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Usuku Lukazwelonke Lwabantu Abafushane

Angikaze ngibe nethuba lokuba mude. Umama wami umi kumafidi angu-5 ncamashi, futhi ubaba wami ucishe abe ngamafidi angu-5 amayintshi angu-7. Ngenkathi ngiseyingane, umama wami wenza uhlobo oluthile lwezibalo olususelwe ekuphakameni kwabo okwanquma ukuthi ngizoba ama-intshi angu-5 nama-intshi angu-3, ​​okuyilokho engiyikho. Ngibe mude kangako kusukela esikoleni esiphakeme futhi, uma ngibheka kusuka kumama nogogo wami, ngizoba mfushane njengoba iminyaka ihamba. Ngakho, lokhu kuhle njengoba uthola.

Angikude kakhulu ekubeni “nobude obumaphakathi.” Ngokusho kuka-a ICenters for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) ibika kusukela ngo-2018, isilinganiso sabesifazane baseMelika abaneminyaka engu-20 nangaphezulu singamamitha angu-5 namayintshi angu-4. Kodwa ngangihlale ngimfushane! Ngangihlale ngibekwe phambili phakathi namakhonsathi esikole esikoleni samabanga aphansi, ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele ngilungise isihlalo lapho ngishayela imoto yomunye umuntu, futhi ngaphandle kokubeka izinyawo kancane, ukusethwa kwehhovisi akungikhululeki kimi (ukuze ngibeke isihlalo phezulu. ngokwanele ukuhlangabezana nedeski kahle, izinyawo zami ziyalenga kancane ngezansi). Abantu bangibize ngokuthi i-optical illusion ngoba angibukeki ngimfushane uma usuka kude, kodwa uma umi eduze kwami, ngimncane ngendlela emangalisayo. Kodwa ngiye ngamukela futhi ngamukele ubunjalo bami njengomuntu omfushane kunomuntu ovamile.

Ngizungezwe abantu abade endlini yami, okusho ukuthi ngihlale nginosizo lokufinyelela ezintweni. Umyeni wami unobude obungamafidi angu-6, cishe ubude kunami ngamafidi. Indodana yami yokutholwa, eneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye, imfushane kunami ngamasentimitha ambalwa nje! Mude kakhulu ngokweminyaka yakhe, kodwa kugqamisa ukuthi ANGIYONA. Uzenzele ezakhe izibalo ngokusekelwe eminyakeni yakhe nobude, futhi ukholelwa ukuthi uzogcina engu-6 amafidi namayintshi amane. Ngakho-ke, ngolunye usuku, uzophakama phezu kwami ​​ngendlela ecishe ibe yihlaya. Indodana yami yokutholwa encane nayo yinde ngokweminyaka yayo futhi ingaphezu kweningi lezingane eqenjini lakhe le-basketball.

Impela, ukuba mfushane kungaba nezinkinga zakho. Amabhulukwe amade ajwayelekile athengwe esitolo ngokuvamile adinga ukubhintshwa, isitulo siyadingeka ukuze kufinyelelwe emashalofini ekhabethe lasekhishini eliphakeme, futhi angisoze ngaba isihlabani se-basketball. Kodwa njengoba sigubha uSuku Lukazwelonke Lwabantu Abafushane, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi kukhona izinzuzo ezithile! Njengowesifazane, angikaze ngikhathazeke ngokuthi izithende eziphakeme zizongenza ngibe mude kunosuku lwami, ngezinye izikhathi ngiyakwazi ukugqoka amajazi osayizi wezingane okungaba okuthengekayo okuningi, futhi igumbi lezinyawo endizeni alikaze libe yinkinga yangempela. Ngakho-ke, ngilapha ukusho ukuthi ngithanda ukuba umuntu omfishane futhi, empeleni, ngeke ngibe nayo ngenye indlela.