Ukukhulisa abantwana bam ukuba babe yizilwanyana ezizidlayo: Icandelo 2

Siyakwamkela emva! Iposi lokugqibela ndathetha kancinci malunga nendlela esazisa ngayo amancinane amantshontshi ekudleni xa beyiintsana - ngethemba lokuba ndiya kubaphakamisela ukuba babe njengomdla wokudla njengokuba ndidla. Ukuncedwa kwabantwana kusebenze njengento ekhethiweyo endlwini yam - iintsana zam zifuna ukuzama ukufumana ukutya kwazo ezinokuthi zifumane iminwe yabo encinci. Ndingabagcina njani ukuba bangaba ngabantwana abaselula?

Ukukhuthaza ukutya okulula kunye nabantwana abaselula

Ndizama ukupheka isidlo ngobusuku obukhulu beveki kwaye ndenze konke okusemandleni ukuba ndifake ukutya okuhlukahlukeneyo kwiveki - inkukhu ngobusuku omnye, mhlawumbi ubanjwe ubusuku omnye, isaladi ngobusuku omnye, inyama yenkomo okanye ingulube ngobunye ubusuku, njalo njalo. icala lezitho zentsana - ngoko ke ukuba azinthandi oko ndenzele isidlo sakusihlwa, ndiyazi ukuba baya kudla okungenani * into kwaye bangayi kulala kunye nesisu esingenalutho. Bakhetha naluphi na iziqhamo abazifunayo - iidiliya, iinqununu ze-orange, ibhanana, okanye nantoni na eyenzekayo kwindlu. Emva koko bafumana nantoni na abantu abadala abayidlayo, kwinqanaba elincinci.

Njengokuba abantwana bekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuba baqale ukucela ukuphatha / i-dessert emva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa, senze imithetho embalwa-ukuba uzama yonke into kwisitya sakho ubuncinci kube kanye, unokuba nonyango oluncinci njenge-Hershey's Kiss okanye isibini se-M & Nks. Ukuba utye konke isidlo sakho sangokuhlwa, unokuba nonyango olukhulu, njengecookie okanye isitya esincinci se-ice cream.

Ingcamango "yokunyanga" isebenze ngokumangalisayo. Bazama izinto abangazange bacinge ukuba bangazithanda, nangona bebezenza ubuso obunobunzima ngenkathi besenza njalo. Kwakusoloko kukhokelela ekubetheni okongezelelweyo okanye izicelo ezininzi.

Kodwa impumelelo yethu yaphela apho. Sasihlala sixoxisana nezingane ukuba sidle, sitsho kwaye sicele ukuba sasidla ngaphaya kangakanani ukuba siphume kakhulu, sikhalazela ukuba sasizinike kakhulu kwi-plate yabo, kwaye kunye nokuqhubekeka. Ndandidla ixesha lokutya. Sonke sasihlala silwa ngokutya. Kwaye sasinesidima.

Kwi UkuNcotshwa kwabantwana Incwadi, iyakuthetha indlela yokuqhuba indlela yelo xesha kubuntwaneni bonke, kwaye lo mbandela uqobo. Isisombululo sabo? Ukuphathwa okuncinci kunikwe umntwana kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa. Ufunda okokunene, NGOKUSINDLA isidlo sakusihlwa. Ndandibhala ngokukhawuleza njengento engenangqondo - ndazi nje ukuba umntwana wam uya kuba yinto yokudla ishokoleta yakhe kuqala, achaze ukuba zenziwe, kwaye acele ukuba axolelwe.

Kodwa kwiinyanga nje ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo bendiphelile engqondweni yam ngothethathethwano lwangokuhlwa lwesidlo. Ngokuqinisekileyo abantwana bam bazamile ukutya kwabo, kodwa ke yonke into yaba malunga noko "banako" ukutya. Bendingafuni ukuba abantwana bam babenolo hlobo lobudlelwane kunye nokutya- bendifuna ukuba bafunde ukutya ukoneliseka, bangatyisi kakhulu, okanye bazive ngathi babophelelekile ukuba batye izinto ezithile okanye izixa ezithile zezinto. Ke ndaye ndalahla umoya ndazama oko u-Baby Led Weaning wakucebisayo. Bafumene unyango oluncinci kakhulu ecaleni kweplate yabo ekuqaleni kwesidlo sangokuhlwa - itshokholethi, iibhere zegummy, ikuki encinci. Babenokuyitya nanini na befuna. Siwugcinile umgaqo malunga nokuba kufuneka uzame yonke into kwisitya sakho ngaphambi kokuba uxolelwe. Ke ndiyazi ubuncinci, baya kuyitya impatho yabo, mhlawumbi iziqhamo zabo, kunye nokuluma kube kanye nangantoni na eyenye. Kwaye ndilungile ngaloo nto - abantwana bam bayatya. Batya xa belambile, batya ukutya abakuthandayo. Kwafuneka ndibathembe ukuba bazakwenza apha.

Andikwazi ukuthetha ngelizwi ngokwaneleyo - Oku kuye kwatshintsha ixesha lokutya kwindlu yethu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, simele sibaxelele ukuba bahlale bemi, bangafuni ukukhangela imfoloko yabo, bayeke ukucula nokutya, blah blah blah. Baneeminyaka emibili nangesihlanu kuphela emva kweminyaka yonke. Kodwa kukho ukulwa okunzima malunga nokutya.

Ndisoloko ndiva "andiyithandi loo nto" ngokukhawuleza kokutya kwabo phambi kwabo. Kwaye ndaphendula ngokuthi "Hayi ukuba awuyithandi emva kokuba uzame, awudingi ukutya." Kwaye oko kukuphela kwengxoxo. Iyamangalisa. Bazama into ngayinye, badle kakhulu okanye bancinane njengoko bafuna, bahlambele ubisi obuninzi, babuze baxolelwe. Akukho ncokola-akukho nto ishiywe ukuthetha.

Ngobunye ubusuku sibabamangalisa ngokuphathwa kongeziwe njengesitya se-ayisikrimu emva kokuba wonke umntu enze ngokutya. Kodwa yileyondlela-eyongezelelweyo yonyango elowo wonke umntu ufumana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba (okanye encinci) umntu ngamnye wadla isidlo sakusihlwa.

Njengoko ndatsho ngaphambili, andinalo ingcali engumzali. Andizizo zonke iimpendulo, andinakufane ndifumane ezinye iimpendulo. Kwaye i-kiddos yam iselula kakhulu, ngoko ndiyazi ukuba andiyikho emaphandleni kwilizwe lokutya okukhethiweyo. Kubo bonke abahlobo bam nabazali - oothixo. Ukuba ufumene nomdla ocolileyo okanye ezimbini, ndiyathemba ukuba amava am ndinokukunceda. Yaye ukuba ayithethi, ndiyathemba ukuba ufumana into esebenza ngokukhawuleza. Ungesabi ukuzama iingcamango ezahlukeneyo kwaye ube nesineke. Kwaye ungabi nzima ngokwakho - ndiyathembisa, zonke iidanga zizakugqiba.

Fumana abantwana bakho ekhishini kunye nawe, kwaye ungesabi ukuzonwabisa. Umnqweno omhle!