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Ukubungaza usuku lomama

Usuku lonyaka lomama luhluke kancane - kimi, nakubo bonke omama.

Lesi yisikhathi sami sokuqala ukugubha njengomama omusha nami; Ngingumama onothando wendodakazi enhle enezinyanga eziyisishiyagalombili ubudala. Lokhu futhi kuphawula uSuku Lomama lwesibili olugujwa ngesikhathi sobhadane lomhlaba wonke oluye lwakhuthaza impilo, nokuba ngumama, njengoba sazi. Noma amazinga okugoma ayanda, kusenemikhawulo yamandla ethu okuqoqa ngokuphepha futhi sigubhe omama ezimpilweni zethu, noma ngabe baqala uhambo lwabo lobuzali (njengami) noma bezwa injabulo yomzukulu omusha (njengomama wami nomamezala). Nakulokhu futhi, sizithola sicabanga ukuthi sizogubha kanjani futhi sisekelane.

Ngibe nelungelo elimangalisayo ngonyaka owedlule wokuba nempilo ngaphambi, ngesikhathi nangemva kokukhulelwa. Ngixhaswe kahle ekuzulazuleni njengomama ekhaya nasemsebenzini. Mina nomyeni wami siyakwazi ukuthola ukunakekelwa kwezingane okuphephile nokwethembekile. Ngithole injabulo nokwaneliseka ngokuba ngumama, noma kunjalo kumongo we-COVID-19. Kube nemizabalazo kepha, ngokuvamile, umndeni wami omncane uyachuma.

Ngiyazi futhi ukuthi lokhu akulona icala lawo wonke umuntu. Ukucindezeleka okuhlobene nokukhulelwa nokukhathazeka yizinkinga ezivame kakhulu zokukhulelwa. Ngeza ekuhlukanisweni nomphakathi, ukungazinzi kwezomnotho, ukubalwa okuqhubekayo nokucwasana eMelika, nemithelela yezempilo ye-COVID-19, nabaningi, omama abaningi balwa nempilo yabo yengqondo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukungalingani kwesakhiwo okususelwa ebuhlangeni nasezigabeni kungaqinisa lezi zinselelo.

Usuku Lomama luyithuba elibalulekile lokumaka iminikelo yomama ezimpilweni zethu nasemphakathini wethu. Njengoba senza kanjalo, kubalulekile futhi ukwamukela ukuthi unyaka odlule ubukade unzima kangakanani kwabaningi kangaka. Kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yawo wonke umndeni ukuthi omama bathola ukwesekwa kanye nokwelashwa abakudingayo ukuze baphumelele. Uma kungalashwa, ukudangala nokukhathazeka kungaba nemithelela ehlala njalo empilweni nasenhlalakahleni yomama nezingane zabo.

Noma ngabe uhlangana nomndeni wakho ogonyiwe, wenza i-brunch yangaphandle yomphakathi, noma ubungaza ku-Zoom; ngena nomama abasempilweni yakho ukuze ubone ukuthi baqhuba kanjani nokuthi ungabasiza kanjani ukuthi bathole ukunakekelwa kwezempilo yengqondo uma bekudinga noma nini.