Ba tare da neman afuwa ba, Tare da Girman kai
Yuni Watan Alfahari ne, idan har kun rasa komai na bakan gizo! Yayin da nake gungurawa ta hanyar ciyarwa ta Facebook, akwai tarin tallace-tallace na abubuwan da suka shafi LGBTQ; komai daga liyafa na baranda zuwa rufin gida zuwa dare na iyali suna yin alƙawarin wuri mai aminci ga matasa. Da alama kowane shago ba zato ba tsammani yana da babban nunin abubuwa da ke digowa a cikin bakan gizo. Ganuwa yana da mahimmanci (kada ku same ni kuskure). Kafofin watsa labarun sun dauki sanarwa kuma a yanzu akwai wasu 'yan wasan kwaikwayo (amma masu adalci) suna yawo a kusa, suna kiran mu mu tuna girman kai ba game da tallafin kamfanoni ba ne, kyalkyali, da brunch. Dangane da Ofishin Ci gaban Tattalin Arziki na Colorado da Ciniki na Duniya, akwai "masu amfani da LGBTQ + 220,000 a Colorado tare da ƙididdigar ikon siyan dala biliyan 10.6." Sauran mahimman kididdigar da za a jefa shine 87% na wannan alƙaluma suna shirye su canza zuwa samfuran da ke haɓaka ingantaccen matsayi na LGBTQ. Alfahari shine bikin murnar nasarorin da muka samu a matsayin al'umma a yanzu, bayan shekaru aru-aru na zalunci. Yana da game da haƙƙin ɗan adam da iyawar kowannen mu ya rayu da gaskiyar mu ba tare da tsoro ga ainihin rayukanmu da amincinmu ba. Girman kai dama ce ta tsarawa cikin al'ummarmu. Yana da matukar muhimmanci a gare ni mu fahimci inda muka kasance a tarihi, nisan da muka yi a karni na 20, da kuma yadda yake da muhimmanci mu ci gaba da gwagwarmaya don tabbatar da kare al'ummarmu ta LGBTQ.
Na farko, ina ganin yana da mahimmanci a fara gida. Denver yana da al'ummar LGBTQ na bakwai mafi girma a cikin Amurka. Colorado yana da tarihin ruɗani game da hana alaƙar jiki tsakanin ma'aurata guda ɗaya, daidaiton aure, dokar haraji, haƙƙin transgender ga kula da lafiya, da haƙƙin tallafi. Akwai labarai da yawa da aka rubuta masu kyau game da tarihin maras kyau na Colorado, ba na jin zai yi mani adalci in ma gwada cikakken darasi na tarihi. Tarihi Colorado za ta yi wani nuni daga Yuni 4th da ake kira Rainbows da Juyin Juyin Halitta, wanda yayi alƙawarin gano "yadda rayuwar LGBTQ+ a Colorado ta kasance taurin kai fiye da bakan gizo, daga maganganun shuru na ainihi zuwa zanga-zanga mai ƙarfi da girman kai don 'yancin ɗan adam daidaito.” Tarihin mu na gida yana da ban sha'awa, wanda ya samo asali tun daga zamanin Wild West har zuwa shekaru goma na ƙarshe na ƙimar doka. A cewar Phil Nash, mazaunin Denver kuma darekta na farko zuwa Cibiyar GLBT (yanzu ana kiranta Cibiyar akan Colfax) "Hanya mafi kyau don ganin ci gaban tarihin mu shine tunaninsa cikin raƙuman ruwa." A cikin shekaru 20 da suka gabata Colorado ta sami damar tabbatar da haƙƙin yin aure, samun abokan haɗin gwiwa da inshorar lafiya ya rufe, ɗaukar yara, da kuma tabbatar da haƙƙoƙin asali don kar a nuna wariya, barazana, ko kashe su saboda yanayin jima'i ko kalaman jinsi. A cikin 2023, muna neman samun duk kulawar lafiya da ke tabbatar da jinsi a ƙarƙashin inshorar lafiya a Colorado. Wannan yana nufin mutanen trans a ƙarshe za su sami damar yin amfani da ayyukan ceton rai da inshora ke rufewa.
Ta fuskar tarihi a matakin kasa, ba zan taba gafarta wa kaina ba idan ban ambaci Stonewall da tarzomar da ta faru ba. Wannan ne ya haifar da tashin hankali, wanda ya haifar da al'ummomin LGBTQ don yin shiri a bainar jama'a bayan shekaru aru-aru na zalunci. A lokacin (1950s zuwa 1970s), mashaya da kulake na 'yan luwadi sun kasance wurare masu tsarki don al'umma don taruwa don sha'awar sha, rawa da gina al'umma. A ranar 28 ga Yuni, 1969, a wata karamar mashaya mai suna Stonewall Inn, a kauyen Greenwich, New York (mallakar mafia kamar mafiya a wancan zamanin), ‘yan sanda sun shigo suka kai farmaki kan mashayar. Wadannan hare-haren sun kasance daidaitaccen tsari inda 'yan sanda za su shiga cikin kulob din, su duba ID na abokan ciniki, suna auna mata sanye da maza da maza sanye da kayan mata. Bayan an duba ID, an raka ma'abota gidan wanka tare da rakiyar 'yan sanda don tantance jinsi. An samu tashin hankali tsakanin ’yan sanda da ma’abota mashayar saboda a wannan daren saboda abokan cinikin ba su bi ba. ‘Yan sandan sun yi wa ma’aikatan duka duka tare da kame su a dalilin haka. An shafe kwanaki da dama ana zanga-zangar. Masu zanga-zangar sun taru daga ko'ina don yin gwagwarmayar neman 'yancin rayuwa a fili a cikin yanayin jima'i ba tare da fuskantar kama su ba saboda kawai sun yi luwadi a bainar jama'a. A cikin 2019, NYPD ta nemi afuwar abin da suka yi don tunawa da cika shekaru 50. Stonewall Inn har yanzu yana tsaye a New York akan titin Christopher. Alamar tarihi ce tare da ƙungiyar agaji mai suna The Stonewall Inn Gives Back Initiative, sadaukar da kai don ba da shawarwari, ilimi, da tallafin kuɗi ga al'ummomin LGBTQ na asali da daidaikun waɗanda suka sha fama da rashin adalci na zamantakewa a cikin Amurka da kuma duniya baki ɗaya.
Bayan 'yan watanni bayan Rikicin Stonewall, Brenda Howard, mai fafutuka biyu, ya zama sananne da "Uwar girman kai." Ta sanya wani abin tunawa bayan wata daya (Yuli 1969) ga abubuwan da suka faru a Stonewall Inn da kan tituna. A cikin 1970, Brenda ya shiga cikin shirya Farati na Titin Christopher, yana fita daga Greenwich Village zuwa Central Park, wanda a yanzu aka sani da Farkon Pride Parade. YouTube yana da faifan bidiyo da yawa waɗanda ke da bayanan sirri na abubuwan da suka bayyana a wannan daren a kan titin Christopher da duk ƙungiyar ƙasa da ta haifar da motsi na ƙasa, wanda ke ci gaba da jagorantar al'amuran haƙƙin ɗan adam saboda ya ketare kowane zamani, jinsi, matsayi na zamantakewa, nakasa, da kabilanci.
Don haka…bari muyi magana akan matasan mu na minti daya. Zuriyarmu mai zuwa tana da ƙarfi, mai hankali, da hankali ta hanyoyin da ma ban iya fahimta ba. Suna amfani da kalmomin da ke bayyana ainihin jinsi, yanayin jima'i, da salon dangantaka, ba kamar al'ummomin da suka zo a baya ba, suna jagorantar mu zuwa wannan daidai lokacin. Matasan mu suna ganin mutane a matsayin masu fuskoki da yawa kuma sama da fiye da tunanin binary. Kusan kamar ba a taɓa faruwa ga al'ummomin da suka gabata ba cewa akwai nau'ikan nau'ikan da muke canzawa a cikin su, ta fuskoki da yawa a cikin rayuwarmu, kuma ba daidai ba ne ba daidai ba don rashin dacewa da ƙaramin akwati. Tare da duk ƙungiyoyin adalci na zamantakewa, yana da mahimmanci a ba da girmamawa ga aikin da ya ba mu damar tsayawa a inda muke a yau. Wadannan hakkoki ba su da tabbas ga makomarmu amma za mu iya ba wa matasanmu damar ci gaba da bayyana ra'ayoyinsu da kuma tallafa musu ta hanyar matsalolin da muke fuskanta. Muna da kyakkyawar damar ci gaba kusa da al'ummar da aka yi mana alkawari. Yin aiki a matsayin mai kula da kulawa tare da haɗin gwiwar sashen gaggawa na likitancin yara, ana tunatar da ni kowace rana cewa yaranmu suna da wahala tare da matsalolin zamantakewa da abubuwan da, mu, tsofaffin al'ummomi ba su fahimta ba. Yayin da muke mika sanda ga wannan sabuwar tsara, mu tuna cewa yakinsu zai bambanta da namu. Na kuma ga cewa haƙƙoƙin LGBTQ suna da alaƙa sosai tare da ainihin haƙƙin samun damar kula da lafiya.
Abubuwan Alfarmar New York na 2022 suna da taken, "Ba tare da afuwa ba, Mu." Denver ya yanke shawarar kan jigon "Tare da Girman Kai" don nuna bikin farko na mutum cikin shekaru biyu saboda COVID-19. A karshen wannan watan (25th zuwa 26 ga Yuni) zan nannade kaina da komai mai launin bakan gizo kuma in tsaya ba tare da neman afuwa ba a matsayina mai yawan mace mai yawan jima'i. Sanin cewa ba dole ba ne in ji tsoron rasa gidana, aiki, iyali ko kama ni a tituna saboda yadda nake nunawa a wannan duniyar, godiya ga dukan muhimmin aiki da ya zo gabana. Girman kai wata dama ce ta murna da duk wani aiki mai wuyar gaske da aka samu wajen canza dokoki da halayen zamantakewa. Mu yi rawa a tituna mu yi murna kamar yadda muka yi nasara a yakin da aka dade amma kada mu yi watsi da kanmu don jin dadi da yadda abubuwa suke a yanzu. Kada ku taɓa ruɗar bikin da gamsuwa. Mu koya wa matasanmu ƙarfi da rauni, marasa tsoro amma masu tausayi. Mu kwadaitar da junanmu don isar da bukatunmu da kamanninmu a matsayinmu na mutane da ke raba wannan duniyar. Yi sha'awar kuma ku kasance a shirye don ƙalubalantar imanin ku, koda kuna jin kamar kun riga kun daidaita da wannan motsi! Bincike, nazari, yin tambayoyi amma kar ku dogara ga abokan ku na LGBTQ don ilmantar da ku akan waɗannan batutuwa. Watan Alfahari lokaci ne don ci gaba da shiryawa da gayyatar tattaunawa mai zurfi game da yadda za mu iya ci gaba da manufarmu zuwa adalci na zamantakewa da 'yancin ɗan adam ga mutanen LGBTQ da duk mahadar al'umma a tsakanin.
Sources
oedit.colorado.gov/blog-post/the-spending-power-of-pride
outfrontmagazine.com/brief-lgbt-history-colorado/
historycolorado.org/exhibit/rainbows-revolutions
ha.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stonewall_riots
lgbtqcolorado.org/programs/lgbtq-history-project/
Aikace-Aikace
Jima'i a Dawn by Christopher Ryan da Cacilda Jethá
Aikin Trevor- thetrevorproject.org/
Don ƙarin bayani kan Pride Fest a Denver, da fatan za a ziyarci denverpride.org/
Cibiyar a Colfax- lgbtqcolorado.org/
YouTube- Bincika "Rikicin Dutse"