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Impilo yengqondo kaMama

By Lindsay C

Kutshanje, into yokuba uSuku loMama kunye neNyanga yeMpilo yeNgqondo zombini ziwela kwinyanga kaMeyi ayibonakali ngathi yinto eyenzeka ngokungalindelekanga kum. Impilo yengqondo kamama ibe yeyobuqu kum kule minyaka idlulileyo.

Ndikhule ndikholelwa ukuba abasetyhini banako *ekugqibeleni* ukuba nako konke – imisebenzi enempumelelo yayingasenamida kuthi. Oomama abasebenzayo baba yinto eqhelekileyo, yeyiphi inkqubela esiyenzileyo! Into endisileleyo ukuyiqonda (kwaye ndiyazi ukuba abaninzi kwisizukulwana sam basilela ukuyiqonda) kukuba ihlabathi alidalelwanga amakhaya anabazali ababini abasebenzayo. Uluntu lunokuba ubamkele oomama abasebenzayo emhlambini kodwa... Ikhefu labazali lisanqongophala kakhulu kwiindawo ezininzi zelizwe, ukhathalelo lwabantwana luxabisa ngaphezulu kwerenti/imali yokubambisa, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba unexesha elininzi elihlawulelwayo lokuphumla (PTO) ukuze uhlawule ngalo lonke ixesha umntwana kufuneka ehlala ekhaya evela kukhathalelo lwasemini kuba ye omnye usulelo lwendlebe.

Ndinomyeni onenkxaso ngendlela emangalisayo osebenzisana nabazali njengentshatsheli. Kodwa loo nto ayizange indikhusele ekubeni ndihlale ndifowunelwa kuqala – nangona umyeni wam wayedweliswe njengomntu wokuqala onxibelelana naye kuba wayesebenza imizuzu eli-10 kuphela kwaye ndandihamba ndinqumla idolophu. Ayizange indikhusele kumphathi ombi endandinaye ndisancancisa umncinci wam, owandohlwaya ngazo zonke iibhloko endandinazo kwikhalenda yam ukuze ndimpompe.

Uninzi lwehlabathi lusasebenza ngokungathi kukho umzali ongasebenziyo ekhaya. Ukuqala kade/ientsuku zokukhululwa kwangoko kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi ezibonakala ngathi zithetha ukuba kukho umntu oza kusa abantwana esikolweni ngo-10:00 kusasa okanye abalande ngo-12:30 ebusuku. 9 kusasa ukuya ku-00:5 emva kwemini, ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesihlanu. Abaqokeleli-mali, amaqela ezemidlalo, izifundo, iikonsathi zesikolo, amatyelelo eemidlalo abonakala esenzeka ebudeni bentsimbi yesi-00:8 kusasa ukuya kweyesi-00:5 emva kwemini. emva kwenja. Ubungafuni ukuphumla ngeempelaveki, akunjalo? Kodwa ngeli xesha lonyaka, siva imiyalezo emininzi “enkosi mama, uligorha elibalaseleyo”. Kwaye nangona ndingafuni ukubonakala ndingenambulelo, kuthekani ukuba endaweni yoko sasinehlabathi elingasifuniyo ukuba sibe yigorha elibalaseleyo ukuze siphile?

Kodwa endaweni yoko, yonke into iyaqhubeka iba nzima. Kuya kusiba nzima ukuba abasetyhini bafikelele kukhathalelo lwempilo abaludingayo kwaye benze izigqibo ngemizimba yabo. Ukhuseleko lwezempilo lunokwahluka ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni ungubani umqeshi wakho okanye uhlala kwesiphi na ilizwe. Kulula kwabanye ukushumayela ngokuzikhathalela xa uziva ngathi unexesha lokuxukuxa ngezinye iintsuku, singasathethi ke ngokufumana ixesha lokuhamba. kunyango (kodwa kufuneka, unyango luyamangalisa!). Kwaye apha ndicinga ukuba kunzima kwikhaya elinabazali ababini abasebenzayo, loo nto ayifani naleyo abazali abangenabazali abahlangabezana nayo. Amandla engqondo asetyenziswa ngumzali kule mihla ayadinisa.

Kwaye siyamangala ukuba kutheni impilo-ntle yomntu wonke ibonakala iyancipha. Siphila kwimeko engaguqukiyo yoluhlu lwezinto eziza kwenziwa zinde kunenani leeyure ngosuku, enoba kusemsebenzini okanye ekhaya. Ukucacisa enye yeesitcoms endizithandayo (“Indawo Elungileyo”), kuya kuba nzima ngokuba ngumntu. Kuya kuba nzima ukuba ngumzali. Kuya kuba nzima nangakumbi ukusebenza kwihlabathi elingadalelwanga ukuba sisebenze kulo.

Ukuba uyatsala nzima, akuwedwa.

Ngandlela thile, sinxibelelene ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Ndinombulelo kuba siphila ngexesha apho abantwana bam banokuFaceTime kunye noomakhulu babo ukuba banqwenelele uSuku loMama olonwabileyo ngelixa bekwisiqingatha selizwe. Kodwa kukho ubungqina obandayo ukuba abantu bazive bengamakheswa kwaye bengamalolo kunanini na ngaphambili. Isenokuvakala ngathi sithi sodwa esingaziqondiyo zonke ezi zinto.

Ndinqwenela ukuba ndibe nembumbulu yesilivere kubazali abasebenzayo abajongene noxinzelelo lokuba benze konke. Elona cebiso ndinokunikela ngalo leli: nangona sikhule sikholelwa, awukwazi ukwenza konke. Awulilo, enyanisweni, iqhawe elibalaseleyo. Kufuneka sizibekele imida kwizinto esinokuthi sizenze nesingakwaziyo ukuzenza, esiza kuzenza nesingayi kuzenza. Kufuneka sithi hayi kwezinye zeengxowa-mali okanye sinciphise imisebenzi yasemva kwesikolo. Amatheko omhla wokuzalwa akufuneki abe sisiganeko esifanelekileyo kwimidiya yoluntu.

Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ixesha lam yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kum. Ndivala ixesha kwikhalenda yam yomsebenzi xa ndisa abantwana esikolweni kwaye ndala nayiphi na intlanganiso engqubana noko. Ndiyaqinisekisa ukuba kukho ixesha elaneleyo emini ukuze ndenze umsebenzi wam ukuze ndingaphangeli ngorhatya. Ndithetha kakhulu nabantwana bam ngomsebenzi wam, ngoko bayasiqonda isizathu sokuba ndingakwazi ukuya kuzo zonke iindibano zasemini esikolweni. Abantwana bam bebezibekela ezabo iimpahla oko besesikolweni kwaye bafunda ukucoca igumbi labo lokuhlambela. Ngokungayekiyo ndibeka phambili eyona nto ibalulekileyo kwaye rhoqo ndibeka ecaleni izinto ezingenzi nto, nokuba kusekhaya okanye emsebenzini.

Misela imida kwaye ukhusele impilo-ntle yakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo – nokuba kumhlobo, ilungu losapho, iqabane, ugqirha wakho, okanye igcisa lempilo yengqondo. Akukho mntu unokuyenza yedwa.

Kwaye uncede ekudaleni inkqubo engcono ukuze abantwana bethu bangalwi amadabi afanayo nathi.