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Ukuphumelela, Akusindi: Uhambo lwempilo

By UDaniela S, MA, PHR

Ukuqhwanyaza kube kanye ukuba ukhe wanqwenela ukuba ungaphumelela endaweni yokuba uphile. Wamkelekile kwiklabhu.

Mandithethe inyani – ndiye ndakwazi ukusinda. Ukoyisa ii-curveballs zobomi lithamsanqa lam. Kodwa ngaba ukuphumelela ngokuqhubekayo nakuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi? Oko kube ngumzabalazo kum. Ukuba lixhoba kwaba yinxalenye yesazisi sam, ibheji yembeko ebendiyinxibile ngokuzingca (iliso elikhulu njengoko ndichwetheza oku). Ndihlala ndibambelele kwindlela yam yokusinda kuba iqhelekile; kuvakala ngathi "ikhaya." UDaniela osindileyo uvakala ngathi:

"Imifuno, i-shmegetables - ethi [faka ukutya okucutshungulweyo okanye okuneswekile] ibiza igama lam."

"Ndingakwazi ukubaleka kancinci ukuba ndingalali logama nje ndisenza izinto."

"Uyazinononga? Puhleese, usapho lwam/umsebenzi/abahlobo/izilwanyana zasekhaya zindidinga ngakumbi.”

"Ibhegi yeSkittles ithathwa njengemveliso yemihla ngemihla, akunjalo?"

Kwaye ke ndiyazibuza ukuba kutheni ndihlala ndidiniwe, andikwazi kugxila kakuhle, kwaye ndixakile kum nakuwo wonke umntu ondijikelezileyo.

Kwelinye icala, uDaniela the Thriver kumnandi ukubakho. Akanalo naluphi na uxinezeleko nangayiphi na indlela, kodwa ukuxhobele ngakumbi ukujamelana nocelomngeni ngobubele, ukuvumela uvuyo nolonwabo nangawona maxesha obumnyama. Uzimisele ngakumbi apho amandla akhe aya khona, ukulawulwa ngokweemvakalelo, kwaye ukwindawo esempilweni yokunceda abo bamngqongileyo.

Ngowuphi uDaniela obungathanda ukuhlala naye? Ingqikelelo yam yeyona iphumelelayo. Kodwa ke, ngandlel' ithile ndiziva ndineentloni ukuphumelela, ngokungathi andifanelanga… ngumsebenzi oqhubekayo. Ukuba nawe, ujonge ukwenza utshintsho lwengqondo ngabom ukusuka ekusindeni ukuya ekuchumeni njengeyona ndlela iphambili yokusebenza, ukuzibuza le mibuzo inokuba sisiqalo esihle:

Kuthetha ntoni ukuphumelela kum?

Ukuphumelela asikokusinda nje; imalunga nokwamkela ubomi ngokomelela, uvuyo, kunye nenjongo. Yimeko apho imingeni ijongene ngqo, kwaye ukukhula kuba yindlela yokuphila.

Yeyiphi imimandla yobomi bam endinokuthi ndiphumelele kuyo?

Thatha uluhlu olupheleleyo lweendawo zonke: usapho / abahlobo / ubomi bothando, uluntu, indawo engqongileyo, ulonwabo kunye nokuzonwabisa, impilo kunye nokomelela, umsebenzi kunye nomsebenzi, imali kunye nemali, ngokomoya, ukukhula kunye nokufunda. Chonga iindawo ezifuna amandla achumileyo.

Yintoni emi endleleni yakho yokuphila ubomi obufunayo?

Nokuba kukudodobalisa iinkolelo, imikhwa, okanye izinto zangaphandle, chonga imiqobo ethintela uhambo lwakho lokuphumelela. Ukuqonda linyathelo lokuqala elisingise kwinguqu.

Zeziphi izicwangciso zempilo kunye nempilo entle ezinokundibeka endleleni eya empumelelweni?

Phonononga izicwangciso ezikhuthaza ukuphila kakuhle kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho. Fumana izenzo ezondla umzimba wakho, ingqondo kunye nomoya, ukusuka ekucocekeni kokulala ukuya ekutyeni okunengqondo.

Ngoobani abayimizekelo yam ephumelelayo? Ndingafunda ntoni kubo?

Jonga kwabo bakukhuthazayo ngokomelela kunye nokuthanda ubomi. Yinyani okanye iyintsomi, le mifuziselo inokukunika ukuqonda kunye nenkuthazo njengoko uqalisa uhambo lwakho lwempilo.

Enkosi ingqondo nomzimba wakho ngokukunceda ukuba usinde ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ngoku, zikhumbuze ukuba ufanelwe zonke izinto ezilungileyo ezikugcinele zona kwaye uzinike imvume yokuphumelela.

Utshintsho lwam ukusuka ekusindeni ukuya ekuphumeleleni lusaqhubeka kwaye lubandakanya ukuzihlaziya, okuncinci, utshintsho olungaguqukiyo, kunye nokuzinikela okutsha kwimpilo yam. Ndiyakumema ukuba uhambe nam kolu hambo. Nokuba ulixhoba elinamava okanye usaqala ukuthandabuza imilinganiselo yakho yokuphila kakuhle, khumbula ukuba ukuphumelela asilophupha elikude; lukhetho olwenzayo yonke imihla.

Ke nanku ukwamkela ubomi apho siphumelela khona, hayi nje ukusinda-kuba sonke sifanele ukuphila ubomi bethu obungcono, obona bomi budlamkileyo. Molo kwi-adventure yakho yempilo!

 

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