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Ukukhulisa abantwana bam ukuba babe yizilwanyana ezizidlayo: Icandelo 1

"Hey Lauren, uMama uyalula ukuthatha ukuthatha isantya ebusuku, unjani uhlobo olufunayo?"

"Enye yenkukhu nesaladi kunye ne-yummy balsamic dip."

Ewe, le ngxoxo eyenzeka rhoqo xa siyalulawula ukuthatha. Inkunzi yam eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala ayifuni i-pizza okanye i-mac kunye noshizi (nangona kunjalo ngokuqhelekileyo isicelo sam uneminyaka emibini ubudala), ufuna isamba senkukhu kunye nesaladi kwi-Modern Market. Ngesinye isikhathi, wayekuxelela ukutya okwakuthandayo "yi-pepper kunye nenkukhu ngaphakathi kunye nazo zonke izicabiso," (eyaziwa ngokuba yi-buffalo yenkukhu eneepilisi) kwaye ndimbonile ephosa inxalenye enkulu yabantu baseSzechuan ingulube eneeodon zucchini.

Ndihlala ndifumana izimvo okanye iimpendulo malunga neentlobo zokutya abantwana bam badla, kwaye ngokukhawuleza kulandelwa imibuzo malunga nendlela endenze ngayo.

Andikho nhlobo naluphi uhlobo lweengcali zomzali, kwaye ndizenza izithembiso zokuba kuba into eyenze abantwana bam ukuba isebenzele eyakho (Ndinezingane ezimbini, ndiyazi ngcono kunokuba ndicinga ukuba). Mhlawumbi into endiyibangele kuyo, mhlawumbi ndinenhlanhla. Mhlawumbi intwana yabini. Yonke into endiyaziyo kukuba ndiyamthanda ukutya - Ndiyakuthanda ukupheka ukutya, ukutya ukutya, ukwabelana ngokutya, nokufumana ukutya okutsha. Kwaye ndandifuna ukwenza konke okusemandleni endikunceda ukuba ndifake nezingane zam.

Ukuzisa ukutya xa beyiintsana

Ndafunda ngaye UkuNcotshwa kwabantwana (obizwa ngokuba ngumntwana obizwa ngokuba ngumntwana osemntwaneni) ngaphambi kokuba ndibe nabantwana bam - ngaba nabahlobo be-foodie ababenzileyo kunye nezingane zabo kunye neengcamango ezixhalabileyo. Ndiyincoma ukukhangela i-website okanye ukufumana le ncwadi kwilayibrari ukwenzela iinkcukacha ezingaphezulu, kodwa nantsi ingqangi jikelele:

  • Izinto ezifana nokutya kwezingane kunye ne-cleanes zifundisa iintsana ukuba ziginye ngaphambi kokuba zifunde ukuhlafuna xa zifanele zichasane - iintsana kufuneka zifunde ukuhlafuna ukutya, kwaye zigwinye.
  • Mkhulu, kulula ukubamba ukutya iintsana ezikwazi ukuzibamba zitshintshile le ngcamango, kwaye i-purees iyancipha (abantwana bam bengazange bafumane ukutya kwasebantwaneni, nantoni na - into esondeleyo yayiyi-appleauce okanye i-yogurt).
  • Qala ngezinto ezinzima ukuhlafuna izicucu, ngokukhawuleza sebenzisa indlela yakho ekubhekiseleleni ukutya okunokutya.
  • Lindela ixesha elincinane ukuba uqalise izilwanyana (malunga neenyanga ezintandathu), ngoko ke iintsana zinokubambisana okwaneleyo ukuhlala kunye nokuhlaziya ukutya okuqinileyo.
  • Ukususela ekuqaleni, zibandakanya ukutya ezahlukeneyo ngexesha elifanayo, ukunika abantwana ithuba lokukhetha malunga noko bafuna ukutya.

Ngoko xa iintsapho zam nganye zithatha iintsuku ezintandathu, sasiye kwiintlanga - saqala ngeentlanzi ezinkulu zebell pepper, i-strawberries epheleleyo, iimbambo zekhukhamba, izikhonto ezigcobileyo, i-mango, kwaye ekugqibeleni zafudukela kwizinto ezinjengezinkuni ezinkulu zebhanana, isonka iintonga, i-graham crackers, njl njl. I-bell pepper kunye ne-mango slices zivame ukuthanda u-Lauren-wayezigubungela aze aname yonke i juzi ngaphandle kokushiya kuphela isikhumba sepilisi kunye nenyama yemango.

Izingane zazihlala zihleli etafileni lesidlo kunye nathi, nakubokuqala xa bebethana nje ngeemikhonto zamakhukhamba okanye isiqwenga sesonka. Sifuna ukuba basibone ukutya, ukuba sinomdla kwizinto esasidlayo. Ngeenyanga ezisixhenxe okanye ezisibhozo bahlala beqala ukukhomba izinto kwiiplate zethu, ngokungathi bathi, "Hayi, ndiyazi ukuba uyadla into engingayiyo, ndiyifuna!" Ngoko saqala ukudibanisa ngakumbi ukutya kwabo kwiiplate. Naliphi na ixesha esilungele ukutya okutsha, nathi sibandakanya ukutya kokubili ukuya kwimizi emibini eyaziwayo-intonga yeshizi kunye ne-strawberries okanye ezimbini, ngaphezu kwe-spaghetti kunye ne-meatball, njl njl.

Njengoko sasihamba ngokutya, sazama ukuzisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokutya. Sizinike izinto ezimbini ukuya kwethathu ngexesha, kwaye zijolise kubo bonke ukuba babe nemibala eyahlukileyo (ngubani ofuna i-tray epheleleyo yomtya obomdaka, kunene?), Imibala eyahlukeneyo (ezinye izinto ezinqabileyo, ezinye i-chewy, ezinye zincinci), kunye neenambatho ezihlukeneyo (usawoti, onomnandi, ococekileyo, njl.). Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, asizange siyeke ukuba bafuna ukuzama into - nokuba ngaba yilomon ephuma yam yamanzi kwivenkile yokutyela, okanye umqulu wongxowa wesikhomba ngexesha lokuthatha ubusuku be-sushi, okanye ukutya iimbambo ngokuthe ngqo kwithambo.

Kodwa masithembeke ngokunyanisekileyo ngaphambi kokuba bathethe (okanye kubaluleke ngakumbi, intetho umva) lihle kakhulu. Ukuba abayithandi into, banokwenza ubuso okanye bayiphonsa kwi-tray yabo, kodwa njani le ngcamango ibambelele kwiminyaka emancinci kunye neyeschool?

Buyela kwiiveki ezimbalwa kwaye ndiza kubelana ngendlela esilwa ngayo ixesha lokutya - yintoni ehamba kwi-plate, into engayiyo, kunye nokulandela emva kokutya.