Ukukhulelwa kunye neNkumbulo yokulahleka kweNtsana-Uhambo loMama omnye lokuPhilisa
ISILUMKISO SOKUPHUHLISA: Ukulahlekelwa ngumntwana kunye nokuphuphuma kwesisu.
Usana lwam oluyinkwenkwe olunguAyden,
Ndiyakukhumbula.
Xa ndihlamba udade wenu okanye ndimlungiselele ukuya esikolweni,
Ndiyakucinga.
Xa ndibona inkwenkwana iminyaka uza kuba yiyo ngoku,
Ndicinga ukuba ubuya kukhangeleka njani.
Xa ndidlula iithoyi ezisevenkileni,
Ndiyazibuza ukuba yeyiphi onokuyonwabela ukudlala nayo.
Xa ndihambahamba,
Ndikufanisa ufikelela kwisandla sam.
Andinakuze ndiyazi ukuba kutheni ubomi bakho bufutshane kangaka,
Kodwa ndiyazi ngentliziyo yam yonke ukuba unguye kwaye uyakuhlala uthandwa.
Izinto ezimbi zenzeka kubantu abalungileyo.
Ngaba uyayikhumbula eyona mini imbi ebomini bakho? Eyam ibinguFebruwari 2, 2017. Imini esangena ngayo kwi-gender ityhila i-ultrasound, kwaye endaweni yoko yeva umhlaba oqhekezayo: "Siyaxolisa kakhulu, akukho kubetha kwentliziyo." Kwaye emva koko cwaka. Ukufuthanisela, ukutya konke, ukuthula okutyumzayo, okulandelwa kukuqhekeka okupheleleyo.
“Inokuba kukho into engalunganga endiyenzileyo!
Ndenze ntoni ukuze ndifaneleke?
Ndizakuqhubeka njani?!
Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba andisakwazi ukuba nabantwana?
Ngoba?!?!?"
Ndindindisholo, ndinomsindo, ndibhidekile, ndingonelanga, ndinetyala, ndineentloni, ndixhelekile entliziyweni – ndaziva zonke. Sekunjalo, ngombulelo ukuya kwinqanaba elingaphantsi. Ukuphiliswa kwinto enje luhambo olungapheliyo. Intlungu ayinamda - umzuzu omnye uziva ulungile, olandelayo - awunakukwazi ukulahlekelwa.
Into eyancedayo, ngakumbi kumanqanaba okuqala, yinkxaso yosapho lwethu kunye nabahlobo bethu abanobubele, abanye babo ababenentliziyo efanayo. Ukungena, izipho ezicingisisiweyo, izibonelelo kwintlungu, izidlo zeentsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala, ukundikhupha ukuze ndihambe, kunye nokunye okuninzi. Ukuthululwa kothando esalufumanayo kwaba yintsikelelo engathethekiyo. Kwakhona ndibe nenyhweba yokufikelela kwizibonelelo zempilo yengqondo neyengqondo, kunye nenkqubo yenkxaso eqinileyo emsebenzini. Abaninzi aba…
Ngaphandle kwenkxaso yam emangalisayo, ndawela kumgibe webala. Ukuphunyelwa zizisu nokulahlekelwa ziintsana kuxhaphake ngendlela emangalisayo, ukanti imixholo idla ngokubizwa ngokuthi “isiteketiso” okanye icuthwa kwiincoko (“Ubuncinane ubungekho kude kangako,” “Intle into yokuba sele unomntwana omnye.”) World Health Organization, “malunga nokukhulelwa omnye kwabane uphela ngokuphuma kwesisu, ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphambi kweeveki ezingama-28, yaye iintsana ezizizigidi ezisisi-2.6 zizalwa ziswelekile, yaye isiqingatha sabo sifa xa bebeleka.”
Ekuqaleni, ndandingaziva ndikhululekile ukuthetha ngayo nokufuna uncedo lweengcali. Andindedwa ovakalelwa ngale ndlela.
Sonke sinokuhlangabezana nentlungu ngokwahlukileyo. Akukho ntloni ngokufuna uncedo. Fumana oko kukusebenzela wena nosapho lwakho. Thatha ixesha lokuba buhlungu kwaye ungangxami ukuphilisa. Umzuzu omnye, iyure enye, usuku lube nye ngexesha.
Izixhobo eziluncedo: