Humor a wurin Wurin

"Jin daɗin wasa wani ɓangare ne na fasaha na jagoranci, da zama da mutane, da yin abubuwa." Dwight D. Eisenhower

"Gaskiya abin mamaki ne cewa mutane ba su da wani muhimmanci kamar lokacin da suke daukar kansu da muhimmanci." Oscar Wilde

“Ku yi dariya yadda ya kamata, koyaushe ku yi dariya. Abu ne mai daɗi da mutum zai yi wa kansa da ɗan'uwansa ɗan adam halittu. " Maya Angelou

Na zabi wannan batun ne saboda, fiye da komai, yanayin barkwanci shine yake sanya ni cikin aiki. Mahaifina yana samun abin dariya a cikin komai kuma koyaushe yana neman wargi don a gano shi a cikin kowane yanayi, halin da ya wuce ni. Lokacin da mahaifiyar mahaifiyata ta rasu, sai suka saki fararen tattabarai a jana'izarta. Mahaifina ya yi mamaki da babbar murya ko akwai abubuwan hango na shaho a yankin. Hakan tabbas za'a iya ɗauka bai dace da yanayin ba, amma lokacinsa ya zama cikakke kuma hakan ya taimaka sauƙaƙa yanayin, musamman saboda dukkanmu mun san kakata zata fashe. Na gano cewa wasa mai kyau ko kallo mai ban dariya a wurin aiki na iya taimakawa wajen magance tashin hankali da kuma taimakawa wajen yin alaƙa da wani. Ban yi mamakin gano cewa akwai bincike da nazarin shari'ar da ke ba da fa'idodi na walwala a wurin aiki ba, ga wasu kaɗan waɗanda na ga sun fi ban sha'awa:

• Humor zai iya hana aikin aiki, wanda yake da muhimmanci idan kuna aiki na mako 80, duk abin da zai iya taimaka maka daga snapping a gundumar ka don kada a shirya ka da sau uku harbe decaf fata soy macchiato tare da sukari free hazelnut syrup abu ne mai kyau . "Har ila yau, an gano fuska a matsayin kayan sadarwa wanda idan aka yi amfani dashi, zai iya hana konewa da kuma haifar da gajiya." ¹
• Hada iya sa mutane su saurari abin da kake fada. Abokina ya gaya mini cewa shugabanta bai taba saurarenta ba. A kalla, ta tsammanin cewa abin da shugabar ta ce! "Yin amfani da halayen da ya dace ya sa mutane su so su karanta su kuma su ji abin da kake fada." ²
• Humu zai iya taimakawa wajen haɗuwa da wasu kuma ƙara haɓaka. Ga wadanda suka sami kalmar nan "sadarwar" don ƙaddamar da hakori ɗaya. "Halin rashin tausayi ba zai iya haɓakawa da haɗakarwa ba." ³
• Humor na iya taimakawa rikice rikice. Homer Simpson ya taɓa cewa, "Ina tsammanin ina da sha'awar hallaka, amma abin da kawai nake so shi ne gurasar sandwich." "An daɗe ana kallon Humor a matsayin babban mai daidaita daidaito - wata hanya ce ta sauƙaƙa tattaunawa da haɓaka bambancin ra'ayi." ⁴
• Abun dariya na iya ƙara yawan kuɗin ku. Abokina ya gaya wa maigidan nasa cewa dole ne a kara masa kudi tunda akwai wasu kamfanoni uku a bayansa. Shugaban ya tambayi wane kamfani ne, abokina ya amsa masa da kamfanin lantarki, da kamfanin waya, da kamfanin gas. "Girman kyaututtukan da aka ba su ya dace daidai da yadda suke amfani da barkwanci - Watau, masu ba da kyautar masu zartarwa sun fi girma." ⁵

Na kasance cikin aikin duniya yanzu sama da shekaru ashirin. A wannan lokacin, na kalli abin dariya a cikin wurin aiki (kuma gabaɗaya) ya samo asali. A cikin samartakana, na tuna cewa barkwanci mara launi ya fi yawa a wurin aiki - ana raba barkwanci game da jima'i, ƙabila, ko jinsi fiye da yadda suke a yau, kuma idan akwai sakamako, galibi sun ƙunshi na ciki cringing, eye rolls, or “that's just Bob” sabanin ziyarar HR. Ga misalin babban wargi wanda ya dace da wurin aiki:

Wani saurayi ya shiga cikin tambayoyin aiki kuma ya zauna tare da maigidan. Maigidan ya tambaye shi, "Me kake tsammani mafi munin ingancinka?" Mutumin ya ce, "Mai yiwuwa ni mai gaskiya ne." Maigidan ya ce, "Wannan ba mummunan abu ba ne, ina tsammanin gaskiya kyakkyawa ce." Mutumin ya amsa, "Ban damu da abin da kuke tunani ba!"

Ina son wannan wargi saboda dalilai da yawa, amma zan ci gaba da raba shi zuwa uku; jin kyauta don amfani da su a matsayin ɓangare na barometer naka don yin amfani da tausada a aikin:

Na farko, yana da ɗanɗano. Ba mai son jima'i bane (wanda aka zanta dashi na iya zama mace ko namiji kuma ba'a iya canza wargi da ƙarancin hakan), na siyasa, na ƙeta, na addini, na ɗan kishili, na nuna wariyar launin fata, kuma ba shi da ɗakin kabad ko abin ban dariya na ban daki. Kafin na ci gaba zuwa ga dalili na na gaba, Ina so in ba da shawara da girmamawa cewa lokacin da kuke ba da wargi ko tunanin wani abin lura da halin da ake ciki a wurin aiki, yana da kyau ku gudanar da shi ta hanyar aikin tacewar ku na farko, kafin ku yanke shawarar raba kwarewar ku don baiwa mai ban dariya tare da wasu. Wannan tsari bai kamata ya dauki dogon lokaci ba, amma koda hakan zai faru kuma ba'a da wariyarka saboda lokacin ya wuce, yana da kyau a dauki lokaci a duba akwatunan siyasa na siyasa na izgili / lura / sharhi, da dai sauransu. Humor na iya zama ingantaccen kayan aiki, amma bashi da kyau ya lalata dangantakarka da abokin aikin ka wanda zai iya kasancewa a daya daga cikin wadannan kwalaye ko kuma zai iya rasa aikin ka. Idan abun ban dariya ne kuma dole kawai ka fadawa wani, kayi file dinsa daga baya kuma ka fadawa kyanwar ka, karen ka, kifin ka, ko wani abokin ka wanda yake wajen aikin ka wanda yake yabawa kuma ya fahimci irin abin kawancin ka.

Abu na biyu, kamar duk wani wasa mai kyau, akwai gaskiyar da take cikin. Na samu dama na yin tambayoyi da daruruwan masu aiki a cikin aiki na, kuma akwai lokutan da 'yan takarar suka kasance, da kyau, ma gaskiya. A cikin wata hira, na tambayi masu tunani game da halartar su, kuma sun amsa cewa sun kira ne a lokacin da basu da sha'awar zuwa aiki. Tun da ban tabbata ba yadda yawancinmu za su nuna aiki a kowace rana idan za a iya nuna hakan a matsayin dalili, ban bayar da wannan matsayi ba. Wani lokaci kuma, na tambayi mai tambaya dalilin da yasa sun bar ma'aikatan da suka gabata kuma amsar ta dauki minti na 25 na gaba. Bari kawai mu ce ba su zana mai sarrafa su a baya ba. Gaskiya, kamar abin tausayi, yana da kyau, amma dole ka san lokacin amfani da shi.

Na uku, yana da ban dariya? Yanzu, ba shakka, abin tausayi ne gaba ɗaya, abin da ke da ban sha'awa ga mutum ɗaya bazai kasance ga mai zuwa ba, musamman ma a wurin aiki. Yana da muhimmanci a tuna cewa kayyade idan kullun ba ban dariya ba ne gaba ɗaya zuwa gare ku. Kuma, idan kun kasance ba mai ban dariya ba ko kuma ba ku sami sauran mutane masu ban dariya ba, hakika wannan abu ne mai kyau sosai. Yarda da abin ban dariya idan ba ka ji cewa hakan ya fi muni, ko da yake zan shawarci ƙoƙari na yi dariya tare da wasu maimakon yin fushi da su. Lauya shine sautin haɗin kai da haɗin kai, waɗannan kuma alamomi ne na aikin aiki, wanda ke da wani wuri inda na fi so in zama, ba abin dariya!

Ƙarin zan dariya

Da zarar na cika da gwal

Kuma mafi yawan gwal

Ƙari na zama mai ban mamaki da ni!

Uncle Albert a cikin asalin "Maryamu Poppins" Sherman Brothers, 1964, Ina so in dariya

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