Yenza Into entle

Masiqale nje sinyaniseke-ndiyicikilishe, hayi ibhere emhlophe okanye esinye isidalwa sezulu esibandayo. Ke njengokuba iintsuku zifutshane kwaye ukuphola emoyeni kuya kubonakala ngakumbi, ndiya ndisiba mandundu ngakumbi. Kuba oku kubonakala ngathi kwenzeka minyaka le, ndibamba ipatheni apha, kwaye ndiyazifundisa ukuba ndicwangcise kwangaphambili ukulungiselela oko kuza kwenzeka njengoko izitiya zifa kwaye imozulu efumileyo ingena emathanjeni am.

Kulo nyaka, ucwangciso lwam lokulungiselela lubandakanya ukufunda ubuncwane bamanqaku "okuzinceda" kulawulo lweemood. Qikelela ukuba? Ukutshatyalaliswa kweendaba kuzisa ukwanda koxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ewe, kukho umntu oye wakuphanda oko, ke hamba nayo, kwaye unciphise ukondla iindaba zakho ukuya kwimizuzu emihlanu ngosuku. Ndiphinde ndafunda into esiyaziyo sonke njengenyaniso enyanisekileyo, kwaye loo nto kukuba iimvakalelo zabanye abantu zibangela iimpendulo zakho kunye neemoods. Kuba awukwazi ukubaphepha abantu ngokubanzi, unokufunda ukucofa isimilo sabo esibi. Okanye, kungcono, phikisana nokungalindelekanga. Ncuma xa beqabile okanye beqala incoko emnandi nomhlobo ongabonakaliyo. Umbono kukugcwalisa i-emele yakho yegalelo ngezinto ezintle, ukuze ii-negatives zingabinayo indawo yokuhlala.

Eyona ndlela yokugcwalisa ibhakethi lakho elifanelekileyo kukugcina izicwangciso kunye namaqhinga akho. Njengalo squirrel uqokelela amandongomane, unokuqokelela iingcinga kunye namandla amnandi ngoku, kuba xa uwafuna kamva kwisaqhwithi somkhenkce okanye xa imoto yakho ingaqali.

Ngethamsanqa, u-Okthobha kanye lixesha lokwenza kanye loo nto. Umntu othile wayecwangcisa kwangaphambili, kwaye watyumba u-Okthobha u-5 njengoSuku lweSizwe oluMnandi kunye neSizwe Yenza uSuku oluLungileyo. Iluncedo kangakanani loo nto- ungafezekisa izinto ezimbini ngaxeshanye. Imisebenzi emininzi ekusebenzeni kwayo.

Ke ungenza ntoni ukuze ube "Nice?" Yintoni ongayenza ukuze "Wenze into entle?"

Eminye yemisebenzi yam yokuxhasa izinto kukuchola inkunkuma, ndincume nabantu abangahleliyo, okanye ndibone ngamehlo xa kufanelekile. Xa ilixesha lokuba "wenze into entle," lithuba lam lokuqokelela izinto ezakhiwe enkonkxiweyo zenze i-patry yalapha, ndilungise ikhabhathi yedyasi kwaye ndinikele kwiindawo zokugcina impahla, okanye ndibhatalele umntu osemva kwakho umgca. Ihlala ikhona into onokuyenza ukuze "Wenze into eNice" kwabanye. Ungathini ngokuthatha umntwana wakho oziphethe kakuhle uzise kwindawo yokhathalelo lwasekhaya kwaye uhlale kwigumbi lokungenela uncokole nabantu abaza kuza? Oku kuyasebenza ngaphandle kwesilwanyana sasekhaya ukuba ungaqala incoko ngokulula. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuvunywa kuyimfuneko, ke cwangcisa kwangaphambili. Wonke umntu unabo abahlobo kunye nabantu abasebenza nabo abagcina intsingiselo yokunxibelelana nabo-yenze ngoku xa ugcina iingcinga ezishushu. Awusoze wazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo lwefuthe lokufikelela ekunokuba nalo kumntu. "Ndicinga ngawe nje nangalo lonke ulonwabo ebesinalo e .." inokusasaza iingcinga zokoyiswa komamkeli.

Emsebenzini, nangona kungelulanga ngokobuqu, ungazenzela eyakho inguqulelo yekhadi “yeeNqobo eziseSikweni” uze uthumele umyalezo nge-imeyile kumntu osebenza naye. Ngcono nangoku, bhala inqaku uze ulifake kwi-imeyile yenkumba. Ugqibele nini ukufumana into engeyiyo intengiso okanye ityala? Okanye setha isikhumbuzi sekhalenda ukuthumela i-imeyile inqaku elifanelekileyo kumntu omnye ekuqaleni kwemihla ngemihla ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwimiyalezo engxamisekileyo. Akukho nto ingxamisekileyo njengokwakha kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.

Kukho iiholide ezingama-226 “zaMazwe ngaMazwe” okanye “zeSizwe” ngo-Okthobha- kuquka u-Okthobha 1, uSuku lweKofu lwaMazwe ngaMazwe kunye no-Okthobha u-4, uSuku lweSizwe lweMpilo yaBantwana. Ungayonwabela ikomityi yekofu elungileyo yase-Itopiya ngelixa ubhala inqaku kumboneleli wezempilo wabantwana kwaye ubhiyozele zombini "Yiba ulungile" kunye "nenze into entle" yosuku!

Yenza ubuchule-kwaye ube mnandi!