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Indlela Ekwandinceda Ngayo Ukufundisa Ndoyisa Ixhala Lokuhlalisana

By UDaniela S, MA, PHR

Ngaba ukhe wadlala umdlalo ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengomntwana? Eyam yayidwelisa ezinye izinto zokudlala kwaye, kamva, iipowusta zeBackstreet Boys, kwaye sizifundisa nantoni na esasiyigubungela esikolweni ngaloo veki. Ndandinoluhlu lweklasi, ndawubeka amanqaku umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya wabafundi bam (okwakubizwa ngokuba ziimvavanyo zam zokuziqhelanisa), ndaza ndakhupha elona bhaso loMfundi uBalaseleyo ekupheleni kwesiqingatha sonyaka ngamnye. UBrian Littrell wayephumelela ngalo lonke ixesha. Duh!

Ndazi ndisemncinci ukuba ndifuna ukufundisa kwisikhundla esithile njengomsebenzi. Kukho into evuyisa kakhulu ngokubona amehlo abafundi bam evuya xa benomzuzu othi “hayi” malunga nesihloko okanye ezabo iitalente, izakhono kunye nobuchule. Phambi kokuba ucinge ukuba ndiphulukene namabhastile am – ndithetha ngabafundi bam bokwenene, hayi abo basentelekelelweni endandinabo ekukhuleni kwam. NDIYAKUTHANDA ukudlala indima encinane ekuncedeni abantu baqonde izinto abanazo. Ingxaki yayi...yingcinga nje yokuthetha esidlangalaleni, naphambi kwabaphulaphuli abaziwayo, nokuba bakhulu okanye bancinci kangakanani na, kwandenza ndaphefumlela phezulu kwaye ndagqabhuka ezindlwini. Wamkelekile kwihlabathi lenkxalabo yoluntu.

"Ingxaki yokuxhalaba ekuhlaleni, ngamanye amaxesha ebizwa ngokuba yi-social phobia, luhlobo loxinzelelo olubangela uloyiko olugqithisileyo kwiindawo zentlalo. Abantu abanale ngxaki banengxaki yokuthetha nabantu, ukudibana nabantu abatsha, nokuya kwiimbutho zolonwabo.” Ngaphandle kokungena nzulu kakhulu kwiPsychology kaDaniela 101, kum, ixhala lalivela kuloyiko lokuzihlazisa, ukugwetywa kakubi, kunye nokukhatywa. Ndaqonda ngokusengqiqweni ukuba uloyiko lwalungekho ngqiqweni, kodwa iimpawu zomzimba zaziva zinzima. Ngethamsanqa, uthando lwam ngokufundisa kunye nenkani endazalwa nayo bendomelele ngakumbi.

Ndaqala ngabom ukufuna amathuba okuziqhelanisa. Kwibanga le-10, unokundifumana ndincedisa utitshala wam wesiNgesi kubafundi bakhe bebanga lesihlanu nelesithandathu. Ngexesha lokuphumelela kwam kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, ndandineshishini lokufundisa eliqinileyo elinceda abantwana kunye nabantu abadala ngesiNgesi, isiFrentshi kunye nesiJapan. Ndaqalisa ukufundisa iklasi ecaweni nokuthetha phambi kwabaphulaphuli abambalwa. Kusoyikeka ekuqaleni, ithuba ngalinye lokufundisa lijike laba ngamava anomvuzo - oko abantu abakumsebenzi wam babhekisa kuko "njengokuququzelela okuphezulu." Ngaphandle kweso sihlandlo esinye xa, ekupheleni kokunikela intetho ephakamisayo phambi kwabantu be-30 +, ndaqonda ukuba i-skirt emhlophe ende emhlophe endiyikhethileyo kwisiganeko esikhethekileyo yayibonakala ngokupheleleyo xa ukukhanya kwelanga kubetha. Kwaye yayiyimini enelanga kakhulu… Kodwa ndifile?! Hayi. Ngaloo mini, ndafunda ukuba ndomelela ngakumbi kunokuba ndandicinga.

Ngokufunda konke endinako ukufumana izandla zam malunga nokufundisa, ukwenza ngabom kunye namava, ukuzithemba kwam kwakhula, kwaye ixhala lam lentlalontle liye lalawuleka ngakumbi. Ndiya kuhlala ndinombulelo kubahlobo abathandekayo kunye nabacebisi abandikhuthaza ukuba ndibambelele kuyo kwaye bandazisa kwii-underskirts. Ukususela ngoko ndiye ndasebenza kumashishini kunye neendima ezahlukeneyo, ngalo lonke ixesha ndikhangela amathuba okufundisa, ukuqeqesha, kunye nokuququzelela. Kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo, ndahlala ehotele uphuhliso lwetalente intsimi ixesha elizeleyo. Bendingenakonwaba ngakumbi kuba ihambelana ngokugqibeleleyo nomsebenzi wam wobuqu "wokuba ngamandla alungileyo ekulunga." Kutshanje ndifumene intetho kwinkomfa, ya'all! Into eyayikade ivakala ngathi liphupha elingafikelelekiyo yaba yinyaniso. Abantu badla ngokundixelela oku: “Ubonakala ungumntu wemvelo ukwenza le nto uyenzayo! Enjani yona italente ukuba nayo.” Bambalwa abaziyo, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungakanani umgudu owenziweyo ukufikelela kule ndawo ndikuyo namhlanje. Kwaye ukufunda kuyaqhubeka yonke imihla.

Kubo bonke abasenokuba bayasokola ukufikelela usukelo oluthile okanye ukoyisa umqobo, UNOKUKWENZA!

  • fumana ukuba kutheni le nto ujonge ukuyiphumeza – injongo iya kukukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke usiya phambili.
  • Mkele eyakho inguqulelo yokwakhiwa komlinganiswa "see-through skirt" iimeko - ziya kukwenza womelele kwaye ube libali elihlekisayo onokulifaka kwibhlog yakho ngenye imini.
  • Ngeenxa zonke wena nabantu abaya kukuvuyisa, bakuphakamise, endaweni yokuba bakuthobe.
  • Qala encinci, landelela inkqubela yakho, funda kwiingxaki, kwaye ubhiyozele impumelelo.

Ngoku, phuma apho kwaye Bonisa 'Em Yintoni Wenziwe Ngayo!

 

 

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