Ulonwabo Luyenzeka Ngenyanga
Ulonwabo lweNyanga lwaqalwa nguMbutho oMfihlo wabantu abonwabileyo ngo-Agasti 1998. Yasekwa ukuba ibhiyozele ulonwabo ngokuqonda ukuba ukubhiyozela ulonwabo lwethu kunokosulela abo basingqongileyo. Ikhuthaza imeko-bume yolonwabo nolonwabo. Ndiye ndagqiba ekubeni ndibhale malunga neNyanga yolonwabo kuba xa ndifunda ukuba kukho inyanga enjalo, ndandixhathisa kuyo. Ndandingafuni ukuyijongela phantsi imizabalazo enokubangelwa bubomi. Izibalo zibonise ukuba kukho ukonyuka kwe-25% kubukho bexhala kunye nokudakumba kwihlabathi liphela ukusukela kubhubhane. Ngokubhala le posti yebhlog, bendingafuni ukunciphisa umzabalazo wamntu wokufumana ulonwabo.
Noko ke, emva kokucinga okuthile, ndafumanisa ukuba ndiyayithanda ingcamango ethi “Ulonwabo Luyenzeka.” Xa ndifumana ulonwabo lungekho, kungenxa yokuba ndilujonga ngokwembono yolonwabo njengenyathelo elibalulekileyo. Ukuba ndiphumeza izinto ezithile endicinga ukuba ziya kundonwabisa, ngoko kufuneka ndonwabe, akunjalo? Ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba umlinganiselo ongenakwenzeka wento eyenza ubomi bonwabe. Njengabaninzi bethu, ndiye ndafunda ukuba ubomi buzaliswe lucelomngeni esilunyamezelayo kwaye ngoko kunyamezela sifumana amandla. Ibinzana elithi “Ulonwabo Luyenzeka” lithetha kum ukuba lunokwenzeka nangawuphi na umzuzu kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Kuba phakathi kwemini sinyamezele nje, ulonwabo lunokuvuswa sisijekulo esilula, unxibelelwano olumnandi nomnye, isiqhulo. Zizinto ezincinci ezivuselela ulonwabo.
Enye yezona ndlela zingasebenziyo zokunxibelelana nolonwabo kukugxila kulo mzuzu kwaye ndinike ingqwalasela kwinto eyenzekayo ngeenxa zonke kum. Ixhala layizolo okanye langomso liyanyibilika kwaye ndiyakwazi ukugxila kubulula bexesha. Ndiyazi ukuba apha, ngoku, konke kulungile. Into endizisela ulonwabo lukhuseleko nokhuseleko lwangoku. Kwincwadi ka-Eckhart Tolle ethi "Amandla angoku," uthi, "Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba uhloniphe ixesha langoku, konke ukungonwabi kunye nomzabalazo uyaphela, kwaye ubomi buqala ukuhamba ngovuyo kunye nokukhululeka."
Amava am aye abonisa ukuba ingcinezelo nomnqweno wokonwaba unokubangela ukungonwabi. Xa ebuzwa ukuba “wonwabile?” Andazi ukuba ndingawuphendula njani umbuzo. Kuba luthetha ntoni ngokwenene ulonwabo? Ngaba ubomi kanye njengoko bendilindele ukuba buya kuba njalo? Akunjalo, kodwa yinyani yokuba ngumntu. Ngoko ke, yintoni ulonwabo? Ndingacebisa ukuba yimeko yengqondo, hayi imeko yokubakho. Kukufumana ulonwabo phakathi kwamahla-ndinyuka osuku ngalunye. Ukuba ngomzuzu omnyama, intlantsi yolonwabo inokuzibonakalisa kwaye iphakamise ubunzima. Okona kwelona xesha liqaqambileyo, singabhiyozela ulonwabo esiluvayo kwaye sikhulule uxinzelelo lokuzama ukugcina loo mzuzu. Amaxesha olonwabo ayakuhlala ezibonakalisa, kodwa ngumsebenzi wethu ukuwava.
Ulonwabo alunakulinganiswa nangubani na ngaphandle kwethu. Ulonwabo lwethu luxhomekeke ekukwazini kwethu ukuphila ubomi ngokwemiqathango yobomi. Ukuphila ngendlela ewonga umzabalazo ngelixa usamkela uvuyo oludalwa yimizuzu elula. Andikholelwa ukuba ulonwabo lumnyama okanye lumhlophe … ukuba mhlawumbi sonwabile okanye akonwabanga. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba uluhlu olupheleleyo lweemvakalelo kunye namaxesha aphakathi koko kuzalisa ubomi bethu kunye nokwamkela iintlobo ngeentlobo zobomi kunye neemvakalelo yindlela ulonwabo eyenzekayo.
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Amandla angoku: Isikhokelo soKhanya loMoya ngu-Eckhart Tolle | Goodreads,