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Oodade-Abona Bahlobo Bagqibelele

By Kimberly (Kimi) B

Udadewethu, uJessi, ngomnye wabona bantu bahle (ngaphakathi nangaphandle) endibaziyo. Unobubele, unenkathalo, womelele, ukhaliphile, usisidenge, kwaye ukrelekrele kakhulu. Uphumelele kuyo yonke into abeka kuyo ingqondo yakhe kwaye ubengumzekelo kum ubomi bam bonke. Ewe, ewe, ndiyazi, wonke umntu uthetha oku ngomntu kusapho lwakhe, kodwa le yindlela endiziva ngayo ngokwenene.

Kwasebuncinaneni bethu, sasiphantse sasingahlukani. Udade wethu mdala kum ngeminyaka emibini, ngoko besisoloko sinomdla ofanayo. Sasikuthanda ukudlala iiBarbi kunye, ukubukela iikhathuni, ukukhathaza abazali bethu kunye, sabelana nabahlobo, imisebenzi! Njengabo nabaphi na abantakwethu, kambe ke, sasicaphukisana (sekunjalo ngamaxesha athile), kodwa ngalo naliphi na ixesha umntu othile kwindawo yokunyamekela abantwana wayendingcungcuthekisa, uJessi wayesoloko ekhona ukuze andithethelele aze andithuthuzele. Ngowe-1997, abazali bam baqhawula umtshato, yaye oku kwabangela ingxaki enkulu kulwalamano lwethu.

Ngexesha loqhawulo-mtshato lwabazali bethu, uJessi naye wayeqalisa ukubonakalisa iimpawu zokugula ngengqondo. Ekubeni ndandina-8 kuphela, ndandingazi ukuba le nto yayisenzeka kuye okanye ngokwenene yayiqhubeka. Ndaqhubeka nolwalamano lwam kunye naye ngendlela endandihlala ndihlala ngayo, ngaphandle nje kokulala kwigumbi likatata, nto leyo eyakhokelela kumlo ongakumbi. Utata kunye nodade wethu babenobudlelwane obunesiphithiphithi, kunye nodadewethu kwisigaba sakhe sokungathobeli kwaye utata wam wayenemicimbi yokulawula umsindo kunye nokungaxhasi / umntu ongakholwayo kwimiba yempilo yengqondo. Babesilwa rhoqo xa sisendlini yakhe. Xa utata esela aze angxole, mna noJessi sasithuthuzelana size sikhuseleke. Ngenye imini, kwafika umkhuhlane, waza waya kuhlala nomama ngokusisigxina. Ndizibone ndingowam ndedwa umntwana ndihlala kutata.

Xa sasikwishumi elivisayo, udade wethu waqalisa ukundityhala. Kwafunyaniswa ukuba unesifo esiyibipolar yaye wakhetha ukuchitha ixesha lakhe kwigumbi lakhe. Ndaziva ndivalelwe ngaphandle kwaye ngakumbi nangakumbi njengomntwana okuphela kwakhe. Ngo-2005, saphulukana nomzala wethu osenyongweni ngenxa yokuzibulala, yaye nam ndaphantse ndaphulukana noJessi ngenxa yoko. Wahlala kwindawo eyayibonakala ngathi kudala. Xa ekugqibeleni wavunyelwa ukuba abuyele ekhaya, ndamwola ndamqinisa; ndaqinisa ngakumbi kunokuba ndakha ndawola nabani na ngaphambili okanye mhlawumbi ukususela ngoko. Ndandingazi, de kwafika elo xesha, indlela eyayimbi ngayo imeko yakhe yengqondo kunye nazo zonke iimvavanyo neembandezelo awayetyhubela kuzo eyedwa. Saye sahlukana, kodwa andizange ndivume ukuba siqhubeke sisehla ngaloo ndlela.

Ukususela ngoko, besisondelelene kunodade abaninzi endibaziyo. Ubudlelwane bethu bomelele, kwaye sinazo zombini ngokwezekeliso kunye ngokoqobo yasindisa ubomi bomnye nomnye. Ungumntu endithembayo, elinye lamatye am, i-plus-one yam, uthixo wabantwana bam, kwaye uyinxalenye yelaphu lobukho bam.

Usisi wam ngoyena mhlobo wam. Sihlala sinobusuku bodade, sinamathambo afanayo (u-Anna no-Elsa baseFrozen. Ubudlelwane babo kwi-movie yokuqala bufana nethu), sihlala imizuzu emihlanu ukusuka komnye nomnye, oonyana bethu baneenyanga ezintathu ngaphandle kweminyaka yobudala, kwaye heck, siphantse sibe nomyalelo weglasi ofanayo! Satshintshana ngobuso ngelinye ixesha, kwaye umtshana wam (intombi kadade wethu) wayengawuboni umahluko. Ndihlala ndiqhula naye ndisithi senzelwe ukuba ngamawele, yindlela esisondelelene ngayo. Andikwazi ukucinga ubomi bam ngaphandle kodade wethu.

Ngoku ndikhulelwe umntwana wam wesibini oyintombazana. Ndiphezu kwenyanga ukuba unyana wam oneminyaka emibini enesiqingatha kungekudala uza kuba nosisi wakhe oza kukhula naye. Ndiyaphupha ukuba bazokwazi ukwabelana ngothando olufanayo kunye noqhagamshelwano esilwenza mna nodadewethu. Ndiyaphupha ukuba abasayi kujongana nobunzima obufanayo nobe sijongene nabo. Ndiyaphupha baya kukwazi ukwenza iqhina lobuzalwana olungaqhawukiyo kwaye babekho omnye komnye, rhoqo.