Ukufikelela Kulwazeleleko

Uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo- kuvakala kuvakala? Ukujonga kwihlabathi elisingqongileyo, uxinzelelo yinxalenye eqhelekileyo yobomi. Njengomntwana, ndicinga ukuba uxinzelelo lwam olukhulu yayikukufika ekhaya ngaphambi kokufika kombane wesitrato; ubomi babonakala bulula kakhulu ngelo xesha. Ayikho imidiya yoluntu, akukho zi-smartphones, ukufikelela okulinganiselweyo kwiindaba zehlabathi okanye imicimbi Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke umntu wayenengxaki, kodwa kwakubonakala ngathi zahlukile.

Njengoko singenile kwixesha lolwazi, ukuqaliswa koxinzelelo olutsha / olwahlukileyo lubonakala kumhla ngemihla. Ngelixa sisenza lonke uxanduva lwethu lwabantu abadala, sikwazifumana sisebenzisa itekhnoloji yokuhamba kunye nokulungelelanisa kwimeko ukuxhamla ngokukhawuleza ubuchwephesha bethu buzile. Endaweni yoko, ijonge ijelo losasazo loluntu, ukukhangela imozulu okanye iindaba “eziphilayo” zokuhlaziywa kweendaba kwi-coronavirus - konke kukufuphi kweminwe yethu, kwangelo thuba. Uninzi lwethu luvuselelwa ngamandla, ujonga izixhobo ezininzi kunye nemithombo kwangoko.

Ke iphi ibhalansi? Masiqale ngokwahlulaxinzelelo koxinzelelo. Ngelixa abantu abaninzi bezifumana “bexinzelelekile” ngexhala lokucinga malunga "yintoni elandelayo," uxinzelelo lunokulawulwa ngaphambi kokuba lujike lube luxinzelelo. Ulawulo loxinzelelo lunoluhlu lweendlela kunye neemodyuli kunye nezibonelelo zezempilo. Ithemba lam kukubonelela ngeendlela ezintathu ezilula “zokufikelela ekuphumleni kwakho” kunye nokulawula ixhala lakho noxinzelelo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje.

# 1 Ukwamkelwa kunye nokuma

Ukudala ukwamkelwa kunye nokuzimisela kwimeko enobunzima kunzima umngeni ubuncinci. Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso:

• Yiba nenjongo. Zama ukoyisa umkhethe ngokwenza uphando kunye nokujonga ezinye iindlela.
• Zama ukungangxami. Ziqhelanise nolawulo lweemvakalelo kwaye uzinike ithuba lokuthatha "ixesha lokuphuma" ukubonakalisa nokucela umngeni kwiingcamango zoxinzelelo
• Sukucima! Zinike imvume yokuthatha ikhefu kuko konke ukukhuthaza nokuphazamiseka.
• Jonga indlela othetha ngayo. Qiniseka ukuba uyazixelela izinto ezintle ezinceda impilo yakho yengqondo neyomzimba.

# 2 Ukuzikhathalela

Sifuna ukuba ngenjongo xa sifuna iindlela zokulawula uxinzelelo. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokusebenzisa isixhobo esijongana nendawo yomzimba "ocela uncedo." Ndiyathanda ukuqala le nkqubo ngokuskena umzimba. Ukuskena umzimba sisixhobo sokwazisa ngokwakho ukuba kwenzeka ntoni emzimbeni. Vala amehlo uze uskene ukusukela kwisithsaba sentloko yakho, ukuya kwiingcebiso zezinzwane zakho kwaye uzibuze, wenzani umzimba wam? Ngaba ushushu, uyabhabha? Uluhambisa phi uxinzelelo? Ngaba uziva iintlungu kwindawo ethile (okt iintloko okanye isisu), okanye uxinzelelo emagxeni akho?

Ukuqonda oko kufunwa ngumzimba wakho kuya kwenza ukufumana isixhobo sokulwa okanye ubuchule bokukhathalela kulula kwaye kusebenza ngakumbi. Umzekelo, ukuba wenza iididgeting okanye uluma iinzipho zakho, ukufumana ibhola yoxinzelelo okanye isixhobo sefidget, esifana nespidget spinner, ukugcina izandla zakho zixakekile kunokuba luncedo. Okanye, ukuba uziva uxinzelelo kumagxa akho okanye entanyeni, ungasebenzisa ipakethi eshushu okanye isihlunu sokulula kuloo ndawo.

Ngelixa kukho izixhobo ezininzi zokujongana nemigaqo kunye nemigaqo onokukhetha kuyo, ukuzivocavoca nayo nantoni na evuselela iimvakalelo zakho ezintlanu (okt ukunxibelelana nendalo, umculo, iioyile ezifanelekileyo, iihugs, izilwanyana, ukutya okunempilo, iti yakho oyithandayo njl. Njl. Imichiza eyonwabileyo engqondweni kwaye idale ukuzola. Umgca osezantsi, mamela umzimba wakho.

# 3 Ukuziqhelanisa Kubakho 

Ukuziqhelanisa nokuvavanya okwenyani iingcinga zethu ngaphandle kwesigwebo yindlela entle yokwenza ukuqonda okwangoku! Uninzi luvile isicatshulwa sikaBill Keane "Izolo yimbali, ngomso iyimfihlakalo, namhlanje sisipho sikaThixo, yiyo loo nto sisibiza ngokuba sesangoku." Ndihlala ndisithanda esi sicatshulwa kuba ndiyazi ngokwam ukuba ukugxila kakhulu kwixesha elidlulileyo kunokudala iingcinga / imo yokudakumba, kwaye ukugxila kakhulu kwikamva kunokubangela uxinzelelo.

Ukwamkela ukuba zombini ezidlulileyo kunye nekamva zingaphandle kolawulo lwethu kwangoko, ekugqibeleni kuyasinceda ukuba samkele umzuzu okhoyo, kwaye ngokwenza njalo, singonwabela kwaye sibonge apha kunye nangoku.

Xa uziva unenkxalabo malunga nento nokuba ngaba yi-coronavirus, okanye enye ingxaki. ... yima kwaye uzibuze ... ngaba ikhona into onokuyifunda kwangoku? Vavanya ukuba yintoni ocinga ukuyenza ukuze uvakalelwe ngandlela thile. Yeyiphi into ocinga ngayo / ocinga ngayo ozimisele ukuyishiya, okanye ubekele ecaleni? Zeziphi izinto ezintle onokuthi uzixabise ngalo mzuzu? Yintoni oyithathela ingqalelo?

Xa uzibuza le mibuzo, uninzi lweengxaki kunye nemiceli mingeni ekhoyo ngoku inokwenza ithuba lokufunda, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu kukukhula!