Hoʻomanaʻo Loss hāpai a me ke keiki hānai - ʻO kahi huakaʻi hoʻōla makuahine hoʻokahi
HOOLAHA HOOLAHA: Nalo keiki a hāʻule ʻole.
ʻO kuʻu pēpē momona ʻo Ayden,
Haʻi wau iā 'oe.
Ke hāʻawi au i ka ʻauʻau i kou kaikuahine nui a hoʻomākaukau paha iā ia no ke kula,
Manaʻo wau iā ʻoe.
Ke ʻike wau i kahi keikikāne e like me ʻoe i kēia manawa,
Kuhi wau i kou ʻano.
Ke hala wau i ke ala pāʻani ma kahi hale kūʻai,
Mahalo wau i nā mea āu e hauʻoli ai e pāʻani pū.
Ke hele wau i kahi hele wāwae,
Kiʻi wau iā ʻoe e kiʻi nei i kuʻu lima.
ʻAʻole paha au i ʻike i ke kumu i pōkole loa ai kou ola,
Akā, ke ʻike nei au me kuʻu puʻuwai a pau ʻoe a aloha mau ʻia.
Hiki mai nā mea ʻino i nā kānaka maikaʻi.
Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei ʻoe i ka lā ʻino loa o kou ola? ʻO kaʻu ʻo Pepeluali 2, 2017. ʻO ka lā a mākou i komo ai no ka ultrasound hōʻike kāne, a ma kahi o ka lohe ʻana i ka honua-shattering: "E kala mai mākou, ʻaʻohe puʻuwai." A laila hāmau. ʻO ka hāmau, hoʻopau i nā mea a pau, ka hāmau ʻana, a ma hope o ka haki ʻana.
“Ua hana hewa paha wau!
He aha kaʻu i hana ai e pono ai?
Pehea wau e hele ai?!
ʻO ia hoʻi ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa keiki hou?
No ke aha mai?!?!?"
Pahu, huhū, huikau, lawa ʻole, hewa, hilahila, ʻeha puʻuwai - ua manaʻo wau ia mea a pau. E hana naʻe, mahalo i ka liʻiliʻi. ʻO ka hoʻōla ʻana mai kahi mea e like me kēia he huakaʻi pau ʻole. ʻAʻole linear ke kaumaha - hoʻokahi minuke ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i ka maikaʻi, ʻo ka mea aʻe - ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke nalowale.
ʻO ka mea i kōkua, ʻo ia hoʻi i ka wā mua, ʻo ke kākoʻo ʻana o ko mākou ʻohana aloha a me nā hoaaloha, ʻo kekahi o lākou i loaʻa i ka puʻuwai like. E nānā i loko, nā makana noʻonoʻo, nā kumuwaiwai no ke kaumaha, nā meaʻai no nā lā mua, ka lawe ʻana iaʻu i ka hele wāwae, a me nā mea hou aku. ʻO ka piha ʻana o ke aloha i loaʻa iā mākou he pōmaikaʻi nui. Ua pōmaikaʻi hoʻi au i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pōmaikaʻi olakino maikaʻi o ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo, a me kahi ʻōnaehana kākoʻo paʻa ma ka hana. He nui ʻole…
ʻOiai koʻu ʻano kākoʻo kupaianaha, ua hāʻule au i ka pahele stigma. He mea maʻamau ka hāʻule ʻana a me ka nalo ʻana o nā pēpē, akā ua kapa pinepine ʻia nā kumuhana he "taboo" a i ʻole e hōʻemi ʻia i nā kamaʻilio ʻana ("Ma ka liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole ʻoe i mamao loa," "Maikaʻi ua loaʻa iā ʻoe hoʻokahi keiki.") Wahi a ka World Health Organization, "ma kahi o hoʻokahi o nā hāpai ʻehā e pau i ka hāʻule ʻana, ma mua o 28 pule, a he 2.6 miliona pēpē i hānau ʻia, ʻo ka hapalua o lākou e make i ka hānau ʻana."
I ka wā mua, ʻaʻole au i ʻoluʻolu e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ia mea a me ka ʻimi ʻana i ke kōkua ʻoihana. ʻAʻole wau wale nō ka manaʻo o kēia ʻano.
Hiki iā mākou a pau ke hana i ke kaumaha ma ke ʻano like ʻole. ʻAʻohe hilahila i ka nele i ke kōkua. E ʻimi i ka mea kūpono iā ʻoe a me kou ʻohana. E lawe i ka manawa e kaumaha ai a mai wikiwiki i ka hana ho'ōla. Hoʻokahi minuke, hoʻokahi hola, hoʻokahi lā i ka manawa.
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