakanga ndisingazive, kusvika panguva iyoyo, kushata kwemamiriro ake epfungwa nemiedzo yese nematambudziko aaive akatarisana nawo ari ega. Takanga tatsauka, asi ndakaramba kuti tirambe tichidzika nomugwagwa iwoyo.

Kubva ipapo, tave tichiwirirana kudarika hanzvadzi zhinji dzandinoziva. Chisungo chedu chave chakasimba, uye isu tine zvese dimikira uye chaizvoizvo vakaponesa upenyu hwomumwe nomumwe. Ndiye wandinovimba naye, mumwe wematombo angu, my plus-one, godmother kuvana vangu, uye chikamu chemucheka chaiwo wekuve kwangu.

Sisi vangu ishamwari yangu yepamoyo. Tinogara tine usiku hwehanzvadzi, tine ma tattoos anoenderana (Anna naElsa vanobva kuFrozen. Ukama hwavo mufirimu yekutanga inotyisa yakafanana neyedu), tinorarama maminetsi mashanu kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, vanakomana vedu vane mwedzi mitatu yakasiyana muzera, uye heck, isu tinotova nemishonga yemagirazi mamwe chete! Takachinjana chiso imwe nguva, uye muzukuru wangu (mwanasikana wehanzvadzi yangu) akatadza kuziva mutsauko. Ndinogara ndichiseka naye kuti takanga taitirwa kuva mapatya, ndiko kuwirirana kwatakaita. Handikwanise kufungidzira hupenyu hwangu pasina sisi vangu.

Parizvino ndine pamuviri pemwana wangu wechipiri, musikana. Ini ndiri pamusoro pemwedzi kuti mwanakomana wangu ane makore maviri nehafu okuberekwa achangowana hanzvadzi yake yaanokura nayo. Ini ndinorota kuti vachakwanisa kugovera rudo rumwechete uye kubatana kunoita ini nehanzvadzi yangu. Ndinorota kuti havazosangana nematambudziko atakasangana nawo. Ndinorota kuti vachakwanisa kuumba chisungo chisingaputsike chehama uye kuve varipo kune mumwe nemumwe, nguva dzose.