Please ensure Javascript is enabled for purposes of website accessibility Tsiba kwisiqulatho main

INyanga yezeMfundo yoKhuseleko lokutya

Kwimbeko ye INyanga yeSizwe yeMfundo ngoKhuseleko lokuTya, ndinebali endilifunde kubo bonke abagcini babantwana.

Ndinabantwana ababini, ngoku abahlanu & abasixhenxe. Ngehlobo lika-2018, mna nabantwana sasiyonwabela imuvi kunye neepopcorn. Oyena mncinane wam, uForrest, waqala ukugaqa (njengoko abantwana abancinci besenza ngamanye amaxesha) kwipopcorn kodwa wayikhohlela ngokukhawuleza kwaye ibonakala ilungile. Kamva ngaloo ngokuhlwa, ndeva isandi esitswinayo esithambileyo siphuma esifubeni sakhe. Ingqondo yam ikhe yajongana nepopcorn qha ndacinga ukuba inoba kukuqala kwengqele. Ukukhawuleza-phambili iintsuku ezimbalwa kunye nesandi esivuthuzayo sihlala kodwa akukho zimpawu zibonakalayo. Wayengenawo umkhuhlane, impumlo evuzayo, okanye ukhohlokhohlo. Wayengathi uyadlala ahleke atye njengamaxesha onke. Andizange ndikhathazeke kakhulu, kodwa ingqondo yam yabuyela emva kobo busuku bepopcorn. Ndenza idinga likagqirha ekupheleni kwaloo veki ndaza ndamngenisa ukuze ahlolwe.

Ukuphefumla kwaqhubeka, kodwa kwakuthambile kakhulu. Xa ndandisa unyana wethu kwagqirha, wayengeva nto. Ndakhankanya i-popcorn gagging, kodwa ekuqaleni abazange bacinge ukuba yiyo. Iofisi yaqhuba iimvavanyo ezithile yaza yanditsalela umnxeba ngosuku olulandelayo ukuba ndize naye ukuze afumane unyango lwe-nebulizer. Ishedyuli yethu ibingasivumeli idinga losuku olulandelayo, salinda ezinye iintsuku ukuba simngenise. UGqirha akazange abonakale exhalabile ngokulibaziseka kwaye nathi asizange senze njalo. Ngeli xesha, mhlawumbi sasimalunga neveki enesiqingatha ukusuka kwipopcorn kunye ngokuhlwa kwefilimu. Ndamzisa kwi-ofisi kagqirha ukuze afumane unyango lwe-nebulizer ngokupheleleyo ndilindele ukumshiya kwi-daycare kwaye abuyele emsebenzini emva koko, kodwa usuku aluzange luhambe kanye njengoko bekucwangcisiwe.

Ndinombulelo ongazenzisiyo koogqirha babantwana abanyamekela unyana wethu. Sathi xa singena kunyango, ndaphinda ndaliphinda ibali elo komnye ugqirha ndaza ndachaza ukuba ndisasiva isivunguvungu kungekho zimbi iimpawu. Wavuma ukuba le nto yayingaqhelekanga kwaye yayingahlali naye kakuhle. Uye watsalela iSibhedlele saBantwana ukuze adibane nabo baza bacebisa ukuba simzise ukuze ajongwe liqela labo le-ENT (Indlebe, Impumlo, Umqala). Noko ke, ukuze sibonwe ngabo, kwafuneka sidlule kwigumbi labagula kakhulu.

Safika kwiSibhedlele Sabantwana eAurora kancinane kamva ngaloo ntsasa saza sangena kwi-ER. Ndandimise ekhaya endleleni eya apho ukuze ndithathe izinto ezimbalwa ukuba kunokwenzeka siphelele apho imini yonke. Babesilindele, ngoko akuzange kuthathe xesha lide abongikazi abambalwa kunye noogqirha bamjonga. Ewe, bebengeva nakuphi na ukutswina ekuqaleni kwaye, okwangoku, ndiyaqala ukucinga ukuba oku kuninzi kwe-hoopla simahla. Kwandula ke, ekugqibeleni, omnye ugqirha weva into ethile isisithukuthezi kwicala lasekhohlo lesifuba sakhe. Sekunjalo, akukho mntu wayebonakala exhalabile ngelo xesha.

Iqela le-ENT lathi liza kubeka umda emqaleni wakhe ukuze libonakale ngcono kodwa licinga ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba lingafumani nto. Oku yayikukulumkisa nje ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo. Kwalungiselelwa ukuba kwenziwe utyando kamva ngaloo ngokuhlwa ukuze kunikwe ithuba phakathi kwesidlo sakhe sokugqibela nexesha awayeza kufumana ngalo isithomalalisi. Iqela le-ENT likholelwa ukuba oku kuya kukhawuleza- ngaphakathi nangaphandle malunga nemizuzu ye-30-45. Emva kweeyure ezimbalwa kunye neqela lotyando, ekugqibeleni bakwazi ukususa i-popcorn kernel shuck (ndicinga ukuba yiloo nto ibizwa) kwimiphunga ye-Forrest. Ugqirha wotyando uthe yayiyeyona nkqubo inde abakhe bathatha inxaxheba kuyo (ndiye ndaziva ndinemincili malunga naloo nto kwicala labo, kodwa yayiluloyiko oluncinci kum).

Ndibuyele kwigumbi lokuphumla ukuze ndibambe indoda yam encinci kwiiyure ezimbalwa ezizayo ngelixa ivukile. Ebekhala encwina engawavuli amehlo noba yiyure yonke. Eli yayilixesha kuphela lo mfana wayekhathazekile ngalo lonke ixesha sihlala esibhedlele. Ndiyamazi umqala wakhe ububuhlungu kwaye ebengaqondi. Bendivuyela nje ukuba yonke into iphelile kwaye uzophila. Wavuka ngokupheleleyo ngobo busuku waza watya isidlo kunye nam. Sacelwa ukuba sihlale ubusuku bonke kuba amanqanaba e-oxygen ehlile kwaye babefuna ukumgcina ukuze aqwalaselwe kwaye baqinisekise ukuba akalufumani usulelo kuba ikhuku le-popcorn lalifakwe apho phantse iiveki ezimbini. Siye sakhutshwa ngengomso kungekho nto itheni ebebuyele esimeni sakhe ngathi akwenzekanga nto.

Ukuba ngumzali okanye umgcini wabantwana kunzima. Sizama ukwenza konke okusemandleni ethu kwezi nuggets zincinci kwaye asisoloko siphumelela. Owona mzuzu wawunzima kum kuxa kwafuneka ndiphume kwigumbi lotyando ngoxa babemfaka phantsi kwesitofu ndaza ndamva ekhwaza esithi “Mama.” Loo nkumbulo ibethelele engqondweni yam yaza yandinika imbono entsha ngokubaluleka kokhuseleko lokutya. Sibe nethamsanqa esi yayisisehlo esincinci xa sithelekisa noko bekunokubakho. Kwakukho iminyaka eliqela apho iipopcorn zazingavumelekanga ekhayeni lethu.

Oogqirha bethu bacebise ukuba akukho popcorn, iidiliya (nokuba zinqunyulwe), okanye amandongomane phambi kweminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Ndiyazi ukuba oku kunokubonakala kugqithisile, kodwa bakhankanye ukuba phambi kwale minyaka abantwana abanako ukuvuthwa kwe-gag reflux efunekayo ukunqanda ukukrwitshwa. Gcina abo bantwana bekhuselekile kwaye ungabondli abantwana bakho bepopcorn!