Kukwira Muzvakaoma: Mwedzi Wekudada 2023
LGBTQ+ Kudada kuri…
Echo, kugutsurira, uye kuvhurika kwekumbundira vese.
Nzira yakasarudzika yekufara, kuzvikoshesa, rudo, ruvimbo, uye kuvimba.
Kukodzera, mufaro, uye kuvharirwa muchiremerera kuti uve chaizvo zvauri.
Mhemberero uye mweya wekugamuchira nhoroondo yemunhu.
Kuona mukuzvipira kwakadzama kune ramangwana rechimwe chinhu.
Kubvuma kuti, senharaunda, hatisisiri kunyarara, kuvanzwa, kana kuti tiri toga.
- Charlee Frazier-Flores
Mumwedzi waChikumi, pasi rese, vanhu vanobatana kupemberera nharaunda yeLGBTQ.
Zviitiko izvi zvinosanganisira mhemberero dzinosanganisira, mapurisa akazara nevanhu, makambani akavhurika uye anosimbisa, uye vatengesi. Iwe unogona kunge wakanzwa mubvunzo wekuti "sei?" Sei paine kudiwa kwe LGBTQ Pride Month? Mushure menguva yese iyi, shanduko dzese, kurwisana, uye zviitiko zvemhirizhonga zvakasangana nenharaunda, sei tichiramba tichipemberera? Nokupemberera pachena, zvingava zveavo vose vakatitangira; zvingava kuratidza nyika kuti tiri vazhinji uye kwete vashoma; zvingava zvekuratidza izvozvo tsigiro kune avo vanoramba vakahwanda kuti vadzivise rusaruro, kusungwa, kana kuti rufu. Chikonzero nei zvakasiyana kune wese munhu. Kunyange kune avo vasingabatanidzi mabiko chaiwoiwo, vatsigiri vangangova vanooneka zvikuru kana kuti kutaura mukati maJune. Ndakadzidza kuburikidza nemakore kuti mwedzi waChikumi unobvumira nharaunda kuti vataure ivo pachavo uye pamwe chete. Kuonekwa kunokosha kune avo vanotarisana nerusarura. Hupenyu hwedu chiitiko chinonzwika zvakasiyana, kunyangwe mukati me LGBTQ nharaunda. Kunakidzwa kwese nemafaro zvinogona kubatsira kuunza kurudziro uye kunzwa kwekugara kune boka revanhu vakashongedzwa. Inzvimbo iyo mhuri, shamwari, uye vatsigiri vangauya kuzopupurira hupenyu hwevanhu vakasiyana nevamwe. Iko kudana kwekubatana uye tsigiro yenharaunda inosanganisirwa. Kuva chikamu chemhemberero dzacho kungaita kuti unzwe uchigamuchirwa. Kutora chikamu mumhemberero yeKudada kunobvumira rusununguko rwekutaura, nzvimbo yekuzvifukidzira, uye nzvimbo yekuverengerwa seimwe yezvizhinji. Rusununguko uye kubatana zvinogona kufadza.
Maitiro ekuwanikwa emunhu wese anozviwana akasarudzika kubva kune inogamuchirwa inogamuchirwa yepasirese nharaunda yakasarudzika.
Mhemberero dzekudada hadzisi dzeavo vanozvizivisa se "vamwe." Haisi yeavo chete vanowira munharaunda yeLGBTQ. Inzvimbo inogamuchirwa mose! Isu tose tinozvarwa mumamiriro akasiyana etsika, emari, uye edzidzo. Avo vari mukati me LGBTQ nharaunda vanogona kubata zvimwe zvakafanana kune vamwe mukati memukati denderedzwa ravo. Zvisinei, kana vakapiwa mukana wokugoverana zvakaitika kwavari pachavo, udzamu hwematambudziko hunogona kusiyana zvichienderana neropafadzo uye kushayikwa kweropafadzo. Kunokosha kuziva kuti mano omunhu, kugamuchirwa, uye kubudirira kwake kazhinji kazhinji kunovhiringidzwa nokusarura munzanga. Nhau dzedu dzinosiyana zvichienderana nezvinhu mukati uye pasina kutonga kwedu. Migumisiro yeutano hwepfungwa, yemanzwiro, uye yemuviri iyo munhu anosangana nayo munguva yehupenyu hwake ine chokuita zvikuru nekugamuchirwa, kurapwa, uye tsigiro yatinogamuchira kubva kune vamwe. Semuyenzaniso, Mutema, chizvarwa, kana munhu ane ruvara achasangana nechiitiko chakasiyana pane chirume chichena. Ngatitii munhu weBIPOC anozivisawo seasingawirirani nemurume kana mukadzi, ane hunhu husiri hwechinyakare hwepabonde, uye ari neurodivergent. Pakadaro, vanozonzwa kuunganidzwa kwerusarura rwakawanda kubva munharaunda isingavagamuchire pamatanho mazhinji. Mwedzi wekudada wakakosha sezvo uchipa mukana wekupemberera kusiyana kwedu. Mwedzi weKudada unogona kuunza ruzivo kune kukosha kwekugovana nzvimbo, kubvumira munhu wega wega kuti anzwike, achienda kune kugamuchirwa kwepasirese, nekugadzira nzvimbo yekuita izvo zvinozoita shanduko.
Kazhinji, zvatinoona sezvakanaka zvinowanzovakirwa pane zvakaitika muupenyu hwedu, tsika, zvatinotenda, uye kutya.
Nharaunda yeLGBTQ iri kuramba ichishanduka, kugovana, uye kupaza pfungwa pamusoro pechiitiko chemunhu. Madziro akakomberedza mwoyo yedu nepfungwa anogona kukura uye kukura kuti awedzere kusanganisa. Izvo zvakakosha kuti titarise kurerekera kwedu pachedu zvichienderana nezviitiko zvehupenyu. Rusarura inzvimbo isingaoni yatisingazive nekuda kwerusununguko rwatakapihwa nehupenyu hwedu hwakasiyana. Mwedzi uno funga kuti kubatana kwako nenyika kungasiyana sei nekwemumwe munhu. Upenyu hwavo hungasiyana sei nehwako? Kutaura zvazviri, pasinei nokuti munhu anozvizivisa sei, munhu angafambira mberi kuti anzwisise, agamuchirwe, uye awirirane. Kunzwisisa sarudzo dzemumwe nezviitiko hazvidi hazvo kubvuma rwendo rwavo. Kana tikasiya zvatinoita, tinogona kubatsira vamwe kuti vaitewo saizvozvo. Kutsvaga kwemunhu mufaro kunoratidzika kwakasiyana kune wese munhu. Kuzarura mwoyo yedu nepfungwa kunogona kuwedzera kugona kwedu kugamuchira vamwe.
Kudaidza vamwe sevatorwa kunoitika mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu anosanganisira anopikisa anopikisa masimba.
Wakamboona here kudzingwa kwemumwe munhu zvichienderana neratidziro yavo yechikadzi, hunhu hwepabonde, uye kuzvizivisa? Ndakaona ziso, macomments, nemhando dzakasiyana dzekushungurudza. Munhepfenyuro, tinogona kuwana izvo uye zvinopesana nekuzvitaura. Zviri nyore kuisa vanhu muboka zvakasiyana nekunzwisisa kwedu pachedu kana mwero wekugamuchirwa. Mumwe anogona kuti pane imwe nguva kana kuti mumwe munhu kana boka revanhu se "vamwe" kunze kwake. Zvinogona kuita kuti munhu anzwe ari pamusoro peavo vatinoti vakasiyana nezvinonzi zvinogamuchirika. Kumwe kuisa mazita kungava chiito chekuzvidzivirira, kupindura kwokutya, kana kusanzwisisa. Munhoroondo, takaona magadzirirwo esimba iri pakumisa vamwe. Yakanyorwa mumutemo, yakashumwa mumagazini ezvokurapa, inonzwa mukati menzanga, uye inowanikwa munzvimbo dzebasa. Mudenderedzwa rako rerunziro, tsvaga nzira dzekutsigira kubatanidzwa, kwete kungofunga, asi tsvaga nzira dzekuwedzera kuziva kwevamwe zvinovaka. Taura, funga, uye rarama hupenyu hwekuda kuziva uye kurudzira vamwe kuitawo saizvozvo.
Zvinokosha kuyeuka kuti zvatinoita somunhu mumwe nomumwe zvinogona kuita mutsauko.
Shinga zvakakwana kuti uongorore mavara uye tsananguro mukati mepfungwa dzako uye wotanga kubvunza mibvunzo isina mumwe munhu ari kubvunza. Zvinhu zviduku zvatinogoverana uye kutaura zvinogona kuchinja maonero emumwe. Kunyange kana chiito chedu chikakonzera kufunga mune imwe, zvinogona kupedzisira zvaunza shanduko mumhuri, munharaunda, kana kubasa. Iva akavhurika pakudzidza zvitupa zvitsva, mharidzo, uye zviitiko. Tsanangudzo yekuti tiri vanaani uye zvatinonzwisisa pamusoro penyika yakatipoteredza inogona kuchinja. Shinga zvakakwana kuti uwedzere kuziva kwako. Iva akashinga zvakakwana kutaura uye kugadzira shanduko. Iva netsitsi uye rega kutsausa vamwe kuburikidza nezvikamu. Bvumira vanhu kuti vatsanangure hupenyu hwavo. Tanga kuona vamwe sechikamu chechiitiko chevanhu!
LGBTQ Resources
Imwe Colorado - one-colorado.org
Sherlock's Dzimba Foundation | Help LGBTQ Vechidiki - sherlockshomes.org/resources/?msclkid=30d5987b40b41a4098ccfcf8f52cef10&utm_source=bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Homelessness%20Resources&utm_term=LGBTQ%20Homeless%20Youth%20Resources&utm_content=Homelessness%20Resources%20-%20Standard%20Ad%20Group
Colorado LGBTQ Nhoroondo Project - lgbtqcolorado.org/programs/lgbtq-history-project/
Pride Mwedzi Nhoroondo - history.com/topics/gay-rights/pride-month