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Ukuchuma, Hhayi Ukusinda: Uhambo Lokuphila kahle

By Daniela S, MA, PHR

Ukucwayiza kanye uma uke ufise ukuthi ungaphumelela esikhundleni sokuthi uphile. Siyakwamukela ekilabhini.

Mangikhulume iqiniso - ngiphumelele kakhulu ekusindeni. Ukunqoba ama-curveballs okuphila kuyinhlanhla yami. Kodwa ukuchuma ngokungaguquki nakuzo zonke izici zokuphila? Lokho kube wumzukuzuku kimina. Ukuba osindile kwaba yingxenye yobuwena, ibheji lokuhlonipha ebengilokhu ngiligqokile ngokuziqhenya (i-eye enkulu njengoba ngibhala lokhu). Ngisavame ukunamathela kumodi yami yokusinda ngoba ijwayelekile; kuzwakala “njengekhaya.” UDaniela The Survivor uzwakala kanje:

"Imifino, ama-shmegetables - okuthi [faka ukudla okugayiwe noma okushukela] kubiza igama lami."

"Ngingakwazi ukugijima kancane ukuze ngingalali inqobo nje uma ngizokwenza izinto."

"Sebenza phandle? Puhleese, umndeni wami/umsebenzi/abangane/izilwane ezifuywayo zingidinga kakhulu.”

"Isikhwama se-Skittles sithathwa njengesithelo sansuku zonke, akunjalo?"

Bese ngiyazibuza ukuthi kungani ngihlala ngikhathele, angikwazi ukugxila kahle, futhi ngiyahlanya kimi nakuwo wonke umuntu oseduze kwami.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uDaniela the Thriver kumnandi kakhulu ukuba seduze. Akanakho ukucindezeleka nganoma iyiphi indlela, kodwa ukuhlomele kangcono ukubhekana nezinselele ngomusa, ukuvumela injabulo nenjabulo ngisho nangezikhathi zobumnyama kakhulu. Uzimisele kakhulu lapho amandla akhe aya khona, ulawulwa imizwa, futhi usendaweni enempilo yokusebenzela labo abaseduze kwakhe.

Imuphi uDaniela ongakhetha ukuhlala naye? Ingqondo yami iyona ehamba phambili. Kodwa-ke, ngandlela thize ngizizwa nginamahloni ukuchuma, njengokungathi angifanele… kungumsebenzi oqhubekayo. Uma, nawe, ubheke ukwenza ushintsho lwengqondo ngamabomu lusuke ekusindeni luye ekuchumeni njengemodi yakho yokusebenza eyinhloko, ukuzibuza le mibuzo kungaba isiqalo esihle:

Kusho ukuthini ukuchuma kimina?

Ukuphumelela akukhona nje ukusinda; imayelana nokwamukela ukuphila ngokukhuthazela, injabulo, nenjongo. Yisimo lapho izinselelo zibhekana khona ngqo, futhi ukukhula kuba yindlela yokuphila.

Iyiphi indawo/izici zempilo yami engingachuma kuyo kakhudlwana?

Thatha uhlu oluphelele lwazo zonke izindawo: umndeni/abangane/impilo yothando, umphakathi, indawo ezungezile, ubumnandi nokuzilibazisa, impilo nokuqina, umsebenzi nomsebenzi, imali nezezimali, ingokomoya, ukukhula nokufunda. Khomba izindawo ezidinga amandla athuthukayo.

Yini emi endleleni yakho yokuphila impilo oyifunayo?

Noma ngabe izinkolelo ezikhawulelayo, imikhuba, noma izici zangaphandle, khomba izithiyo ezithiya uhambo lwakho lokuchuma. Ukuqwashisa kuyisinyathelo sokuqala soguquko.

Imaphi amasu ezempilo kanye nempilo enhle angangibeka endleleni eya ekuchumeni?

Hlola amasu akhuthaza inhlalakahle kuzo zonke izici zempilo yakho. Thola imikhuba ezondla umzimba wakho, ingqondo nomoya, kusukela ekuhlanzekeni kokulala kuya ekudleni okunengqondo.

Obani abayizibonelo zami ezihamba phambili? Yini engingayifunda kubo?

Bheka kulabo abakukhuthazayo ngokukhuthazela kwabo kanye nokushisekela ukuphila. Okwangempela noma okuqanjiwe, lawa mamodeli angakunikeza imininingwane kanye nogqozi njengoba uqala uhambo lwakho lwezempilo.

Bonga ingqondo nomzimba wakho ngokukusiza ukuthi usinde kuze kube manje. Manje, zikhumbuze ukuthi ufanelwe zonke izinto ezinhle ezikugcinele zona futhi uzinike imvume yokuchuma.

Ukushintsha kwami ​​​​kusuka ekusindeni kuya ekuchumeni kusaqhubeka futhi kuhlanganisa ukuzicabangela, izinguquko ezincane, ezingaguquki, nokuzibophezela okuvuselelwe enhlalakahleni yami. Ngiyakumema ukuthi uhlanganyele nami kulolu hambo. Noma ngabe ungumuntu osindile ongumakadebona noma oqala ukungabaza izinkambiso zakho zempilo, khumbula ukuthi ukuphumelela akulona iphupho elikude; kuwukukhetha okwenzayo nsuku zonke.

Ngakho-ke nakhu ukwamukela impilo lapho sichuma khona, hhayi nje ukusinda—ngoba sonke sifanele ukuphila impilo yethu engcono kakhulu, enempilo. Siyabonga ku-adventure yakho yokuphila kahle!

 

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