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Unzima NjengoMama

By Shelby K

Njengomama osebenzayo, ndinobudlelwane obuqinisekileyo "bothando-intiyo" kunye nehlobo. Ndiyithanda kakhulu ngcamango zasehlotyeni…iintsuku ezinde, iintsasa ezicothayo, ndigcakamela ilanga elishushu, ndisonqena njengoko ndandifunda incwadi kwi-hammock, ixesha kumanzi apholileyo echibi lasebumelwaneni... nokuba yeyiphi na imifanekiso ethi gqi xa ucinga ngeentsuku zakho zasehlotyeni ezibonakala zingenasiphelo. umntwana. Ubunyani behlobo njengomzali osebenzayo, njengoko uqalisa “umsebenzi omninzi,” unokujongeka wahluke kakhulu.

Bendicinga ngakumbi ngesantya esingxamisekileyo kule veki, njengoko bendijonga iwotshi, ndiqonda ukuba ndinemizuzu elishumi kanye phambi kwentlanganiso yam elandelayo. Imizuzu elishumi yokufumana umntwana omnye ondliwe kwaye uye kwiqela lokuqubha, ukunika iingcebiso kunyana wam okwishumi elivisayo malunga nedrama yentombi, jongana namehlo amakhulu alusizi avela kwinja yam/ “iqabane lomphefumlo” ukumtyisa isidlo sakhe sakusasa, kwaye ubuncinci ujonge. iyabonakala ukusuka esinqeni ukuya phezulu, ukuze ndingoyiki abantu endisebenza nabo kuQela likaMicrosoft. Nditsibele emnxebeni kwangethuba, ndabona iselula yam ikhala. Yintombi yam eneminyaka engama-20, efowuna ukusuka kwisiqingatha selizwe kwaye ngenxa yokuba ndinegama elithi "super mother" ukuba ndibambelele, ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyaphendula, kodwa ukuba andibuze "uyipheka njani inyama yenkukhu enqabileyo? ” Uphi umyeni wam ngelixesha lesiphithiphithi? Uye warhoxa kumqolomba wendoda yakhe ukuze asebenze kwaye ucango luvaliwe. Umothuko! Ndiyema ndizibuze...ingaba le mihla kaBeyonce ikhangeleka njani njengomama osebenzayo onabantwana abathathu ehlotyeni? Ndicinga ukuba "hayi."

Nokuba kuxakeke kangakanani konke oku…andizukurhweba ngayo nantoni na! Ngokukodwa kubhubhane “omtsha” wasemva kobhubhani, ndizifumana ndinombulelo wokuba nangona kunzima ngamanye amaxesha ukugcina zonke iibhola zisemoyeni, ukusebenza ekhaya kundivumele ukuba ndibe bhetyebhetye ngakumbi kunehlobo langaphambili. Isenokungacoceki ngokupheleleyo, njengoko ndizifumana ndifuna ukufika kwangentseni okanye ebusuku ngamanye amaxesha ukuze ndihlale ndine-imeyile. Xa ndicinga emva ehlotyeni xa kwakufuneka ndiqinisekise ukuba abantwana bam banendawo yokuhlala imini yonke, yonke imihla, ndiyabulela ngexesha elingakumbi kunye. Oku kuza nemingeni, ngokunjalo.

“Kwimihla yakudala,” ndandingabikho ekhaya emini. Ndaye ndakhwela imoto ukuze ndiphinde ndizibeke kwindawo yam kwaye ndilungele ukuqala umsebenzi wam wesibini njengomama ngomzuzu iinyawo zam zibethe umgubasi wendlu yam. Namhlanje, kufuna unxibelelwano oluhle nabantwana bam. Xa ndandiqala ukusebenza ndisekhaya, babedla ngokungena baze bandiphazamise ngoxa ndikwiintlanganiso. Ngoku bayaqonda ukuba ucango oluvaliweyo luthetha ukuba ndixakekile kodwa ndiya kuvela xa ndikwazi ukuchukumisa isiseko sayo nayiphi na into abayidingayo. Ngubani owaziyo? Mhlawumbi olu qheliselo lokwabelana ngengqalelo kamama wabo nezinye izinto eziphambili ezikhuphisanayo lusenokungqineka luyinto elungileyo. Andikwazi ukulahla yonke into okwesibini ukuba banesithukuthezi kweli hlobo kwaye inokuba yinto entle kweli “hlabathi litsha” kuphuhliso lwabo njengabantu.

Lixesha kuphela eliya kuxela, kodwa okwangoku, ndiyaqhubeka ndizama ukwenza konke okusemandleni am yonke imihla kwaye ndizinike ubabalo kunye nomonde. Ndikhangela kwaye ndonwabele loo mizuzu embalwa ixabisekileyo yexesha ndedwa. Mhlawumbi ihlobo asiloxesha lokuba umzali osebenzayo ayikhuphe ngokupheleleyo epakini emsebenzini wabo. Xa ukuwa (okuya kwenzeka ngaphambi kokuba siyazi), mhlawumbi oko kuya kuba lixesha lokuziqwalasela kwaye sibe nexesha elingakumbi lokuzinikezela kuphuhliso lwethu lobuchwephesha. Okwangoku, ndinombulelo ngeColorado Access kunye neenkokheli zam apha ngokundivumela iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqwalaselwa kwam ukuba zisasazeke kancinci kunesiqhelo (ndibhala oku njengoko ndimamele umntu ekhala kwimakrofoni kwindawo yokuzivocavoca egcwele abantwana. inkampu yebasketball). Enkosi kukulunga nge-Wi-Fi yasimahla!