Ayikho iBond eNgcono ekunokuBulelwa ngayo…Oodade
Ndathi ndakufumanisa ukuba umhla we-6 ka-Agasti yayiluSuku lweSizwe lweeSisters, ndavuya kakhulu! Awukho omnye umbandela, abekho abanye abantu ebomini bam endithanda ukuthetha ngabo kwaye ndibhiyozele ukodlula oosisi bam. Ndiphuma kusapho olukhulu kakhulu. Enyanisweni, ndingoyena mdala kwa-10; abasibhozo kwabo bali-10 ngamantombazana. Xa ndicinga ngokubhiyozela amaqhina phakathi koodade, ndifumana oku kungxama kwamandla kunye nemincili, uncumo olubanzi, ukuqaqamba, kunye nokulunga kuba yiloo nto oodade bam abayiyo kum.
Ngoku, ukuze kucace gca, ngamnye wabantakwethu uthetha ihlabathi kum, kwaye ngamnye kubo undiphembelele ngendlela yakhe ekhethekileyo, kodwa lumanyano kunye nodade wethu phakathi kwam kunye noodadewethu obuye bangena ngokwenene ebomini bam. . Ekubeni ndingoyena mdala, ndizibambe kumgangatho ophezulu wokuba ngumzekelo omhle kubantwana basekhaya, yaye yiloo nto ke indenza ndihlale ndikwimeko entle nemxinwa; Andifuni nje ukubaphoxa. Oosisi bam ngabanini bezona mfihlo zam zinzulu. Amanye awona maxesha am asemngciphekweni akhuselwe sisikhokelo kunye nothando lwabo nangona bebancinci kunam. Siye sasinda kwintlekele, siye sabhiyozela uloyiso, soyisa uloyiko kunye, sade sabetha izihlobo zethu endleleni.
Ngelixa ufunda inqaku elivela kwiHealthway, elibhalwe nguGqr Julie Hanks, “Ukuba Nosisi Kuyilungele Impilo Yakho Yengqondo,” Andizange ndothuke xa ndafunda ukuba ukuba nodade wethu kunempembelelo entle engqondweni yakho. Xa ndandifunda eli nqaku, ndandingavumelani ngakumbi nendlela oodade ababuchaphazela ngayo ubomi bethu. Basivumela ukuba sibe ngabo abalungileyo, bangabagcini beemfihlo. Bangabakhuthazi bethu. Ziibhodi zethu zesandi kunye namaqabane ethu okucinga xa sijonga imibono emitsha. Bakwikona yethu ecaleni kwethu esinika okuhle, esinika iingozi kwaye unamathele ngokwenene kuwe njengodade wakho, njengelungu elixhasayo ebomini bakho, kwaye akukho nto ingcono kunoko bond.
Nangona kukho amaxesha apho mna noodadewethu singavumelani okanye singaboni ngasonye, asizange sibe naxesha laxa singacingi kwaye sibeke iimfuno zomnye kuqala. Kukulumkeleka xa sinencoko enzulu, lukhuselo esilubekayo kwibhondi yethu, kwaye kukuzinikela komnye nomnye okunceda ngokwenene ukuba udade wethu aqhakaze kwaye abonise zonke izinto ezinkulu esinazo kwisifuba sethu sobutyebi. !
S kokomelela kunye nentuthuzelo yodade
I lolothando olubonakaliswa phakathi koodade
S yeyenkxaso echukumisayo yoodade
T yeyokuzingisa kunye nokusebenzisana
E yeyokulwanga kwakho okukukhuthazayo
R yeyokomelela nokuthembeka kweqhina likadade