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Phuma uhlale ngaphandle

Nabani na ohlala nam uyazi ukuba ukuba andenzi mithambo rhoqo, ndiye ndicaphuke, ndinyamezele kunye nezinye izichazi ezingesosidima kakhulu. Okuya ndisiba mdala — kwaye ndiziva ndimdala kule mihla- kokukhona ndiya ndiziqonda ukuba ukwenza umthambo kulunge kanye kwimpilo yam yengqondo njengokuba kunjalo nasemzimbeni wam. Ngamafutshane, ubuchopho bam buva emzimbeni wam, ke ukuba umzimba wam usebenza ngokuchanekileyo, ingqondo yam ibaleka ngokuchanekileyo.

Ndiyathetha, sonke sineengxaki zethu, kodwa ukuba ndingathatha ubuchopho bam ngaphandle amaxesha ambalwa ngeveki 'ngexesha lam' wonke umntu wonwabile.

Sonke sinethamsanqa lokuhlala kwindawo entle eneentsuku ezomileyo ngakumbi kunezimanzi, oko kuthetha ukuba ngaphandle kokuba kukho ikhephu elininzi emhlabeni okanye uqhuba imvula, uninzi lweentsuku ungazinyanda uphume uphume. Oku kwenza ukuphuma ngaphandle kombuzo eyiyo okanye engeyiyo ukuya ngaphandle nangaphezulu umbuzo we njani ukuphuma phandle. Ndiza kukubonisa indlela onxiba ngayo ukuze uphumelele, ke uya kubaleka kwaye usebenze (utata joke!) Kwibala elihle laseColorado ngaphandle. Ukuba ukhe wabukela ezo weirdos zibaleka kwindawo ebandayo kwaye uzibuze ukuba bayenza njani loo nto, kukuba bayayazi indlela yokunxiba ukuze baphumelele kwaye kulungile ukuba uphume ubaleke. UNOKUBA yenye yezo weirdos!

Ndiya kuvuma ukuba ndiye ndema emnyango wam ndaye ndaphunga umoya opholileyo wakusasa njengehog yomhlaba emva koko ndaphinda ndalala. Ibhedi ilungile; akukho kuphikisana oko. Kungoyikisa ukushiya ukufudumala kwendlu ngemini ebandayo, kodwa ndiza kukunika amanye amanyathelo okukuphakamisa ebhedini okanye ususe kuloo bhedi, unxibe, uphume ngomnyango nasendleleni .

Inyathelo lokuqala kukuvuka. Kuya kufuneka uvuke ngaxa lithile, ukuze uzenzele into elungileyo. Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukukwakha i-cocoon encinci, yokuthwala ukufudumala kwakho.

Inyathelo elilandelayo kukuya ekhabethe. Siza kwakha inkuku yakho ngaphandle kweempahla osele unazo. Umaleko wokuqala nowokugqibela uya kuba ngowona ubalulekileyo. Uluhlu lokuqala lumalunga nokubamba ubushushu bakho kwaye olokugqibela lumalunga nokubamba ukufudumala kwakho. Ezo ziphakathi apho izinto ziye zenziwe zaba zezakho.

Bamba loo turtleneck indala ungakhange uyinxibe okoko wakhumbula umzali wakho omncinci oyithandayo. Jonga ithegi. Ukuba ithi ipholiyesta okanye i-acrylic okanye uboya, kusenokwenzeka ukuba sisiseko esifanelekileyo. Inesixhobo esakhelwe ngaphakathi entanyeni kunye nemask yokuqengqeleka! Oko kudumbisa, ukukrwitshwa uziva ukuba ubunalo lonke ixesha umzala wakho ebekhupha ngengoma iingoma ngabafana abadala ongazange weva ngazo, ngoku inokutshintshwa ibe yimvakalelo yolonwabo. Ngokukrakra, kukho iitoni zexabiso eziziintloko ezenzelwe injongo yokubaleka, kodwa umahluko ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto. Emva koko, yiya kwisinxibo kwaye ukhuphe iibhulukhwe ezihlala zisetyenziselwa ukulala esofeni. Ezo ngubo zangaphantsi ziya kubaleka ngendlela ebezenzelwe yona. Bamba iikawusi zokunxiba ezingahambelani nantoni na. Ngokuqinisekileyo zizinto ezifanayo neesokisi zokubaleka ezibizayo. Abantu baya kucinga ukuba uyinqaba, ke nxiba loo nto uyifunayo. Okokugqibela, yima kwikhabhathi yedyasi kwaye ukhuphe isixhobo somoya esihlala siphazanyisiwe phakathi kweebhatyi ezimbini ezantsi-leyo ingakhange ikubone ukukhanya kwemini ukusukela oko ubunikwe simahla. Kulungile ukuziva ulumkile kancinci okonga imali, ixesha kwaye ekugqibeleni usebenzisa ezinye izinto ebezinokungena kwibhokisi yokunikezela? Ezi ziqwenga zasimahla zinokusebenza njengesakhelo sakho. Ewe, musa ukulibala izihlangu zakho. Ngeentsuku ezithile, konke oku kuyakufuneka ukukugcina ufudumele ngokwaneleyo.

Njengoko nabani na okhe wahlala apha ithutyana esazi, imozulu ihlala itshintsha. Nawe ke kufuneka wenze njalo. Inxalenye yokubaleka kukwazi indlela oziva ngayo kunye nokulungelelanisa ikhabethe lakho, isantya sakho kwaye mhlawumbi nesimo sakho sengqondo. Kuya kufuneka wongeze omnye umaleko wokugquma phantsi kwesikhuseli somoya ukuba kuyabanda kakhulu. Okanye unokufuna ukutshintshela kwiifutshane ukuba kushushu ngokungafanelekanga. Unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba kulungile ukubanda kancinci. Kulapho amava akho esiba yinxalenye yecocoon. Uzisa ingqondo yakho kunye nawe kuhambo ngalunye ngaphandle komnyango, ke sebenzisa. Njengoko ubaleka, thatha ixesha elincinci lokuva ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe. Ngaba izandla zakho ziyabanda? Ngaba iinyawo zakho ziyabila? Ngaba ngokwenene kufuneka ukhathazeke ? Xa uphumile kwimozulu, uthatha inxaxheba kwinkqubo etshintsha njalo apho ungenolawulo lukhulu njengesiqhelo, kodwa uyakwazi ukuzilawula. Phila ngale mizuzu.

Ukuhlala ushushu asikokubila. Ngokwenene. Musa ukubila kwaye uya kuhlala ushushu. Ukubaleka kuvelisa ubushushu obuninzi; Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ubaleke ngokukhawuleza kakhulu ukoyisa umoya obandayo ongaphandle. Kungumsebenzi wokubila ukukupholisa xa usengozini yokufudumeza. IColorado inomoya owomileyo ngokubanzi, oko kuthetha ukuba ukubila kwakho sisalathiso esihle sokuba ushushu kakhulu kwaye kufuneka ukhuphe ubushushu. Zama ukuvula uziphu wakho womoya kancinci ukuze ukhuphe ubushushu obuninzi kwaye womile ukubila. Ukuba usabila, yikhulule. Esinye sezizathu zokuba ndicebise ukuba kuqhekezwe umoya kukuba zihlala zilula kakhulu, kwaye ungazikroba phantsi ngokwaneleyo ukuze uziphathe ngesandla esinye. Isiphululi somoya esidala senza indawo yomoya phakathi kolusu lwakho kunye nomoya, kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe kukhupha ubushushu kunye nokubila umphunga kunokuba ungabona. Njengecala malunga neebhatyi ezingena manzi; abayiyo. Ukuhlala upholile akunzima nokuba, ukuba umamela. Ngale ndlela, ukubaleka kunokuba luhlobo lokucamngca.

Nje ukuba ubuye umva ucango lwakho kwaye uphume kwikhokho yakho njengebhabhathane elinukayo, qaphela into esebenzayo ukuze uphinde okanye into efuna ukulungiswa. Kungalixesha lokuba uye ezivenkileni ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ufuna into. Nge-intanethi efumanekayo kwizandla zethu, kulula kunanini na ngaphambili ukwenza uphando kwaye ulinde ukuthengiswa. Ndidibanise inqwaba yokuhamba kwezixhobo kule minyaka idlulileyo, kodwa ngexabiso elipheleleyo. Izixhobo zokubaleka zihlala zixabiso lixabiso kwaye zihlala ixesha elide. Uninzi lwezinto endizinxibileyo kukunyathela kunye nokuthwala izihlangu zokubaleka, eziye zibe ziimpahla eziqhelekileyo.

Kuya kubakho amaxesha apho ikhephu linzulu okanye imvula inzima. Kulapho kuluvo oluhle ukuhlala ekhaya kunye nefosholo yendlela yokuhamba okanye mhlawumbi ukhuphe ividiyo yeyoga obekuthetha ukuzama kule minyaka mine idlulileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ukhetho olufanelekileyo kukubuyela ebhedini. Nje ukuba unenkqubo yesiqhelo endaweni, uya kuba nalo elo xesha lakhelwe kwishedyuli yakho. Khetha imida yakho kwaye ubukele isibhakabhaka ukuze ungabanjiswa yimvula kwaye ungxame ugoduke. Ikwahlawula ukuba ne-backup okanye ukucwangcisa malunga noqikelelo. Kukho izinto ezintle kakhulu, ezisebenzisa simahla imozulu ezinokufumana imozulu yeColorado ixesha elininzi. Khetha enye kwaye uyijonge ngaphambi kokuba uye ngaphandle. Ndenze oku lide ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndizokwazi ukuba ndiza kunxiba ntoni ngokobungakanani beqondo lobushushu kunye nesantya somoya. Oku kunciphisa ubuchwephesha obufunekayo kunye nezizathu zokungahlali ngaphakathi. Ngokwenyani besinomswakama obalulekileyo kule veki kwaye bekungabonakali ngathi kundichaphazela phantse kangangoko bendilindele. Ndisayifunda into esebenzayo nengasebenziyo.

Isishwankathelo, phuma. Hlala ngaphandle okwethutyana. Ngena ngaphandle kweminyango kuba iselilizwe elikhulu phaya. Ngaphandle komnyango wakho, ungabona oonogada abadlala esitratweni okanye uve amantshontsho anomsila obomvu kunye namaphiko amnyama abomvu ngefestile. Kwaye ngekhe ukwazi ukubona bonke abo bantu ezindlwini zabo, bejonge i-weirdo ebaleka kubanda obubandayo.