Kubatsirwa Kwakakaitwa Kudzidzisa Kukunda Kuzvidya Mwoyo Nevanhu

Wakambotamba mutambo kakawanda semwana here? Zvangu zvairongedza matoyi uye, gare gare, mapepa eBackstreet Boys, uye kuvadzidzisa chero zvatakanga tichivhara kuchikoro vhiki iyoyo. Ndakanga ndiine rosi rekirasi, ndakarongedzera basa rechikoro revadzidzi vangu (akazviedzawo zvangu), uye ndakapa mubairo weMudzidzi Akanakisisa pakupera kwemesita yega yega. Brian Littrell akahwina nguva dzese. Duh!

Ndakaziva ndichiri mudiki kuti ndaida kudzidzisa mune imwe nzvimbo sebasa. Pane chimwe chinhu chinofadza zvikuru pamusoro pekuona maziso evadzidzi vangu achipenya kana vaine nguva yekuti “aha” pamusoro pechinyorwa kana matarenda avo, hunyanzvi, uye kugona kwavo. Usati wafunga kuti ndarasa mabhura angu – ndiri kutaura nezvevadzidzi vangu chaivo, kwete vekufungidzira vandaive navo ndichikura. NDINODA kuita basa diki pakubatsira vanhu kuti vazive zvavanogona. Dambudziko raive… pfungwa yekungotaura paruzhinji, kunyangwe pamberi pevateereri vanozivikanwa, zvisinei kuti yakakura sei kana idiki, yakaita kuti ndiite kufema zvakanyanya uye kubuda mumikoko. Kugamuchirwa kunyika yekushushikana kwevanhu.

“Social phobia disorder, dzimwe nguva inodaidzwa kunzi social phobia, imhando yekushushikana inokonzera kutya kwakanyanya mumagariro. Vanhu vane chirwere ichi vane dambudziko rekutaura nevanhu, kusangana nevanhu vatsva, uye kuenda kumisangano.” Pasina kupinda zvakadzika mu Psychology yaDaniela 101, kwandiri, kushushikana kwaibva pakutya kuzvinyadzisa, kutongwa zvisina kunaka, uye kurambwa. Ndakanzwisisa zvine musoro kuti kutya kwaisava nemusoro, asi zviratidzo zvemuviri zvainzwa zvakanyanya. Sezvineiwo, kuda kwangu kudzidzisa uye kusindimara kwemukati kwakasimba.

Ndakatanga nemaune kutsvaga mikana yekudzidzira. Mugiredhi regumi, waiwanzondiwana ndichibatsira mudzidzisi wangu wechiRungu nevadzidzi vake vegiredhi rechishanu nerechitanhatu. Pandakazopedza chikoro chesekondari, ndaiva nebhizimisi rakasimba rekudzidzisa richibatsira vana nevakuru vane Chirungu, French, uye Japanese. Ndakatanga kudzidzisa kirasi kuchechi uye kutaura pamberi pevateereri vashoma. Zvinotyisa pakutanga, mukana wega wega wekudzidzisa wakashanduka kuita chiitiko chinopa mubairo - izvo zvinorehwa nevanhu vebasa rangu se "kufambisa kwepamusoro." Kunze kweiyo imwe nguva apo, pakupera kwekutaura kunosimudzira pamberi pevanhu 10+, ndakaona kuti jira jena refu refu randakasarudza nokuda kwechiitiko chinokosha rakanga rakanyatsoona-kupfuura apo chiedza chezuva chakarova. Uye rakanga riri zuva rakajeka zvikuru… Asi ndakafa here?! Kwete. Zuva iroro, ndakaziva kuti ndakanga ndisingatyi kupfuura zvandaifunga.

Nekudzidza zvese zvandaigona kuisa maoko angu pamusoro pekudzidzisa, kuita nemaune uye ruzivo, ruvimbo rwangu rwakakura, uye kushushikana kwangu munharaunda kwakawedzera kudzoreka. Ndichagara ndichitenda shamwari dzinodiwa uye vaperekedzi vakandikurudzira kuti ndibatire nazvo uye vakandisuma kune underskirts. Kubva ipapo ndashanda mumaindasitiri akasiyana uye mabasa, nguva yese iyi ndichitsvaga mikana yekudzidzisa, kudzidzisa, uye kufambisa. Makore akati wandei apfuura, ndakagara muhofisi kuvandudzwa kwetarenda munda nguva yakazara. Handikwanise kufara zvakanyanya nekuti zvinonyatsoenderana nechinangwa changu che "kuva simba rakanaka rezvakanaka." Nguva pfupi yadarika ndakasvika pakupa pamusangano, hongu! Zvaimbonzwa sehope dzisingasvikiki zvakava chokwadi. Vanhu vanowanzondiudza kuti: “Unoratidzika sewakasununguka kuita zvaunoita! Itarenda rakakura sei kuva naro. " Vashoma vanoziva, zvisinei, kuti nhamburiko yakawanda sei yakaitwa kuti ndisvike pandiri nhasi. Uye kudzidza kunoenderera mazuva ese.

Kune vese vangave vachinetsekana nekuzadzisa chinangwa kana kukunda chipingamupinyi, UNOGONA KUZVIITA!

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