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Inyanga yokuzingca: Izizathu ezithathu zokumamela kunye nokuthetha

By UCharlene (uCharlee) F

"Kufanele ukuba sihlale sizolile xa kukho umahluko kwaye siphile ubomi bethu kubandakanyo kwaye sizibuze ngokwahluka kwabantu." - UGeorge Takei

Ukuya kwinqanaba

Akukho mntu kufuneka ajongane nobundlobongela, ukuphathwa gadalala, okanye ahlupheke ethe cwaka kuba bahlukile komnye umntu. Ihlabathi likhulu ngokwaneleyo kuthi sonke.

Sukuyenza impazamo, ukubonwa kwe-LGBTQ kuhleli. Bonke bamkelekile! Akukho bhokisi, akukho khabhathi, akukho mda kukhanyiso olwenziweyo lokukhanya olufumaneka kumava omntu. Umntu uzichonga njani, azidibanise, kwaye aziveze ngokwahlukileyo.

Yenza isigqibo esaziwayo sokuba uvuleleke ekuqondeni ibali lomnye umntu.

Ibali lam

Ndikhule ndingazi ukuba ndinokukhetha. Ndazifihla iimvakalelo zam, nditsho nam. Kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ndikhumbula ndilila njengoko ndandibukele umhlobo wam osenyongweni ephuza isoka lakhe. Bendingazi ukuba kutheni ndiziva ndikhathazekile. Bendingazi nto. Bendingazazi kangako.

Emva kwesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ndatshata nomfana olungileyo kumakhelwane; sasinabantwana ababini abahle. Phantse iminyaka elishumi, ubomi babukhangeleka kakuhle. Njengoko ndandikhulisa abantwana bam, ndaqalisa ukunikela ingqalelo kwihlabathi elandingqongileyo. Ndabona ukuba ukhetho endilwenzileyo lwenziwe kulindelwe ngabahlobo kunye nosapho. Ndaqala ukwamkela iimvakalelo endizifihlileyo ixesha elide.

Emva kokuba ndiye ndadibana nobuntu bam bangaphakathi… ndaziva ngathi ndiphefumle okokuqala.

Bendingasakwazi tu ukuthula. Ngelishwa, le ntlekele ilandelayo ilandelayo, indishiye ndiziva ndililolo kwaye ndithanda ukusilela. Umtshato wam uqhekeka, abantwana bam babandezeleka, kwaye ubomi bam bahlengahlengiswa kwakhona.

Kuthathe iminyaka ukuzazi, ukufunda kunye nokunyanga. Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyasokola njengamalungu osapho asilelayo ukubuza malunga nenkosikazi yam okanye ubomi bethu. Ndiva ngathi ukuthula kwabo kubonisa ukungavumi. Kucacile kum, andilingani ebhokisini yabo. Mhlawumbi ibali lam libenza bangakhululeki. Ngaphandle koku, ndinoxolo lwangaphakathi. Umfazi wam kwaye sihleli kunye phantse iminyaka eyi-10. Sonwabile kwaye sonwabele ubomi kunye. Abantwana bam bakhulile kwaye baneentsapho zabo. Ndifundile ukugxila kukuphila ubomi bothando kunye nokwamkela kwam nabanye.

Ibali lakho

Nokuba uphi okanye ungubani, fumana iindlela zokwandisa ukuqonda kwakho malunga nebali lomnye umntu. Nika indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuba abanye babe lapho bakhoyo ngalo mzuzu. Vumela abanye ukuba babe yile nto bayiyo ngaphandle komgwebo. Nika inkxaso xa kufanelekile. Kodwa, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, bakhona kwaye umamele.

Ukuba awulilo ilungu loluntu lwe-LGBTQ, yiba ngumlingane. Vuleleka ekwandiseni ukuqonda kwakho malunga namava omnye umntu. Nceda udilize iindonga zokungazi.

Ngaba uyi-LGBTQ? Ngaba uyathetha? Ngaba ufumana ukudideka, ukuba wedwa, okanye ukuxhatshazwa? Kukho izixhobo ezikhoyo okanye amaqela onokungena kuwo. Fumana iindawo ezikhuselekileyo, ubuso, kunye neendawo onokuzikhulisa. Fikelela, qhagamshela, kwaye wonwabele ubomi bakho. Ukuba awunayo inkxaso evela kubahlobo bakho okanye kusapho-yenza ubudlelwane obuluqilima kunye nabo bakuvumela ukuba uziveze. Nokuba ungaphi kuhambo lwakho, awudingi kuhamba wedwa

Izizathu Ezintathu Zokumamela

  • Wonke umntu uneBali: Mamela ibali, vula ukuva malunga namava ahlukileyo okanye ukuzichaza ngokwakho.
  • Ukufunda kubalulekile: Yandisa ulwazi lwakho, bukela uxwebhu oluxhasayo lwe-LGBTQ, joyina umbutho we-LGBTQ.
  • Isenzo siMandla: Yiba ngamandla asebenzayo kutshintsho. Vula iingxoxo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Mamela ngeendlela zokongeza ixabiso kuluntu lwe-LGBTQ.

Izizathu ezithathu zokuthetha

  • Umcimbi: Yabelana ngebali lakho, izimelabizo, ubudlelwane bakho, amava akho obomi kwaye uchaze okulindeleyo.
  • Amandla akho: Uyazi wena - ungcono kunaye wonke umntu! Ilizwi lakho, uluvo kunye negalelo ziyafuneka. Joyina iqela le-LGBTQ okanye umbutho.
  • Hamba iNtetho: Yiba khona ukunceda abanye bakhule - amahlakani, abahlobo / usapho, okanye abantu osebenza nabo. Yiba nobubele, ube nesibindi, kwaye ube nguwe!

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