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Uthando lokuzingca

By Nancy V

Xa kufikwa kuthando, ndingumntu ozingcayo, ndiyazithanda iziqu zam kuqala. Bendingasoloko ndizingca; Bendihlala ndiyithanda ingcinga yothando ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Thatha uSuku lweValentine, umzekelo. Umbono wosuku olunikezelwe uthando kunye nokuhlamba abathandekayo ngezipho kunye nengqwalaselo ihlala ibeka kuqala kum. Kodwa bekukho umntu omnye endihlala ndimlibala phakathi kweetshokholethi kunye neebhere zebhedi. Mna ngokwam. Usuku lukaValentine yayingeyiyo kuphela imini endandihoya ngayo, yayiyiminyaka neminyaka yokungathathi ixesha lam kunye neemfuno zam. Bendihlala ndizibiza njengabantu abonwabisayo ngenxa yokuba ndibabeka kangaphi abanye phambi kwam. Uyabanda? Apha, thabatha ijezi yam.

Ngokungena ngaphakathi, ndikwazile ukubona iindawo zobomi bam apho isiseko saqhekeka kubudlelwane, ubuhlobo kunye nemisebenzi. Kuzo zonke ezo hambo, into eyayilahleka rhoqo yayikukuzazi, uthando kunye nemida. Ukukwazi ukuzibona ezi zinto bekutshintsha ubomi kum. Njengoko ndisebenza kumaleya okwazi mna, ndiyabona indlela endibonisa ngayo inyani ngakumbi kwindlela endabelana ngayo nothando lwam nabanye.

Ukuwa eluthandweni yimbonakalo ephantse yasetyenziselwa ukuchaza ubudlelwane bezothando. Okwangoku ndiqala ukuzazi, ndathandana nezinye izinto ezininzi. Ndakuthanda ukuhamba, ukwenza umthambo, ukucamngca, kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi ezandincedayo nezandivuyisa. Ukuthatha ixesha lokuzikhathalela phambi kokuba ekugqibeleni abanye babeke phambili. Ukuwa eluthandweni nawe kukhulisa ilungelo lakho lokuzalwa lokuba wonwabe. Imisebenzi yokuzithanda ngokwakho zizixhobo zokufikelela apho.

Ndifumanisa ukuba ukuzikhathalela kuhlala kubhalwe njengezinto zokunethezeka kwaye ngentliziyo yam yonke andivumelani. Ukuzinakekela luthando, kwaye kufanele ukuba kubhalwe njengeyimfuneko. Ukuzinyamekela kuza ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Ukusukela kwimini yokujonga indawo kwi-spa, ukuya kwishawa ende ngaphandle kweziphazamiso. Uzikhathalela njani? Ngaba inkqubo yakho yasekuseni ibandakanya into ngokwakho, okanye ungxamele ukuqala usuku? Ndiyakumema ukuba ugcwalise indebe yakho kuqala kusasa. Thatha ixesha lokwenza into ekuzisela uvuyo. Emva koko unokuthatha umhlaba, nokuba ujongeka kanjani.

Omkhulu uToni Morrison, omnye wababhali endibathandayo, kwindawo yakhe yobulumko uchaza uthando lwakho kwisiteyitimenti esinye esinamandla. Yeyona mantra yam yobomi- "yeyona nto yakho intle" -Yintanda.

Zibeke wena kuqala, yiba nothando ngothando lwakho.