"Buyela esikolweni

Njengokuba singena kwixesha lonyaka xa abantwana belangazelela ezinye iiveki ezimbalwa zexesha leephuli, ukuhlala kude kube sebusuku, nokulala, ngalo lonke ixesha abazali behlala bebala iiyure, kule minyaka sibuyela kwinkqubo yesiqhelo yesikolo, njengezinto ezininzi Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, kujongeka kwahluke kakhulu. Abazali, kubandakanya mna nenkosikazi yam, kuye kwafuneka sijongane nombuzo wokugcina abantwana ekhaya okanye ukubabuyisela esikolweni buqu. Njengoko ndibhala oku, ndiyazi ukuba kukho iintsapho ezininzi ezingenabunewunewu bokukhetha. Bamele benze nje umsebenzi wabo, ubomi, kunye nokulinganisela komzali okubavumela ukuba benze. Ke, ngelixa ndithetha ngenkqubo yosapho lwam ukwenza ukhetho lwethu, ndiyazi, kwaye ndinombulelo, sikulungele ukukwenza oko.

Ukukhetha. Njengomzali oneminyaka eli-16 neli-13 ubudala, ndifundile okwangoku ukuba uninzi lwabazali bam luye ekuthathweni kwezigqibo, kwaye nokhetho olo lubenze njani abantwana bam, ngokuqinisekileyo nangokubi. Olunye ukhetho lwalulula, ngokungafani neelekese ngaphambi kokuba utye iziqhamo kunye nemifuno. Okanye "hayi, awunakubukela ezinye iiyure ezimbini zeTV. Phuma uye kwenza into! ” Olunye ukhetho lwalunzima kakhulu, njengokuthi yeyiphi isohlwayo esifanelekileyo xa babanjwa bexoka, okanye ngabom baqala ukuvukela njengokuba babekhula kwaye betyhalela imida yenkululeko yabo. Ngelixa ezinye izinto bezinzima ngokulula, njengokuthatha isigqibo sokuqhubekeka notyando kwelinye lamantombazana am xa wayeneminyaka emibini ngokuchasene nokuyinika elinye ixesha lokubona ukuba umzimba wakhe wayilungisa ngokwendalo ingxaki. Nangona kunjalo, kuzo zonke ezo meko bekukho into enye engaguqukiyo, leyo yayi, kubonakala ngathi kuhlala kukho okuhle kunye nokukhetha okungalunganga okanye ubuncinci obunokubi. Oku kuwenze lula umsebenzi wethu. Ukuba ubuncinci sityekele kwelona likhulu kwicala elilungileyo okanye silinike owona mthwalo mkhulu ekuthathweni kwezigqibo, singasoloko sibuyela umva kukuziva sizithembile ixesha ”i-monologue yangaphakathi.

Ngelishwa, ukubuyela esikolweni kulo nyaka, kubonakala ngathi akukho khetho "ilunge ngakumbi". Kwelinye icala, singabagcina ekhaya, kwaye sifunde kwi-Intanethi. Eyona ngxaki iphambili apha kukuba mna nomfazi wam asingabo ootitshala, kwaye olo khetho luya kufuna isixa esikhulu senkxaso kuthi. Sobabini sinabazali ababengabafundisi-ntsapho, ke siyazi ngokwethu isixa sokuzinikela, ixesha, ukucwangcisa kunye nobungcali obuthathayo. Ukugcina iintombi zethu ekhaya nako kunefuthe ekukhuleni ngokwasentlalweni nangokweemvakalelo okwenzeka ngokwesiqhelo ngelixa benxibelelana noontanga babo. Kwelinye icala, sinokubabuyisela esikolweni buqu. Ngokucacileyo, umba ophambili apha kukuba banokuvezwa kwintsholongwane ebangela i-COVID-19, enokuthi ikhokelele ekubeni, ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo agule. Enye yeentombi zethu inemicimbi yokuphefumla, kwaye banabo banotatomkhulu esihlala sizama ukunxibelelana nabo, ke imeko yethu inabantu abathathu abanomngcipheko ophezulu. Ngokwam, ndiziva ngathi olona khetho lulungileyo kukugcina wonke umntu esekhaya kwaye wonke umntu enze ufundo olude kwakhona. Oku kuvakalelwa ngathi iyakuba yeyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo nefanelekileyo kwezoluntu kwaye iya kuqhubeka ukunika abaqeqeshi bezempilo ixesha elifunekayo lokuqonda i-COVID-19, kwaye ekugqibeleni basebenzele isitofu. Kodwa njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, ayizukusebenzela wonke umntu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanya ezentlalo nezoqoqosho. Ngaphandle kwesisombululo esisebenza kakuhle kuthi sonke, isigqibo siza kwiintsapho nganye.

Njengakwizigqibo ezinkulu ezidlulileyo, mna nenkosikazi yam saqala inkqubo yethu yokwenza izigqibo ngokuphanda ukuze siqwalasele izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga esikhetha ukuzenza. Kuba le yingxaki yezempilo yoluntu zininzi izibonelelo zokujonga ulwazi. Kwangoko safumana eli phepha kwiwebhusayithi yeCDC esebenza ukuxhasa abazali ngasemva kwabo ekuthathweni kwezigqibo esikolweni kwaye sicinge ukuba iluncedo kakhulu. https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/community/schools-childcare/decision-tool.html#decision-making-tool-parents

Ekuqaleni sijonge kwizikhokelo zethu zikarhulumente nezasekhaya https://covid19.colorado.gov/ ukwazi ukuba ukhetho lwethu lunokusekwa kwidatha yangoku yintsholongwane kwilizwe lethu kunye noluntu oluthile, kunye nemigaqo-nkqubo esele ikho. Emva koko, nje ukuba isithili sesikolo sethu sibhengeze izicwangciso zabo zokubuyela esikolweni, saqala ukuqokelela ulwazi malunga nemigaqo-nkqubo ethe yaphunyezwa ukugcina wonke umntu, kubandakanya nabasebenzi besikolo, bekhuselekile. Isithili sethu senze umsebenzi omkhulu wokudlulisa ulwazi ukugcina wonke umntu ehlaziywa nge-imeyile, ii-webinars, uphando lwe-intanethi kunye neewebhusayithi zazo.

Ngezi zixhobo, sikwazile ukuphanda ngeendlela zokufunda ezikude eziye zaphunyezwa zizikolo zethu. Sivile ukuba intwasahlobo ephelileyo yothuse wonke umntu, kwaye izikolo zenze konke okusemandleni azo, zinikwa ixesha elilinganiselweyo (nanye) bekufuneka bacwangcise malunga nendlela yokuvala unyaka wesikolo, kodwa bekukho izikhewu kwikharityhulamu ekwi-intanethi nendlela eyayiziswa ngayo. Ukuba le ibinokuba yinto enokukhethwa kusapho lwethu, besinethemba lokuba kulo nyaka kuya kufuneka siphathwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo ukwenza ukufunda okukude kube yinto efanelekileyo. Ngophando lwethu kunye nolwazi oluye lwabonelelwa zizikolo, safumanisa ukuba bachitha ixesha elininzi kucwangciso lwasehlotyeni lokubuya kokuwa, kunye nolunye uhlengahlengiso kwimfundo ekude ababeyibekile yokuba bafunde babuyele esiqhelweni njengoko kunokwenzeka kubafundi kwaye ootitshala.

Ekugqibeleni, sikhethe ukugcina iintombi zethu kwimfundo ekude kwinxalenye yokuqala yonyaka. Yayingeyo sigqibo esasifumana ngokulula, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo yayingesiyo isigqibo esithandwayo phakathi kweentombi zethu, kodwa sasiziva sikhululekile xa sinaso. Sinethamsanqa lokuba nexesha kunye nezixhobo zokubaxhasa ngelixa besebenza ekhaya. Ngolo bhetyebhetye, siyakwazi ukunika oku inani elibalulekileyo lokuqwalaselwa kwaye sisebenzele kwezona ziphumo zingcono. Siyazi ukuba kuzakubakhona imiceli mngeni kule nto, kwaye zonke azizukuhamba kakuhle, kodwa siziva siqinisekile ukuba oku kuya kuba ngamava angcono kakhulu kuthi kunangentwasahlobo ephelileyo.

Njengoko usenza, okanye wenze, ukhetho lwakho lwesikolo lokuwa, ndinqwenela usapho lwakho okuhle ngeli xesha lingaqhelekanga nelizama. Ngelixa ndiyazi ukuba ayisizukuba sisigqibo sokugqibela esinzima njengabazali ekucelwa ukuba sisenze egameni labantwana bethu, ndiyathemba ukuba uninzi olulandelayo luza kubuya kwicala elilula lesibuko.