Ukuzilolonga Nomntwana Wam

I-POV: Ubuvukile amaxesha amaninzi ubusuku bonke, uzolisa umntwana onomsindo. Kwakhona unomsebenzi osisigxina, abantwana ababini bomtshato wesibini, inja, kunye nemisebenzi yendlu ekulindeleyo. Ngaphandle koko, nje ukuba uqalise ukusebenza, usana lwakho oluncinane luqalisa ukukhala, lufuna ukutyiswa okanye ukonwabisa. Uyazi ukuba kubalulekile ukuzilolonga kodwa … ngubani onexesha?

Yiloo ndlela endandiziva ngayo ngelixa ndizama ukuzulazula ukuba ngumama omtsha kule ntwasahlobo idlulileyo. Andizange ndibe yeyona gym-goer ezinikeleyo, nangaphambi kokuba ndibe nomntwana. Andizange ndibe ngomnye waba bantu abahamba yonke imihla kwaye bayibeke phambili ngaphezu kwayo yonke enye into. Kwaye emva kokubeleka, iintsasa ezininzi ndandivuka kwangethuba nosana lwam ndingazi ukuba ndiza kulihambisa njani ixesha de kufike umama ukuze amnyamekele loo mini. Yayilixesha lam lasimahla, elivulekileyo, kodwa akukho nto yayiphunyezwa ngaphandle kokuba ndifumane imiboniso endiyithandayo yeHulu kunye noMax. Ndandingaziva mnandi ngokungazilolongi endandikwenza; ukubona i-Apple Watch yam yeekhalori ezitshisiweyo kwaye namanyathelo athathiweyo kwakutyhafisa.

Ngenye imini, kwiseshoni kunye nomnyangi wam, wandibuza ukuba ndikwazi njani ukuxinezeleka kunye nokuxhalaba njengomama omtsha owayebambeke kakhulu endlwini. Ndathi andazi nyani. Bendingasenzeli nto ingako ibingomntwana qha. Esazi ukuba le yindlela eqhelekileyo yokulawula uxinzelelo (kwaye into endiyonwabelayo), wabuza ukuba ndenze umthambo mva nje. Ndamxelela ukuba khange ndiyenze kuba bekunzima nomntwana. Icebiso lakhe lalisithi, “Kutheni ungazilolongi NOmntwana?”

Le nto ayizange ithi qatha kum, kodwa ndayicingisisa. Ngokucacileyo, kwakukho izinto endandikwazi nendingenakuzenza. Ukuya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca kwakungeyondlela yokuzikhethela ekuseni ngaphandle kokhathalelo lwabantwana, kodwa kwakukho izinto endandinokuzenza ekhaya okanye ebumelwaneni ezaziza kuhlala umfana wam omncinane ngoxa ndandisenza umthambo. Imisebenzi emibini endiyifumene kwangoko yayikuhambo olude kunye nestroller kunye neevidiyo zeYouTube apho abahlohli bakhokelela ekusebenzeni nosana.

Ngenye intsasa, emva kokuba umntwana wam elele ubusuku bonke kwaye ndiziva ndinamandla, ndagqiba ekubeni ndizame. Ndivuke ngo 6 am, ndabeka umntanam kwi bouncy chair, ndanxiba impahla yokuzilolonga. Saya kwigumbi lokuhlala, ndakhangela “iYoga nomntwana” kuYouTube. Ndonwabile kukubona kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhetha phaya. Iividiyo bezisimahla (kunye neentengiso ezimfutshane), kwaye zibandakanya iindlela zokugcina umntwana wakho onwabile kwaye uzisebenzise njengenxalenye yokuzilolonga kwakho. Ndaye ndafumanisa emva kwexesha lokuzilolonga, apho unokumphakamisa umntwana wakho kwaye umjikelezise, ​​umgcine onwabile ngelixa esebenzisa ubunzima bomzimba wakhe ukomeleza izihlunu.

Ngokukhawuleza oku kwaba ngumsebenzi endandikhangele phambili kuwo ntsasa nganye, ndivuka kwakusasa, ndichithe ixesha nomntwana wam omncinane nokwenza umthambo. Ndaqalisa nokuhamba naye ixesha elide. Njengoko wayekhula, wayekwazi ukuhlala ephaphile kwaye ejonge ngaphandle kwistroller, ngoko wayekonwabela ukujonga indawo kwaye wayengenakuphikisana ngexesha lokuhamba. Bekumnandi ukufumana umoya omtsha kunye nokuzilolonga ndiye ndafunda (nangona ndingaqinisekanga ukuba yinyani) ukuba usana lwakho luphuma phandle elangeni, lumnceda akwazi ukwahlula imini nobusuku kwamsinyane luze lumncede alale. ubusuku.

Nazi iividiyo ezimbalwa zikaYouTube endizonwabeleyo, kodwa ndihlala ndijonge ezintsha ukuze nditshintshe indlela yam!

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