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ʻO kaʻu huakaʻi me ka puhi paka: ka hahai ʻana

Hoʻokahi makahiki a me ka hapa ma hope o ke kākau ʻana i kaʻu moʻomanaʻo moʻomanaʻo kumu ma kaʻu huakaʻi hoʻopau puhi, Ua noi ʻia au e kākau i kahi mea hou. Heluhelu hou au i kaʻu mau huaʻōlelo kumu a hoʻihoʻi ʻia i ka pupule ʻo ia ka makahiki 2020. Nui nā haunaele, ʻike ʻole ʻia, nui ʻole ka like ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻokoʻa kaʻu huakaʻi hoʻopau puhi puhi - ma ʻaneʻi, ma laila, a ma nā wahi a pau.

Eia naʻe, he wahi ʻike liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kaʻana like i koʻu kākau ʻana i ka hope e pili ana i ka haʻalele ʻana i ka puhi paka. I ka manawa o ka paʻi ʻia ʻana, ua ʻoi aku au ma mua o ʻewalu pule. Ua haʻalele au i ka puhi paka hou ma hope o ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka hāpai ʻana ma ʻOkakopa 24, 2020. Mai ia lā ʻaʻole au i lawe hou i ka maʻamau. Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi ʻōpū olakino (ma waho aʻe o kekahi pilikia o ke koko) a hoʻokipa i kahi pēpē maikaʻi ma Iune 13, 2021. Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, ua hopohopo iki wau e hoʻokipa wau i koʻu hoa kahiko, ka cigakeke, i loko o koʻu ola. Hiki iaʻu ke kū i ka pilikia o ka makuahine hou? ʻO ka nele i ka hiamoe, ka papa hana pupule o ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi papa manawa, ua haʻi wau i ka hiamoe ʻole?

E like me ka mea i ʻike ʻia, ʻōlelo mau wau, "ʻaʻole mahalo." ʻAʻole mahalo i nā wā luhi, nā manawa o ka huhū, nā manawa leʻaleʻa. Ua ʻōlelo mau wau "ʻaʻole mahalo" i ka puhi paka i hiki iaʻu ke ʻae i nā mea hou aku. Ua hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokaʻawale i kahi e noho ai me kaʻu keiki me ka ʻole o nā hopena lua o ka puhi paka, a ua hiki iaʻu ke hoʻohana i ka nui o ke kālā aʻu e mālama nei no nā mea leʻaleʻa a puni ka hale.

Inā ʻoe ma waho, e noʻonoʻo ana e haʻalele i ka puhi paka, a me ka ʻike i ka paʻakikī o ia mea - ʻaʻole ʻoe wale nō! Lohe wau iā ʻoe, ʻike wau iā ʻoe, loaʻa iaʻu. ʻO nā mea a pau e hiki iā mākou ke hana ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana "ʻaʻole mahalo" i nā manawa a mākou e hiki ai. He aha kāu ʻōlelo ʻae ma ka ʻōlelo ʻole? He kanaka mākou, a ʻo ka hemolele he pahuhopu wahaheʻe mākou e loaʻa ai no mākou iho. ʻAʻole au i hemolele, a e paheʻe paha i kekahi manawa. Akā, e hoʻāʻo wau e ʻōlelo "ʻaʻole mahalo" i kēia lā, a ke manaʻo nei e hana like i ka lā ʻapōpō. A ʻo ʻoe?

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