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Izinqumo Zonyaka Omusha

By U-Anne T

Isiko lokwenza izinqumo zoNyaka Omusha linemvelaphi yasendulo. Cishe eminyakeni emi-4,000 edlule, abaseBabiloni bagubha unyaka wabo omusha ngokuthembisa onkulunkulu ukuthi bazozikhokha izikweletu futhi babuyisele izinto abazibolekile ukuze baqale unyaka kahle. Umkhuba wokwenza izinqumo uye waqhubeka phakathi namakhulu eminyaka futhi waguqukela esikweni lesimanje lokubeka imigomo yomuntu siqu kanye nezinqumo ekuqaleni konyaka omusha.

Ngibe nobudlelwano benzondo yothando nezinqumo zikaNcibijane. Unyaka ngamunye, ngangenza izinqumo ezifanayo futhi ngangizibophezele kuzo inyanga eyodwa noma ezimbili, kodwa kamuva zaziwela endleleni. Izinqumo engangizozibeka zazinezindinganiso eziphakeme, ngakho ngangizohluleka ukuzenza zibe ingxenye yempilo yami isikhathi eside. Ngifanise nokuhlangenwe nakho kwejimu, lapho kugcwala khona ekuqaleni konyaka kodwa kancane kancane kuya ngokuya kuncipha njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka. Kuthiwani ngezinqumo ezenza kube nzima ukuzigcina?

Umqondo wokuthi konke noma-lutho ungathulisa ukuqhuma kokuqala kwesisusa. Lesi simo sengqondo sihilela ukukholelwa ukuthi uma ukuphelela kungenakugcinwa, kuhlanganisa ukwehluleka, okuholela ekulahlekeni kunokwamukela inqubo. Izinqumo zingadala izingcindezi zangaphakathi, zenze abantu bazizwe benesibopho sokuzibekela imigomo ngisho noma bengakakulungeli noma bengazimisele ukwenza izinguquko. Ngokuvamile, sizibekela imigomo yokuvelela ngokweqile, okungaholela ekukhungathekeni futhi kubangele umuzwa wokwehluleka. Siphelelwa isineke futhi silahle izinqumo zethu ngaphambi kwesikhathi, sikhohlwe ukuthi uguquko luthatha isikhathi futhi imiphumela ingathatha isikhathi ukuthi ibonakale.

Ngiye ngabona ukuthi izinqumo zami zazivame ukuhambisana nezinto zangaphandle, njengokulindelwe ngumphakathi kanye nomthelela. Kwakungezona izinqumo ezazikhuluma ngokuthi ngifuna ukuba ngubani. Izinqumo zami ngokuvamile zazidinga ukubhekana nembangela yokuthi kungani ngenza isinqumo. Ngangigxile ekuziphatheni okusezingeni eliphezulu kunokuba ngibhekane nezimbangela zemikhuba.

Ngenxa yalokho, ngishintshe indlela engisondela ngayo onyakeni omusha. Izinqumo zithathelwe indawo kaningi umqondo wokuqala omusha, ugxile lapha namanje kanye nokudedela. Kunginika ugqozi oluvuselelwe futhi kuhambisane nezindinganiso zami ezingisiza ukuthi ngihlale ngithembekile kimina. Ngokuhlakulela umqondo olinganiselayo nongokoqobo, ngingahlala ngigxile ekukhuleni komuntu siqu okunomthelela omuhle empilweni yami yomuntu siqu kanye neyomsebenzi.

Kulabo abathokozela isiko lesinqumo sikaNcibijane, nazi izindlela zokusetha nokusekela izinqumo ngempumelelo.

  • Khetha umgomo othize, ongafinyeleleka. Esikhundleni sokunquma ukukhuthala ngokwengeziwe, okuyindida, mhlawumbe uzibekele umgomo wokuhamba imizuzu engu-20, izinsuku ezintathu ngesonto.
  • Khawulela izinqumo zakho. Gxila emgomweni owodwa ngesikhathi. Ukufinyelela umgomo kungathuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakho.
  • Gwema ukuphinda ukwehluleka okwedlule. Nganginesinqumo esifanayo unyaka nonyaka iminyaka, kodwa sasingenakho ukucacisa. Kungenzeka ngiwufezile umgomo kodwa angizange ngiwubuke njengempumelelo ngoba bengingacacisi ngokwanele.
  • Khumbula ukuthi ushintsho luyinqubo. Uma sigxilisa izinqumo zethu emikhubeni engafuneki noma engenampilo esihlose ukuyishintsha, asikunaki ukuthi le mikhuba ithatha iminyaka ukwakheka futhi izodinga isikhathi nomzamo ukuze iguqule. Kudingeka sibekezele; uma senza iphutha elilodwa noma amabili, singahlala sigibela.
  • Thola ukwesekwa. Zibandakanye emisebenzini yomphakathi ezosekela umgomo wakho. Yakha ubungane obuzokusiza uhlale uziphendulela. Uma unethezekile, yabelana ngesinqumo sakho nabangani kanye/noma nomndeni ukukusiza ufinyelele umgomo wakho.
  • Funda futhi uzivumelanise nezimo. Ukuhlehla kungesinye sezizathu eziyinhloko esenza abantu bashiye isixazululo sabo, kodwa ukuhlehla kuyingxenye yenqubo. Uma kwamukelwe, ukuhlehla kungaba yithuba elihle lokufunda “lokuqiniswa kwesinqumo.”

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sifisa ukuthuthukisa inhlalakahle yethu, ukuphishekela amathuba amasha, noma ukukhuthaza ukuxhumana okunenjongo, ingqikithi yesinqumo sikaNcibijane ilele endaweni okuyiwa kuyo kanye nenguquko eqhubekayo yokuthi siba ngubani. Nanku unyaka wokukhula, ukuqina, nokuphishekela ubuqiniso bethu. Jabulela unyaka omusha!

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