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Yenza Okuthile Okuhle

Ake siqale nje ukwethembeka — ngiyisibankwa, hhayi ibhere elisendaweni emhlophe noma esinye isidalwa sezulu esibandayo. Ngakho-ke njengoba izinsuku ziba mfushane futhi ukuphola emoyeni kuya ngokuya kuqapheleka, ngiba namandla kakhulu futhi ngiyeke ukusebenza ngokuphelele. Njengoba lokhu kubonakala kwenzeka minyaka yonke, ngibheka iphethini lapha, futhi ngifundisa ukuzihlelela kusengaphambili ukuzilungiselela okuzokwenzeka njengoba izingadi zifa futhi isimo sezulu esimanzi singena emathanjeni ami.

Kulo nyaka, ukuhlela kwami ​​kokulungiselela kufaka phakathi ukufunda umcebo wezihloko "zokuzisiza" eziphathelene nokuphathwa kwemizwa. Qagela? Ukuqothulwa kwezindaba kuletha ukukhathazeka okwedlulele nokudangala. Yebo, othile ukucwaninge lokho, ngakho-ke hamba nakho, futhi ubeke umkhawulo kuzifunzo zakho zezindaba kube yimizuzu emihlanu ngosuku. Ngiphinde ngafunda lokho esikwaziyo sonke njengeqiniso elinembile, futhi lokho ukuthi imizwa yabanye abantu ibangela ukusabela kwakho nomoya wakho. Njengoba ungeke ukwazi ukugwema abantu ngokuvamile, ungafunda ukudayisa izindlela zabo ezimbi zokuziphatha. Noma, okungcono, phikisana nokungalindelekile. Mamatheka lapho behwaqabala noma beqala ingxoxo emnandi nomngani ongabonakali. Umqondo ukugcwalisa ibhakede lakho lokufaka ngezinto ezinhle, ukuze okubi kungabi nendawo yokuhlala.

Indlela engcono yokugcwalisa ibhakede lakho elihle ukufaka isitokwe ezinhlelweni nakumaqhinga amahle. Njengaleyo ngwejeje iqoqa amakinati, ungaqoqa imicabango emihle namandla manje, ngoba lapho uwadinga kamuva esivunguvungwini seqhwa noma lapho imoto yakho ingaqali.

Ngenhlanhla, u-Okthoba yisikhathi sokwenza lokho kanye. Othile wayehlela phambili, futhi waqoka u-Okthoba 5 njengosuku lweNational Be Nice Day neNational Do Something Nice Day. Kusiza kangakanani lokho- ungafeza izinto ezimbili ngasikhathi sinye. Ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi okuhle kakhulu.

Ngakho-ke, yini ongayenza ukuze ube "Nice?" Yini ongayenza ukuze "wenze okuthile okuhle?"

Eminye yemisebenzi yami yokuqinisa amandla ngiqoqa udoti, ngimamatheka nabantu abangahleliwe, noma nje ngibheke iso lapho kufanele khona. Lapho sekuyisikhathi sokuthi “Yenza Okuthile Okuhle,” kuyithuba lami lokuthi ngiqoqe izimpahla ezisemathinini zenzelwe iphenti lasendaweni, ngihlele ikhabethe lejazi nginikele kumabhange ezimpahla zokukhosela nezindawo zokukhosela, noma ngikhokhele i-oda lomuntu osemva kwakho umugqa. Kuhlala kunokuthile ongakwenza ukuze "Wenzele Okuthile Okuhle" kwabanye. Kuthiwani ngokuyisa ingane yakho emnene ephethe kahle endaweni yokunakekela yendawo futhi ihlale endaweni yokwamukela izivakashi ukuze ixoxe nabantu abeza nayo? Lokhu kusebenza futhi ngaphandle kwesilwane uma ungaqala ingxoxo kalula. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuvunyelwa kuyadingeka, ngakho-ke hlela phambili. Wonke umuntu unabo bangane nalabo osebenza nabo abagcina kusho ukuthi angathintana nabo-kwenze manje lapho ugcina imicabango efudumele. Ngeke wazi ukuthi ukufinyelela umthelela omuhle kungaba namuphi umuntu. "Ukucabanga ngawe nje nobobonke ubumnandi ebesinabo e ..." ingasabalalisa imicabango yokwehlula kumamukeli.

Emsebenzini, noma kungelula njengokungena komuntu mathupha, ungenza eyakho inguquko yekhadi elithi “Values ​​in Action” bese uthumela i-imeyili inothi kothile osebenza naye. Okungcono futhi, bhala inothi bese ulifaka kumeyili yomnenke. Ugcine nini ukuthola okuthile okungesona isikhangiso noma isikweletu? Noma setha isikhumbuzi sekhalenda ukuthumela i-imeyili inothi elihle kumuntu oyedwa ekuqaleni kosuku ngalunye ngaphambi kokuthi ungene kwimilayezo ephuthumayo. Akukho okuphuthuma ngaphezu kokwakha nokugcina ubudlelwane babantu.

Kunamaholide angama-226 “Okwamanye Amazwe” noma “Kazwelonke” ngo-Okthoba– okubandakanya u-Okthoba 1, Usuku Lwekhofi Lomhlaba Wonke no-Okthoba 4, uSuku Lukazwelonke Lwezempilo Yezingane. Ungajabulela ikomishi elihle le-cuppa lase-Ethiopia ngenkathi ubhala inothi kumhlinzeki wezempilo wezingane futhi ubungaze kokubili "Yiba Nhle" nosuku lwe- "Do Something Nice"!

Yiba nobuciko — futhi ube muhle!